Hi jonojim,
Good to hear that you are now actively believing and desiring to know how to go from there. Now it seems like you are looking outward when all the time God is addressing our inward life. You see when we change on the inside then that affects the outward.
My suggestion is that you `listen` for the Lord`s nudging in your life as He highlights some attitude you have and ask Him to help you with that. You know when your conscience is saying something to you. Well, address that. And that is ongoing in all our lives as the Lord wants to make us like Himself.
You see as we address these attitudes we find that we get stronger, emotionally and spiritually. That in turn helps with relationships and we get guidance for our life. No good trying to use a leaking boat out to sea if water is pouring in. That is like having bad attitudes, our life, (boat) doesn`t float too well. Thus, God is about helping you to change your attitudes. And most we don`t even know we have until bit by bit the Lord helps us to see where we need to change.
Doors will open up as you start to walk on this great adventure with the Lord.
praying, Marilyn.