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What makes a guy tuck?

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This is a serious question, is it normal for a man to tuck his private part behind is legs to where it looks like a female genatalia? I'm not trying to be crude or humorous this is a very serious question... Thanks.

Just curious if you'll eventually drop the other shoe?
 
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I've seen a guy do it for a moment, just to be humorous. Not as a regular thing, ever.

Okay. Did you ever think it was odd? My husband done it once early on and although I understood he was being humorous I found it to be weird yet sort of intriguing because I had never fully encountered such a spectacle first hand.

Never checked to see if someone is tucking.
Doubt I'l start checking now.

Lol heh...

Just curious if you'll eventually drop the other shoe?

Lol well it's about my husband early on he did that... I wanted to not put the full story but I guess I better...

What makes a person question what makes a guy tuck? ;)

I suspect that only the guy doing that can give the genuine answer.

Well when I brought it up to my hubby he said he doesn't remember ever doing it yet he clearly did early on in our relationship... I felt like asking him because to this day I still don't know what on earth would drive a man to show his lady a tucked man hood.

I think this happened in Ace Venture, Pet Detective at the end when Ace came to the illogical conclusion that the female policeman was actually the football player in the case he was trying to solve. I don't think it's a normal thing.

I remember that part... So essentially I just got finkled and einhorned haha.

Silence of the Lambs

LOL she puts the lotion in the basket!
 
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What do you mean?

We don't seem to communicate well. :D

What I mean is ... putting the tucking in the context of the other behaviors your described in your other thread where you asked me what I meant ... my guess is that your husband is dealing with some fairly deep-seated issues.

Keep in mind, I'm making these assertions from who knows how far away over the Internet. I could be entirely wrong. On the other hand, I am exceptionally good at reading people and can often tell them things about themselves that they have never admitted to anyone - sometimes even to themselves.
 
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We don't seem to communicate well. :D

What I mean is ... putting the tucking in the context of the other behaviors your described in your other thread where you asked me what I meant ... my guess is that your husband is dealing with some fairly deep-seated issues.

Keep in mind, I'm making these assertions from who knows how far away over the Internet. I could be entirely wrong. On the other hand, I am exceptionally good at reading people and can often tell them things about themselves that they have never admitted to anyone - sometimes even to themselves.

I wish I knew what he's going through. I want to be a submissive Godly wife but it seems I fail at that every time... I feel as if I'm walking on egg shells. Being isolated is hurting me deep inside but I can't bring it up.
 
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I wish I knew what he's going through. I want to be a submissive Godly wife but it seems I fail at that every time... I feel as if I'm walking on egg shells. Being isolated is hurting me deep inside but I can't bring it up.

I know, easily said, but ... if you can't bring it up, give it up (to the Lord).
 
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Teslafied said:
Being isolated is hurting me deep inside but I can't bring it up.

How is a husband to "love in a Christ-like way" if he doesn't know what's bothering you?

Is your husband too volatile for you to bring things up like this (I'm sorry if I missed something)?

No matter which "model" you follow for marriage.....neither spouse ought to be living in an unhealthy way (imposed by the other spouse). We need our support of our friends and family we love (and who are healthy for us).
 
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