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What is your Myers-Briggs personality type?

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Why is that? Experiences with INFJ's? I love the ones that I have met and their kind hearts and wanting to good for the world.
B/c INFJs desire relationships but the introversion makes it hard
 
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B/c INFJs desire relationships but the introversion makes it hard

Actually, they are supposed to be boarder line extroverts. I have periods that I went into my shell, but overall people are surprised many times that I'm introvert. I have the ability to make imporomptu speeches in front of larger audiences. I'm often the center of organizing gatherings and introducing people. I can go into a room full of people that don't know each other and get the conversation flowing, yet there are times that I choose not to. I've met more women INFJ's that are better extroverts though than men. So I don't know if that helps if your looking for an INFJ female? Or did you say that you are an INFJ yourself? I didn't catch if you were?
 
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Actually, they are supposed to be boarder line extroverts. I have periods that I went into my shell, but overall people are surprised many times that I'm introvert. I have the ability to make imporomptu speeches in front of larger audiences. I'm often the center of organizing gatherings and introducing people. I can go into a room full of people that don't know each other and get the conversation flowing, yet there are times that I choose not to. I've met more women INFJ's that are better extroverts though than men. So I don't know if that helps if your looking for an INFJ female? Or did you say that you are an INFJ yourself? I didn't catch if you were?
Yes I am INFJ. I feel like it's tough b/c as an INFJ I'm too extroverted for the more introverted people & not extroverted enough for the more extroverted people. So that makes it hard.

Wow, you like giving impromptu speeches! That's impressive no matter what your MB is!
 
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Yes I am INFJ. I feel like it's tough b/c as an INFJ I'm too extroverted for the more introverted people & not extroverted enough for the more extroverted people. So that makes it hard.

Wow, you like giving impromptu speeches! That's impressive no matter what your MB is!
Yep, in high school I was much more introverted and really wanted to fit in and worked at it. In my speech class I had all the popular crowd that I felt were judging me, I thought how can I overcome this? So I learned a technique to look over their heads and then to look directly into their eyes as I talked. To my surprise I think they liked it and from that day forward it has just flowed. I'm really good at teaching classes too. Its like a new superpower i discovered I had when I was in high school. The largest audience I had was in Japan with a translator to 500 junior high school students. IT's like I just step into a costume when I'm giving speeches. My speech class in college I wrote my speeches in the car on the way to class.

Its one of the greatest fears most have. And I also overcame my fear of fish & sharks when I took up bodyboarding in Japan. I didn't realize it until I pointed at fish swimming around my feet to my mom and she looked at me shocked saying "you used to be scared of fish". Anythings possible if you put your creative mind to it, your an INFJ. There's a lot of thougths brewing there. Best picture I've seen is the iceberg below the water.
 
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