This is another one I answered at length and lost before I could finish and send it. And apparently CF didn't keep a draft. Argh! I'll try again, but this is getting tiresome.
I have not found your one specific irresistible gracious thing that God does (i.e. regenerate a man so that he can believe) in scripture.
Have you found where the fleshly nature cannot believe, cannot repent, cannot submit unless it is changed?
Paul says that the Gospel is the power of God unto salvation and Jesus says that the Holy Spirit convicts the world of sin, righteousness, and judgment - so put them together. You can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make him drink - God will not do for man what He commands him to do - i.e. repent.
Where do you see me saying God repents for man? This is not a horse being led to water —bad analogy.
Your cause and effect doctrine is just fatalism repackaged. There would be no need for a myriad of directives in the Bible if everything is predetermined. A man does not boast when he is drowning and is offered a life line.
Fatalism doesn't just say that everything is predetermined —it says that there is no use in doing anything, because everything is predetermined. Fatalism is bad logic. But apparently you hold to freewill because you see only fatalism as the alternative. Here you demonstrate that bad logic, with the claim that there would be no need for directives in the Bible, were everything predetermined.
Consider this proposition: There would be no use of the many directives in the Bible if freewill is independent of God's decree. I mean, why should God bother to give directives, since man is going to do what he is going to do anyway!
A drowning man most certainly does boast, after the crisis is over. "If I hadn't reached for that life preserver...!"
The first "and" term in
Ezekiel 18:31 shows a progression. Receipt of a new heart and a new spirit from God occurs in response to our repentance (cast away transgressions). You have it the other way around. Note that "Repent! Turn away from your offenses is also in the previous verse - order matters.
Ezekiel 18:30 “Therefore, you Israelites, I will judge each of you according to your own ways, declares the Sovereign Lord. Repent! Turn away from all your offenses; then sin will not be your downfall. 31 Rid yourselves of all the offenses you have committed,
and get a new heart and a new spirit. Why will you die, people of Israel?
No, it doesn't. At best it shows concurrence. You are adding to the text. Second, this, as the context shows, is about temporal punishment —the death penalty— and not about salvation.
Concerning works: Was Peter on the day of Pentecost promoting a works based salvation when he proclaimed Acts 2:38-39? In that passage Peter promises the remission of sins and gift of the Holy Spirit (this is arguably salvation) to those who repent and are baptized.
This is also arguably not salvation. Nevertheless, it doesn't mention HOW any of them are able to repent while still at enmity with God.
Jesus puts the responsibility squarely on men for their own eternal destiny.
Mark 16:16 He who believes and is baptized will be saved; but he who does not believe will be condemned.
No mention of how anyone is able to believe, while still at enmity with God.
Romans 10:17 says that faith comes from hearing the word of God - think of that as a form of grace given to men.
Indeed! One might be excused for thinking here that you support my view!
There is no scripture that says God regenerates man in order that he can repent.
Romans chapter 5 through chapter 8 would be a good start.
Likewise, and once again, Ephesians chapter 2.
Can you at least find scripture that says that man cannot repent while still at enmity with God? For eg, Romans 8:7-9; besides which, Rom 8:2 says that the way to life-set-free from that sin nature (of enmity with God) is the Spirit.