- Mar 21, 2018
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Brother, I understand. I'm sorry for the pressure and distress you are experiencing. I agree completely with your assessment. Such rules (and their haphazard enforcement) are NOT GOOD.But, my question still remains: Why make a rule (which he makes) and not enforce it? Where is the value to the community? It seems like it will only breed animosity among sheep and pastors. Some thinking others are too obedient and others thinking that those who aren't obedient aren't doing their jobs they were hired to do. And, the sheep suffering from a mixed set of standards that depends on who is your pastor, since the bishop doesn't enforce the rules he sets.
Thre final thoughts to hopefully encourage you:
- I trust that the words of James 1:2-4 will prove true in your life:
Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
Ask the Father how he wants to use this in your life to make you mature and complete - It's Jesus's Kingdom, not the bishops or yours. Ultimately you are responsible to him. "Cast your anxiety on him because he cares for you" (1 Peter 5:7)
- Prayerfully consider which of the following actions you might take:
- Doing what your bishop said to do (despite the discomfort) and talk to the other pastor candidly.
- Respectfully tell your bishop that you are not comfortable reprimanding a superior and ask him to do it instead.
- Step down from your position to prevent a "root of bitterness" from destroying your joy in Christ.
Ing Bee
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