Sex before a marriage ceremony really a sin, or is it sex when you are not in love with the person. I see alot of people saying that sex before marriage is horrible, but what is true marriage?
Are you saying that because my fiance and i are waiting until after we are done college to get married by the church, that we shouldn't have made love. Even though we know that we love each other and we are engaged. In my opinion we are already "married" because of the fact that we are in love and bound spiritually to each other. Just because we havent had an official ceremony doesn't mean that the bond isnt there any more than praying by yourself doesn't count unless there is a holyman there.
I believe that marriage is a spiritual binding and a sharing of love. The ceremony is just the celebration of that marriage. Sometimes it isnt as smart to get married as soon as you love each other. My fiance and i would like a nice wedding but such ceremonies cost money which we dont have. We would like to get finacially stable before we undergo such a celebration. Now we didnt just one day decide to lose our virginities and just go at it on the couch. No, instead we planned it out months ahead of time, all the while allowing our love to blossom and grow. When we made love it was an expression of the love that we had for each other, not just for pleasure.
Are you saying that because my fiance and i are waiting until after we are done college to get married by the church, that we shouldn't have made love. Even though we know that we love each other and we are engaged. In my opinion we are already "married" because of the fact that we are in love and bound spiritually to each other. Just because we havent had an official ceremony doesn't mean that the bond isnt there any more than praying by yourself doesn't count unless there is a holyman there.
I believe that marriage is a spiritual binding and a sharing of love. The ceremony is just the celebration of that marriage. Sometimes it isnt as smart to get married as soon as you love each other. My fiance and i would like a nice wedding but such ceremonies cost money which we dont have. We would like to get finacially stable before we undergo such a celebration. Now we didnt just one day decide to lose our virginities and just go at it on the couch. No, instead we planned it out months ahead of time, all the while allowing our love to blossom and grow. When we made love it was an expression of the love that we had for each other, not just for pleasure.