I'm really glad to hear that I'm not the only one that God works on. Last year, I went through one of the roughest trials I have ever been through. During that process God taught me the following things, and I will try to get them in the right order.
1. Don't talk negatively about people. If you have nothing good to say, keep quiet.
2. Pay attention to what you tell people. If you tell someone you are going to do something. Make sure you do it.
3. Words are very powerful. The right ones can heal, the wrong ones can kill.
4. Value your true Christian friends. The people that genuiely care for you and are there for you when you are at your lowest, and put you as a priority in their lives. Those are your true friends, a gift from God, take care of them, they are invaluable to you.
5. Have compassion on people. Tommorow you might need it.
6. Sow good, so you can reap it. If you sow bad you will reap it.
7. Apologize to those you have hurt, and done wrong. It will help to heal broken relationships.
8. Always tell people the truth. It will set you all free.
9. Forgive those who have hurt you. If not God won't forgive you.
10. Pray that God will bless those who have hurt you.
11. Put your relationship with God First in you life.
12. Be 100% honest when you talk to God. Tell him the depths of your heart. He will help you always.
13. Actively Seek God in your life. You will find Him!! Pray and Read the Bible all the time. Study and seek God's ways. Then apply it to your life.
14. Love God will all your heart. He is the true love of your life.