I had planned to yammer about the other Sacrament, the one that is more relevant to a church service, but it seems I'm not meant to, as every time I try, something gets in the way. I'll just name it instead: Holy Communion (the Eucharist, the Lord's Supper, call it whatever you like best.
I like best to call it what Scripture calls it here:
"The Lord's Supper"
I meant style of worship too, actually. What I meant to be brought to the forefront were those things by which we receive the grace to increase in faith: the Word and the Sacraments.
Good idea; I can never get to the point... woe to them to whom I should tell a story!
No, i'm sure I just need to expand my vocabulary

I bet your storytelling skills are excellent!
What I desire, I guess, is what I've said before. The Word and the Eucharist are central to the Church's actions, along with prayer and community.
So you feel that a "Church service" should consist of Scripture reading,
The Lord's Supper, and praying and fellowship.. Am I hearing you correctly?
These were the things that the believers in Acts were said to have devoted themselves to.
Oh, okay. I see what you're looking at:
42 They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship,
to the breaking of bread and to prayer. 43 Everyone was filled with awe
at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles.
44 All the believers were together and had everything in common.
45 They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need.
46 Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts.
They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and
sincere hearts, 47 praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people.
And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.
Yes, they did this EVERY DAY actually.
And ALSO, they sold their stuff to give to the poor...
The met daily, in the temple..
They ate together in their homes with sincere hearts..
Praising God !! Sounds amazing!!
Is that what your non evangelical churches do?
But in the Evangelical services of my experience, there wasn't much of that.
Which evangelical churches have you visited that did not pray and
celebrate the Lord's Supper or devote themselves to the Apostles
teachings and fellowship?
Because I've never been in one that doesn't, although my list is short
Even among the Restorationists, which have a weekly Communion (though it's taught as just a symbolic way to help you remember Jesus), it wasn't treated like a moment where we are "partakers of one Loaf", where we are made members of one another, where we "proclaim the death of the Lord," etc., it was just "that thing we do."
Oh, I see,.. they DID indeed celebrate the Lord's Supper, but they didn't
do it the way you felt that they should.
Is that correct?
The people had their own cliques and circles, and barely acknowledged the rest, even as they were supposed to have no "divisions" among them.
I have seen that! In every church I've attended all of my life.. be it
evangelical or otherwise, people are so ... "cliquey"
In fact, even the NT folks were guilty of that crap.
Nothing new under the sun
I suppose that individualism is the root of my objection. The mentality that it's ultimately all about me and my personal relationship with Jesus, so I don't really need anyone else.
How odd that they'd bother to meet together if they have such
a mentality of not needing each other.
What a waste of their time to get up get ready, fight the warfare to even
get to the church building when really, they're not interested in community...