Hello, I've been wanted to ask these questions for a few days now and I thought this would be the right thread to post them in. they're about Catholicism so I'd prefer a catholic reply, but anyone can reply to these questions if they want.
Q1. Catholics say a persons sins can be forgiven by a Catholic priest when they go to confession. They use John 20:23 as their prove. My question is, if a person goes to one of these priests then later it is found out that this priest was one of those paedophile priests and was secretly molesting children all the time he had been forgiving this persons sins and this person dies before finding out the truth, does this person sins remain unforgiving? If the priest chose to retain their sins do their sins remain retained?
I don't think the God I know would allow someone who molests children to have this kind of power.
Matt 18:6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.
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Sins are forgiven by God and not my anybody else. Yet Jesus did commission the apostles to forgive sins. What does that mean? The answer is found by a careful reading of the gospel. We can start with the Lord's prayer:
Matthew 6:9-14 ESV Pray then like this:
"Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name.
10 Your kingdom come,
your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.
11 Give us this day our daily bread,
12 and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13 And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.
14 For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, 15 but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
Verse 12 spell out the foundation for human being forgiving sins. If we do not forgive those who sin against us we cannot expect God to forgive us when we sin against him. Verses 14 & 15 add emphasis to what's said in verse 12.
Next the passage that you mentioned ought to be read and understood.
John 20:19-23 ESV On the evening of that day, the first day of the week, the doors being locked where the disciples were for fear of the Jews, Jesus came and stood among them and said to them, "Peace be with you." 20 When he had said this, he showed them his hands and his side. Then the disciples were glad when they saw the Lord. 21 Jesus said to them again, "Peace be with you. As the Father has sent me, even so I am sending you." 22 And when he had said this, he breathed on them and said to them, "Receive the Holy Spirit. 23 If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven them; if you withhold forgiveness from any, it is withheld."
What is happening here? Jesus commissions the apostles, at this time there are eleven because Judas has left his apostolic office, to bear his message. He sends them but he does not send them alone because he gives to them the Holy Spirit. He isn't giving them a symbolic promise of the Spirit who will be given on the day of Pentecost. In this passage he is giving to them the Spirit so that they can carry out the task that he is setting for them; namely, forgiving sins. Jesus is completing the ordination of the apostles that was begun at the last supper. The day of Pentecost will bring the Spirit to empower the disciples (not the apostles alone) to witness to Jerusalem, then in Judea and Samaria, and when to the whole world.
Next there is this passage:
James 5:16 ESV Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.
Confessing one's sins is not only for the ears of God in the privacy of your home or the secrecy of your room. It is also for your brothers and sisters and especially for the elders in your church.
These passages form part of the basis for the practise of confession in the rite of reconciliation.
You asked about paedophile priests hearing confession; as wicked as it is for a man to do what paedophiles do you ought not to think that God does not hear your confession nor that God will not forgive your sins because the man hearing what you say is wicked. His wickedness will bring its own proper consequences both in this life and in the next.
And should a priest refuse absolution when you confess your sins then if you are truly repentant for your sins the priests refusal is of no effect because no priest can refuse absolution to the penitent person who truly repents of his/her sins. Canon law forbids it, scripture too forbids it, and it is monstrous for any man to refuse absolution to the truly repentant person. So, if such a thing were to happen then the repentant person ought to (1) be assured that God has heard his confession and knows his heart and forgives his sins and (2) seek a different priest for confession from that time onwards. The person ought also raise the matter with his bishop because refusing absolution is a breach of canon law and priestly duty and may be a sign of other, and perhaps more serious, failures on the part of the priest who refused absolution.
I hope that helps clarify the issue.
PS: The Catechism of the Catholic Church has much to say on Confession and forgiveness. If you are willing then please read the following sections from the Catechism:
Only God forgives sin
1441 Only God forgives sins (Mk 2:7). Since he is the Son of God, Jesus says of himself, The Son of man has authority on earth to forgive sins ( Mk 2:5, 10; Lk 7:48) and exercises this divine power: Your sins are forgiven. Further, by virtue of his divine authority he gives this power to men to exercise in his name (Jn 20:21-23).
1442 Christ has willed that in her prayer and life and action his whole Church should be the sign and instrument of the forgiveness and reconciliation that he acquired for us at the price of his blood. But he entrusted the exercise of the power of absolution to the apostolic ministry which he charged with the ministry of reconciliation.(Cor 5:18) The apostle is sent out on behalf of Christ with God making his appeal through him and pleading: Be reconciled to God. (Cor 5:20)
1449 The formula of absolution used in the Latin Church expresses the essential elements of this sacrament: the Father of mercies is the source of all forgiveness. He effects the reconciliation of sinners through the Passover of his Son and the gift of his Spirit, through the prayer and ministry of the Church:
God, the Father of mercies,
through the death and the resurrection of his Son
has reconciled the world to himself
and sent the Holy Spirit among us
for the forgiveness of sins;
through the ministry of the Church
may God give you pardon and peace,
and I absolve you from your sins
in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.