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NeoTheOne

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I have known a girl from youth for like 1 year now she gave me her phone number 1 night and said for me to make sure i called her shes there to talk anytime she gave me her msn and everytime i come on msn she sas hey or how are you or hows was your week at youth and we talk about are life and troubles ect. Today she was on msn she said *Hey There Sailor* the we talked for abit again. but about 5 months ago she said she did not like anyone at youth but shes a outgoing person and i am abit shy but i realy like her what should i do to show her i like her without looking too stupid? . i could follow her around at youth lol or go up and talk to her allot ?

4 weeks ago at youth, she wanted the youth to pray about a girl, one of her friends because she was having problems with her family ect. I talked to her on msn that night she was just talking about how bad she felt about what her friend was going throu.

We talked for about 20 min about that and i said i have gone thou that stuff before ect and she seemed to open up to me allot about stuff then she told me she would tell me the problem with her friend and her family if i would not tell anyone els, she must trust me ? ever since then we seem to of had a better friendship about a week after that she asked me what i wanted to be when i got older and about my future ect she told me hers and i said what i wanted to be. We were at youth one time after that and there was like 6 six guys siting down on the floor and she just said hey whats up to me when she came around us and when we went to the youth camp she asked me to sit down next to her by the pool on one of the chairs when all the youth were swimming , everytime i walk in to youth on friday or bible study on tuesday she sas shes so glad i came.

another time when i did not go to youth for like 1 month because i had some problems with my life ect , when i came back she pulled me over and said dont stop coming to youth untill you have to go to college or somthing i said ok i will try too and she said i did not give you a choice and laphed and if she ever passes me when shes walking in a hallway or anything she allways says hey and she was talking to me one time and asked if i hanged out with one of my guy youth friends other than when i was at youth.

i know its long but does all this sound like she likes me ?
 

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Yes, if she gave you her number, she wants you to use it;) . If she wasn't interested she wouldn't have given it to you. Ask her if she wants to "hang out" and if she does you can hang out and go from there. I know from first hand experience that guys usually make the first move, and she might actually be disappointed that you arn't calling her. So give her a call. The worst she can say is "I'm busy", then you tell her to call you if she ever wants to do something.
 
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She definitely likes you. But be careful how you tread. You may be in the "friend" zone, and if you try to step beyond that things could get awkward very quickly! Trust me, I've been there :sorry:

Definitely call her and talk to her though. If she is interested in you, it shouldn't be that hard to figure out, and show her you're interested. First step is calling her :)
 
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I agree with fungku. But pray about it before you do. Trust the Lord!

Talk to her so you can find answers - just like the Lord - we talk to the Lord to find answers. Similar in this situation, you are finding an answer to your question - Does she like me? Then, if she does, in what way?, how? why?

You just have to be patient about how the relationship is going. Don't be too quick. Don't ask her out too quick. And if you do ask her out, ask your parents. " Respect Your Parents" is one of the ten commandments.
 
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my friend allready told her sister about me liking her so i dont know if her sister told her or not, but she said she would not , the funny thing is after he told her sister i saw her sister go over to talk to her i dont know if she was telling her or not after that she kinda talked to me different like more
 
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From what it sounds like, she likes you as a FRIEND and wants to hang out with you. But that does not mean that she wants to date you. The really outgoing girls have a habit of fooling the shy guys into thinking they are interested in more. Do not be a victim of that.
 
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By the looks of it, you're talking just like you're " friends " - which is really good.

Friendship will develop into a Boyfriend / girlfriend relationship at a suitable time. Only God knows about it.

It's really good that you have friends that are the opposite sex.

Remember what the Bible says about Love? " Love is Eternal " - 1 Corithians 13

So, Christians never hate each other - it is a sin. Christians love each other or should be no matter what kind of relationship you're in.

My advise is to treat her like a friend or treat her like a sister. Then, a closer relationship will form.

If she reads the bible, tell her to read 1 Corithians 13 - the chapter in the book of Corithians about Love. I just read it last night.

If you want a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship, you have to be patient. By the way you talk to her, that is not the boyfriend / girlfriend relationship.

With your friend talking to her sister thing - I just think you could ask her about it indirectly. But as I said, she won't hate you even if you said something bad - to me, what your friend said to her sister and she might of told her is really good. It's an upfront expression. It's your opinion about her. It's how you interpret her as a person.

Want some more help? Express it out. We have the freedom to.
 
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PapiJ said:
If you like the girl so much just ask her out

If your to scared of rejection you could even IM her

You could just be wasting time talking to us when you could be going out somewhere with her if youd just ask

First just be friends first and foremost. Not get too personal as well as just do "small talk". It will take both of you to open up. But if you keep at it, then you might take it from there.
 
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winglovesall said:
Yes, I think that is the case -

But we should be helping him with this.

Yes we all should both men and women alike!
 
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