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What do you tell someone, who, say, their young child dies of say, cancer, or something...?
Or something similar, and the person(s) whose child died, want answers, and they are angry with/at God, and it is interfering with their faith and trust in God and his (God's) goodness...?
They want to know "why"...?
What do you tell them, what would you tell them what the reason "why" was...?
I'll start...
I would tell them, as to why, I would start off telling them, "Well, what if your child died in a car accident by a drunk driver...? The reason why your child dies in that case is more clear, it is because the other person that killed them, chose to drink and drive and sin... And it is due to the person that killed them's (the drunk driver's) sins that your child died...
It is not too much different your child dying of cancer, just a little less clear... But, it happened because "someone" sinned... and that or those sins caused cancer to be in the world, and just like your child, or you, or "a", or one of your family members, or someone you know... someone you didn't even know and whom you knew nothing of their sins, (nor did they you or yours, nor knew you), in the case of a car accident, your child dies/died as a kind of "random consequence" of someone you don't even know, nor do they know you's, sins....
Just like the drunk driver was not expecting, or thinking of, or purposely setting out to kill your child, nor does diseases, like cancer, "purposely set out to specifically target" anyone, it just "is what it is" (cancer), and it does what it does (makes people sick and kills them)...
I can tell you that it is a result of someone, somewhere's, at some time(s), "sin" or sins... I cannot tell you why it specifically happened or had to happen to "your child" specifically... But, I do not think it was malice or malicious intent... Cancer is pretty indiscriminate, targets all people of all walks of life, in all kinds of circumstances, of any people group, and affects some of them, by their getting sick and dying in some cases...
Cancer, (the disease), is just "doing what it does", as a lifeform... It targets healthy cells in a person's body and makes those cells not healthy and the cancer itself, (as an entity or lifeform), is just "feeding" or "consuming" like all life does... and a virus or disease like cancer is a lifeform... and it (that lifeform, the cancer) may not even be aware that it is causing or doing any harm... Once it gets in a body, it acts much like other life does, and spreads and grows and consumes till it cannot any longer...
God did not tell or direct the cancer to target your child specifically, thou he did allow the cancer to exist as a part of our reality in a world that, due to sin, must be full of sickness, disease and death... until the sin problem in man, and in the world now, is resolved or fixed or is made no longer a factor...
It is harder to forgive it, when you can't even see, identify, or know the culprit, as it is a little easier (though not very easy) still a "little easier" to get to a point of forgiveness and forgiving the culprit who is guilty of killing your child, (due to their sin), it is at least a little easier to get past, in that case (sometimes)... But, when you can even put a face to the culprit, (like you can with a drunk driver), (but not so much with something like cancer), when you can't even put a face to the culprit, it is more difficult to get to a point of forgiveness so you can let go of the negative emotions for your own sake and move on or get past it...
But, whomever is to blame, even though you can't know, you must find a way to forgive it, and let go, for your own sake... God did not strike your child with cancer, in fact, no one did, just like the drunk driver did not set out to kill your child, but is a result of his or in the cancers case, "mankind's" sin(s)... God, in allowing the sin, has to also allow the sicknesses, diseases, and death caused by it them, but does not direct whom it targets, though he does know...
One day, the problem will be fixed... And, one day, you will get to see your child again, that is a promise of God that is 100% real and true... Make sure you get to go where they are and to be with them, when your time comes, in the meantime here, and not being able to let go of what happened, could hinder or interfere with your being able to see them again, and I know you, or they, do not want that...
God Bless!
What would you tell them as to "why"...?
I said one, do any of you have others (other reasons why)...?
Comments...?
Peace,
God Bless!
Or something similar, and the person(s) whose child died, want answers, and they are angry with/at God, and it is interfering with their faith and trust in God and his (God's) goodness...?
They want to know "why"...?
What do you tell them, what would you tell them what the reason "why" was...?
I'll start...
I would tell them, as to why, I would start off telling them, "Well, what if your child died in a car accident by a drunk driver...? The reason why your child dies in that case is more clear, it is because the other person that killed them, chose to drink and drive and sin... And it is due to the person that killed them's (the drunk driver's) sins that your child died...
It is not too much different your child dying of cancer, just a little less clear... But, it happened because "someone" sinned... and that or those sins caused cancer to be in the world, and just like your child, or you, or "a", or one of your family members, or someone you know... someone you didn't even know and whom you knew nothing of their sins, (nor did they you or yours, nor knew you), in the case of a car accident, your child dies/died as a kind of "random consequence" of someone you don't even know, nor do they know you's, sins....
Just like the drunk driver was not expecting, or thinking of, or purposely setting out to kill your child, nor does diseases, like cancer, "purposely set out to specifically target" anyone, it just "is what it is" (cancer), and it does what it does (makes people sick and kills them)...
I can tell you that it is a result of someone, somewhere's, at some time(s), "sin" or sins... I cannot tell you why it specifically happened or had to happen to "your child" specifically... But, I do not think it was malice or malicious intent... Cancer is pretty indiscriminate, targets all people of all walks of life, in all kinds of circumstances, of any people group, and affects some of them, by their getting sick and dying in some cases...
Cancer, (the disease), is just "doing what it does", as a lifeform... It targets healthy cells in a person's body and makes those cells not healthy and the cancer itself, (as an entity or lifeform), is just "feeding" or "consuming" like all life does... and a virus or disease like cancer is a lifeform... and it (that lifeform, the cancer) may not even be aware that it is causing or doing any harm... Once it gets in a body, it acts much like other life does, and spreads and grows and consumes till it cannot any longer...
God did not tell or direct the cancer to target your child specifically, thou he did allow the cancer to exist as a part of our reality in a world that, due to sin, must be full of sickness, disease and death... until the sin problem in man, and in the world now, is resolved or fixed or is made no longer a factor...
It is harder to forgive it, when you can't even see, identify, or know the culprit, as it is a little easier (though not very easy) still a "little easier" to get to a point of forgiveness and forgiving the culprit who is guilty of killing your child, (due to their sin), it is at least a little easier to get past, in that case (sometimes)... But, when you can even put a face to the culprit, (like you can with a drunk driver), (but not so much with something like cancer), when you can't even put a face to the culprit, it is more difficult to get to a point of forgiveness so you can let go of the negative emotions for your own sake and move on or get past it...
But, whomever is to blame, even though you can't know, you must find a way to forgive it, and let go, for your own sake... God did not strike your child with cancer, in fact, no one did, just like the drunk driver did not set out to kill your child, but is a result of his or in the cancers case, "mankind's" sin(s)... God, in allowing the sin, has to also allow the sicknesses, diseases, and death caused by it them, but does not direct whom it targets, though he does know...
One day, the problem will be fixed... And, one day, you will get to see your child again, that is a promise of God that is 100% real and true... Make sure you get to go where they are and to be with them, when your time comes, in the meantime here, and not being able to let go of what happened, could hinder or interfere with your being able to see them again, and I know you, or they, do not want that...
God Bless!
What would you tell them as to "why"...?
I said one, do any of you have others (other reasons why)...?
Comments...?
Peace,
God Bless!