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What do you believe is the root cause of homosexuality?

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I'ld rather get to the root cause of homophobia. It's easier.

Yes, it is easier. Homophobia can be traced back to the post Civil War period. Women were just stating to assert themselves. (Susan B Anthony, etc.)

Among their causes was a problem caused by "sporting gentlemen." These were leisure class men who had more money and time than they had morals.

One of their favorite "sports" was tomcatting with poor working-class and lower-class prostitutes. But it was no fun if the prostitute was too experienced, so they began seducing and raping young girls. They would then bribe their silence. If the girl complained, the authorities often sided with the "gentleman," citing the money offered as proof the girl was just another harlot.

Exposing and going after these "gentlemen" became a cause of the women's movement. It was one cause that the God-fearing men of the respectable classes could get behind. That turned up the heat on the "sporting gentlemen."

Some "sporting gentlemen owned, or were otherwise influential with a few newspapers. These papers started carrying yellow journalism pieces about how a new, dangerous breed of sodomites was preying on young boys. Boys of the respectable classes.

Homophobia began with the pedophile lie deliberately being spread by real molesters, just to get the heat off themselves.
 
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Homophobia's much, much older than that.

Not really. Harsh penalties for "unnatural sex," yes. But not organized pogroms on men for just being gay. (Mainly because there was no such thing "being gay")The concept of sexual orientaion was forgotten in the West for centuries because of the idea that same-sex attraction was willful evil.

Although I'm willing to entertain alternate views. I've even been known to adopt new ideas.

I'd recommend Homosexuality and Civilization for a good read.

Thanks for the suggestion. I'll check it out. And I'll let you know if it changes my mind.
 
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Ah.,..so the page you did the cut and paste from don’t actually have reverences ... so you don't have any evidnece at all


Just so you know A couple names attached to claims isn’t a reference. It is junk.

References include at a bare minimum the name of the study, the author(s)…full names... the journal said references was published in, the date of publication.
 
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Yep, that's it. I came to the realization that I was gay after spending years in denial, try to kill myself, go through another five years of emotional turmoil before starting to come to terms with it, finally get the courage to come out - and it's all because of "pride."

Yeah, now that's a credible explanation.
 
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I'ld rather get to the root cause of homophobia. It's easier.

Gay rights supporters generally use the terms "homophobia" and "homophobic" to imply that all opposition to homosexuality is irrational.

"Homophobia" is a jamming label that enunciates the gay-affirming political view of the word's user.

True "homophobia" from a clinical point of view is a useless term.

Homophobia is not a psychiatric term. There is no such thing as clinical homophobia
 
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Gay rights supporters generally use the terms "homophobia" and "homophobic" to imply that all opposition to homosexuality is irrational.
It is. There's no good reason for any opposition to homosexuality.

True "homophobia" from a clinical point of view is a useless term.

Homophobia is not a psychiatric term. There is no such thing as clinical homophobia
Yes, that's true. But "sexuality-ism" just doesn't have the same ring to it.
 
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I believe Homosexuality is caused by God as a means to deal with overpopulation

News flash.. that plan didn't work. Until recently, most gays were married to opposite sex partners and had kids. I'll be waiting on the next bright idea.

So Satan wants us all to be gay? Been watching a little too much South Park, have you?

lol i love SP
 
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Mmm...yes. Since almost all homosexuals are born to heterosexual parents.

Very good point.

I make a motion to hereby put a stop to ALL heterosexual sex in a last-ditch effort to curb the spread of homosexuals! ONLY homosexual sex is permitted. All those in favor....?
 
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I make a motion to hereby put a stop to ALL heterosexual sex in a last-ditch effort to curb the spread of homosexuals! ONLY homosexual sex is permitted. All those in favor....?
Can we make this only a rule for those heterosexuals who don't want to have homosexual children?

Because I don't want to stop having sexual intercourse with my husband just because some people are bigots. *wink*
 
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Can we make this only a rule for those heterosexuals who don't want to have homosexual children?

Because I don't want to stop having sexual intercourse with my husband just because some people are bigots. *wink*

No, because as we all know, homosexuals CHOOSE thier sinful LIFESTYLE, therefore there would be no way of knowing which babies would turn out gay. So, we can ONLY have gay sex -which of course could never result in children - and apply a perma-ban on ALL straight sex.
 
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What if I promise to use contraceptives? *wink*
 
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