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Of course, you're right.The answer the Bible gives us is that man's sinful nature is the root cause. It's the same nature that makes me want to have sex with every cute girl I see, that makes me want to cheat on my taxes, that makes me want to flip off the guy who got in my way and cut me off, etc. Sinful desire is so ingrained in us that it seems normal/natural. Agree with it or not, it is exactly what is said in the Bible.
Of course, if you aren't a Bible-believing Christian, you'll probably reject that answer.
I suspect that it's a combination of genetics, physiology and ubringing, though not in any combination we can understand at this time.
http://www.leaderu.com/jhs/socarides.htmlJust a poll.
EDIT: Sorry, I forgot to add an actual poll![]()
http://www.leaderu.com/jhs/socarides.html
In the Washington March for Gay Pride in 1993, they chanted, "We're here. We're queer. And we're coming after your children.""
http://www.leaderu.com/jhs/socarides.html
We know that obligatory homosexuals are caught up in unconscious adaptations to early childhood abuse and neglect and that, with insight into their earliest beginnings, they can change..."
In every single study where it is A) clear that the participants are probably homosexual, and not bisexual B) the participants are not members of reparative therapy programs in which they are in paid or unpaid staff positions, and C) sexual orientation is tested, rather than sexual behavior, no more than 4% of participants are able to change their sexual orientation. Even if we were to take Exodus International and other such groups' claims as true, despite the fact that they have no proof, we'd still have 70% of the lesbian, gay, and bisexual population unable to become heterosexual.
And not only that, but even the leaders of reparative therapy groups, such as Alan Chambers, or some of the founders of Exodus International, admit that their homosexual feelings never left them. In fact, the founders of Exodus admitted that the entire program was a sham.
"In 1972 and 1973 they co-opted the leadership of the American Psychiatric Association and, through a series of political maneuvers, lies and outright flim-flams, they "cured" homosexuality overnight-by fiat. They got the A.P.A. to say that same-sex sex was "not a disorder." It was merely "a condition"-as neutral as lefthandedness."
What actually happened is that homosexuality was defined by those "in need" of psychiatric help. Imagine for a moment that the only straight persons you visited were those in prison, in psychiatric wards, and those that visited you for depression, anxiety, and what-have-you. You might come to the conclusion that all straight people are horrifically imbalanced individuals.
It was the same thing here. But when one scientist was approached by a gay former student, who asked her to examine homosexuals in the population at large, she agreed. Upon studying homosexuals who were not incarcerated, committed, or mentally unstable in the first place, but those living out in the general population, it became apparent that none of the scientists were able to tell the difference between a healthy homosexual and a healthy straight person.
That is why homosexuality was removed, not because of "politics."
That book turned out to be the blueprint gay activists would use in their campaign to normalize the abnormal through a variety of brainwashing techniques once catalogued by Robert Jay Lifton in his seminal work, Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism: A Study of Brainwashing in China.
In their book Kirk and Madsen urged that gay activists adopt the very strategies that helped change the political face of the largest nation on earth. The authors knew the techniques had worked in China. All they needed was enough media-and enough money-to put them to work in the United States. And they did. These activists got the media and the money to radicalize America-by processes known as desensitization, jamming and conversion."
You should really take the compliment. They were actually more focused on copying the propaganda techniques used by those against them here.
And despite what you may believe, it is not the playbook for every single LGBT "activist" in the country. There's really not a monolithic group. There are a number of different groups with different ideas on how best to achieve the primary goals (legal, social, and economic parity). After the Ball is simply one such idea.
" Over the years, I found that those of my patients who really wanted to change could do so, by attaining the insight that comes with a good psychoanalysis."
He has two choices. He could publish his studies, become world famous overnight, and give a huge blow to the gay rights movement, or he could refuse to publish his studies, and continue making wild claims without any proof to back them up.
"...Now we are getting reports, even in such gay publications as The Journal of Homosexuality, that the gay-gene studies and the gay-brain studies do not stand up to critical analysis. (The author of one so-called "gay-gene theory" is under investigation by the National Institutes of Health for scientific fraud.)"
"This is one reason why psychoanalysis is the tool that gets us to the heart of everything. Once my patients have achieved an insight into these dynamics-and realized there is no moral fault involved in their longtime and mysterious need-they have moved rather quickly on the road to recovery. ..."
"Well, what are we to think when militant homosexuals seek to lower the age of consensual sexual intercourse between homosexual men and young boys to the age of 14 (as they did in Hawaii in 1993) or 16 (as they tried to do in England in 1994)? In the Washington March for Gay Pride in 1993, they chanted, "We're here. We're queer. And we're coming after your children.""
Do you consider the Ku Klux Klan as being representative of all white people?
Why, then, would you take a group of a few hundred perverts at a gay pride parade in a single city in a single year, out of the 8 - 16 million likely living in the United States?
http://www.leaderu.com/jhs/socarides.html
excerpts from an article that first appeared in
America
November 18, 1995
[bolds mine]
How America Went Gay
by Charles W. Socarides, M.D.
"For more than 20 years, I and a few of my colleagues in the field of psychoanalysis have felt like an embattled minority, because we have continued to insist, against today's conventional wisdom, that gays aren't born that way. We know that obligatory homosexuals are caught up in unconscious adaptations to early childhood abuse and neglect and that, with insight into their earliest beginnings, they can change..."
"In 1972 and 1973 they co-opted the leadership of the American Psychiatric Association and, through a series of political maneuvers, lies and outright flim-flams, they "cured" homosexuality overnight-by fiat. They got the A.P.A. to say that same-sex sex was "not a disorder." It was merely "a condition"-as neutral as lefthandedness. "
" ...After the Ball: How America Will Conquer its Fear and Hatred of Gays in the 1990's, by Marshall Kirk and Hunter Madsen.
That book turned out to be the blueprint gay activists would use in their campaign to normalize the abnormal through a variety of brainwashing techniques once catalogued by Robert Jay Lifton in his seminal work, Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism: A Study of Brainwashing in China.
In their book Kirk and Madsen urged that gay activists adopt the very strategies that helped change the political face of the largest nation on earth. The authors knew the techniques had worked in China. All they needed was enough media-and enough money-to put them to work in the United States. And they did. These activists got the media and the money to radicalize America-by processes known as desensitization, jamming and conversion."
"Excuse me. Gay is not good. Gay is not decidedly free. How do I know this? For more than 40 years, I have been in solidarity with hundreds of homosexuals, my patients, and I have spent most of my professional life engaged in exercising a kind of "pastoral care" on their behalf. But I do not help them by telling them they are O.K. when they are not O.K. ..."
" Over the years, I found that those of my patients who really wanted to change could do so, by attaining the insight that comes with a good psychoanalysis."
"...Now we are getting reports, even in such gay publications as The Journal of Homosexuality, that the gay-gene studies and the gay-brain studies do not stand up to critical analysis. (The author of one so-called "gay-gene theory" is under investigation by the National Institutes of Health for scientific fraud.)"
"This is one reason why psychoanalysis is the tool that gets us to the heart of everything. Once my patients have achieved an insight into these dynamics-and realized there is no moral fault involved in their longtime and mysterious need-they have moved rather quickly on the road to recovery. ..."
"Well, what are we to think when militant homosexuals seek to lower the age of consensual sexual intercourse between homosexual men and young boys to the age of 14 (as they did in Hawaii in 1993) or 16 (as they tried to do in England in 1994)? In the Washington March for Gay Pride in 1993, they chanted, "We're here. We're queer. And we're coming after your children.""
I remember hearing about a family of eight children, mixed boys and girls, and four of the children were gay. I believe it was one lesbian and two gay men. Really interesting. It leads me to believe that homosexuality is genetic. That's my belief, but you can never be sure.
http://www.leaderu.com/jhs/socarides.html
In every single study where it is A) clear that the participants are probably homosexual, and not bisexual B) the participants are not members of reparative therapy programs in which they are in paid or unpaid staff positions, [/quotes]
Money orientation is stronger than sex orientation -- good point good point.![]()
Why not go to a therapist instead of ex-gay ministry?
Go see a degreed and licensed therapist instead, like some on this forum have done -- and succeeded!!!!![]()
and C) sexual orientation is tested, rather than sexual behavior, no more than 4% of participants are able to change their sexual orientation.
Why didn't they change therapists?
Even if we were to take Exodus International and other such groups' claims as true, despite the fact that they have no proof, we'd still have 70% of the lesbian, gay, and bisexual population unable to become heterosexual.
Se a licensed thrapist insted -- they get results.![]()
And not only that, but even the leaders of reparative therapy groups, such as Alan Chambers, or some of the founders of Exodus International, admit that their homosexual feelings never left them. In fact, the founders of Exodus admitted that the entire program was a sham.
Feelings never leave anyone -- I'm an ex-substance abuser for 25 years. Yeah, I feel the urge every now and then, but I don't give in. Drugs are just an illusion of happiness.
What actually happened is that homosexuality was defined by those "in need" of psychiatric help. Imagine for a moment that the only straight persons you visited were those in prison, in psychiatric wards, and those that visited you for depression, anxiety, and what-have-you.
Ther are a lot of them there to. When my wife was a mental health nurse only about a quarter of the patients were gay or bisexual.
You might come to the conclusion that all straight people are horrifically imbalanced individuals.
I've noticed thatabout every gay I've ever seen has something a little off. The wife says the same thing. Something ain't working right. You can tell it before you find out they are gay. The APA changed all that in '74.
It was the same thing here. But when one scientist was approached by a gay former student, who asked her to examine homosexuals in the population at large, she agreed. Upon studying homosexuals who were not incarcerated, committed, or mentally unstable in the first place, but those living out in the general population, it became apparent that none of the scientists were able to tell the difference between a healthy homosexual and a healthy straight person.
How would they be able to tell? Listening to the patient talk? That's kind of like listening to paid staff from ex-gay ministry isn't it?
That is why homosexuality was removed, not because of "politics."
Sure it was. sure sure. and it isn't just gay that was removed from the APA's list.
You should really take the compliment. They were actually more focused on copying the propaganda techniques used by those against them here.
Nothing wrong with propaganda -- as long as it's honest.
And despite what you may believe, it is not the playbook for every single LGBT "activist" in the country. There's really not a monolithic group. There are a number of different groups with different ideas on how best to achieve the primary goals (legal, social, and economic parity). After the Ball is simply one such idea.
Why not let NAMBLA have their way?
He has two choices. He could publish his studies, become world famous overnight, and give a huge blow to the gay rights movement, or he could refuse to publish his studies, and continue making wild claims without any proof to back them up.
Meantime, ex-gay therapy just keeps going and going and going.
Do you consider the Ku Klux Klan as being representative of all white people?
Probably not, since white people been around longer.
Why, then, would you take a group of a few hundred perverts at a gay pride parade in a single city in a single year, out of the 8 - 16 million likely living in the United States?
I wonder if they were the same ones involved in the APA's gay coup d'etat back in '74.
Most therapists agree that homosexuality isn't a mental disability, and therefore, cannot be changed.Why not go to a therapist instead of ex-gay ministry?
I get the same feeling with fundies.I've noticed thatabout every gay I've ever seen has something a little off. The wife says the same thing. Something ain't working right.
There's always something wrong with spreading around loaded messages which take disparate facts and deliberately twisting them into misleading information.Nothing wrong with propaganda -- as long as it's honest.
Because they are pedophiles who prey on children. Nobody campaigning for them here.Why not let NAMBLA have their way?
Is that so? Because according to American Psychiatric Association, reparative therapy is useless and doesn't work. In fact, it is seen as potentially harmful. I find it very hard to believe that a country full of mental health professionals can all have some "gay agenda."Meantime, ex-gay therapy just keeps going and going and going.
Go see a degreed and licensed therapist instead, like some on this forum have done -- and succeeded!!!!![]()
I wonder if they were the same ones involved in the APA's gay coup d'etat back in '74.
"Well, what are we to think when militant homosexuals seek to lower the age of consensual sexual intercourse between homosexual men and young boys to the age of 14 (as they did in Hawaii in 1993) or 16 (as they tried to do in England in 1994)?
Money orientation is stronger than sex orientation -- good point good point.![]()
Why not go to a therapist instead of ex-gay ministry?
Go see a degreed and licensed therapist instead, like some on this forum have done -- and succeeded!!!!
Why didn't they change therapists?
Se a licensed thrapist insted -- they get results.
Ther are a lot of them there to. When my wife was a mental health nurse only about a quarter of the patients were gay or bisexual.
I've noticed thatabout every gay I've ever seen has something a little off. The wife says the same thing. Something ain't working right. You can tell it before you find out they are gay. The APA changed all that in '74.
How would they be able to tell? Listening to the patient talk? That's kind of like listening to paid staff from ex-gay ministry isn't it?
Nothing wrong with propaganda -- as long as it's honest.
Why not let NAMBLA have their way?
Meantime, ex-gay therapy just keeps going and going and going.
I wonder if they were the same ones involved in the APA's gay coup d'etat back in '74.
Money must be the motivation for reparative therapists to abandon their ethics and lie to patients about homosexuality and changing sexual oriention.Money orientation is stronger than sex orientation -- good point good point.![]()
Wow there are actual Christians here willing to claim they changed from homosexual (Kinsey scale 6) to heterosexual (Kinsey scale 0)???Why not go to a therapist instead of ex-gay ministry?
Go see a degreed and licensed therapist instead, like some on this forum have done -- and succeeded!!!!![]()
Those in reparative therapy usually do and end up with a therapist who doesnt lie to them about sexual oriention and helps them repair the damage done by reparative therapy.Why didn't they change therapists?
Lying and causing harm are results?Se a licensed thrapist insted -- they get results.![]()
Just like victims of reparative therapy, they dont actually change.Feelings never leave anyone -- I'm an ex-substance abuser for 25 years. Yeah, I feel the urge every now and then, but I don't give in. Drugs are just an illusion of happiness.
And for you to find this out she would have to violate privacy and confidentiality laws.Ther are a lot of them there to. When my wife was a mental health nurse only about a quarter of the patients were gay or bisexual.
I believe that Mumei is referring to the work of Evelyn Hooker. She presented healthy heterosexuals and healthy homosexuals to psychiatrists, despite the fantasy of homosexuals a little off and you can just tell the psychiatrists could not tell at all.I've noticed thatabout every gay I've ever seen has something a little off. The wife says the same thing. Something ain't working right. You can tell it before you find out they are gay. The APA changed all that in '74.
How would they be able to tell? Listening to the patient talk? That's kind of like listening to paid staff from ex-gay ministry isn't it?
Please present evidence to substantiate your claim that homosexuality was removed form the DSM because of politicsSure it was. sure sure. and it isn't just gay that was removed from the APA's list.
To bad the propaganda of ex-gay ministries and reparative therapies is chuck full of lies.Nothing wrong with propaganda -- as long as it's honest.
Why not let NAMBLA have their way?
So does the KKK that doesnt make the lies the tell about race true or the hate they preach good or moral.Meantime, ex-gay therapy just keeps going and going and going.
I will again ask for evidence even thou I dont believe for one second you will actually back up your claimsI wonder if they were the same ones involved in the APA's gay coup d'etat back in '74.
Money must be the motivation for reparative therapists to abandon their ethics and lie to patients about homosexuality and changing sexual oriention.
Wow there are actual Christians here willing to claim they changed from homosexual (Kinsey scale 6) to heterosexual (Kinsey scale 0)???
Amazing.
Please present evidence to substantiate your claim that homosexuality was removed form the DSM because of politics
The DSM.....Political science CAN BE a work of art.The DSM is more a political document than a scientific one. Decisions regarding inclusion or exclusion of disorders are made by majority vote rather than by indisputable scientific data.
- One telling example is the declassification of homosexuality as a mental disorder. Homosexuality was listed as a mental disorder in the DSM until 1974, when gay activists demonstrated in front of the American Psychiatric Association Convention. The APA's 1974 vote showed 5,854 members supporting and 3,810 opposing the disorder's removal from the manual. At that time, the American Psychiatric Association made headlines by announcing that it had decided homosexuality was no longer a mental illness. Voting on what constitutes mental illness is truly bizarre and, needless to say, is political and unscientific.
- External political pressure can result, apparently, in the inclusion of a diagnostic category. For example, PTSD was included in the DSM-III as a result of massive lobbying on its behalf by Vietnam vets and their supporters. Prior to that, PTSD sufferers were routinely diagnosed with character disorders.
- Due to a deadlock in gender politics, Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) was placed in the Appendix.
I will again ask for evidence even thou I dont believe for one second you will actually back up your claims
Then why is it that reparative therapy is condemned by every single major health, psychiatric, and pediatric organization in the country?
MacIntosh, H. (1995) Attitudes and Experiences of Psychoanalysts in Analyzing Homosexual Patients. Journal of the American Psychiatric Association 1183.
422 psychiatrists were asked if they had successfully treated homosexuals, and did they agree that a homosexual can be changed to heterosexual. Of the 285 responses, which involved 1,215 homosexuals, the survey stated that 23% changed to heterosexuality. 84% benefited significantly by reducing their attraction to other members of the same gender, with a decrease in homosexual activity.