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What do you believe is the root cause of homosexuality?

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I'm gay, and I've always wondered why I'm gay. Thankfully, I have experts here to tell me why I'm gay. Let's look at their theories.

you don’t think it is these things?
Mental or physical
Abuse, mistreatment, cruelty, ill-treatment, violence, maltreatment, neglect, exploitation, misuse,

Well, I was never mentally or physically abused, mistreated, exploited, or misused, so I don't think that this is correct.

emotional wounds

I have emotional wounds, certainly, but I don't see how these are related to my homosexuality. My "emotional wounds" stem from the teasing and derision I was treated with for being perceived as homosexual. They came after it was already clear that I was gay.

The answer the Bible gives us is that man's sinful nature is the root cause. It's the same nature that makes me want to have sex with every cute girl I see, that makes me want to cheat on my taxes, that makes me want to flip off the guy who got in my way and cut me off, etc. Sinful desire is so ingrained in us that it seems normal/natural. Agree with it or not, it is exactly what is said in the Bible.

Of course, if you aren't a Bible-believing Christian, you'll probably reject that answer.

Why then are only certain people gay? It isn't as though everyone struggles with it. Everyone struggles with lust, perhaps, but that doesn't answer why certain people are gay, always have been gay, and never lose those feelings.

White America.

Always bringing the black man down. Jerks.

Unfortunately, it seems as though we haven't come to a conclusion yet from those who deny any biological or genetic basis.

Any other bright ideas?
 
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I remember hearing about a family of eight children, mixed boys and girls, and four of the children were gay. I believe it was one lesbian and two gay men. Really interesting. It leads me to believe that homosexuality is genetic. That's my belief, but you can never be sure.
Neither your science nor your math add up. 2 + 1 = 4 :scratch:
 
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It's not "emotional wounds"...how would that even work??
I’ve heard the stereotype that lesbians were all victims of abuse by men so try to be more like men. It’s preposterous, of course.

My sister alone makes the lie of this idea; she’s never been abused (her attempts at heterosexuality were with very nice guys) fundamentally she’s a lesbian because she’s attracted to women pretty much exclusively. Also she loves corsets and wears skirts... so hardly the typical butch dyke you see in movies.
 
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The answer the Bible gives us is that man's sinful nature is the root cause. It's the same nature that makes me want to have sex with every cute girl I see, that makes me want to cheat on my taxes, that makes me want to flip off the guy who got in my way and cut me off, etc. Sinful desire is so ingrained in us that it seems normal/natural. Agree with it or not, it is exactly what is said in the Bible.

Of course, if you aren't a Bible-believing Christian, you'll probably reject that answer.
Correct :thumbsup:
 
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Doesn't explain anything.

Tell me why I never have lustful feelings towards women and you never have lustful feelings towards men. Explain why our lustful desires do not have the same "targets."

I also want to know how old he was when he "chose"to be a heterosexual!:)
 
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I’ve heard the stereotype that lesbians were all victims of abuse by men so try to be more like men. It’s preposterous, of course.

My sister alone makes the lie of this idea; she’s never been abused (her attempts at heterosexuality were with very nice guys) fundamentally she’s a lesbian because she’s attracted to women pretty much exclusively. Also she loves corsets and wears skirts... so hardly the typical butch dyke you see in movies.

Corsets are hawt. :p Does she live in texas?
 
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I suspect that it's a combination of genetics, physiology and ubringing, though not in any combination we can understand at this time.

Attraction is a tough thing to pin down. What makes me attracted to redheads?

Well duh, it is because red headed girls are hot.
 
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you don’t think it is these things?
Mental or physical
Abuse, mistreatment, cruelty, ill-treatment, violence, maltreatment, neglect, exploitation, misuse,

None of these things cause homosexuality.

Although some of these things are what homosexuals suffer at the hands of people who are anti-homosexual.
 
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The same thing that “causes” heterosexuality


agreed: somewhere along the line some choices are involved for many people, usually in the teen years.

and God knows how to make a pot:

Romans 9:21 Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honour, and another unto dishonour?
 
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