I really like my best guy friend and my other friend says that he likes me too based on the way he acts around me. I'm very shy so I can't tell him how I feel. What do I do?
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What do I do?
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Aw. I don't know what to say. But you can't just based someone's feelings from his actions. Sometimes, even they show some sweetness, it's still up to FRIENDS only 
However, if you're gonna want to step up a level, do you want to sacrifice your friendship?
However, if you're gonna want to step up a level, do you want to sacrifice your friendship?
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hmmm that's tricky. I can't say I have much experience in the matter, so please don't take my advice without asking other people too.
What I would do in the situation is sit him down and talk with him. Let him know you have feelings for him. If he says the same, youre good to go. If not, you can still just be friends. Of course, as I said I'm not too experienced in the whole dating thing.
What I would do in the situation is sit him down and talk with him. Let him know you have feelings for him. If he says the same, youre good to go. If not, you can still just be friends. Of course, as I said I'm not too experienced in the whole dating thing.
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I'm a believer in being truthful. I would sit down and talk with him, tell him that you don't want this to ruin the friendship in anyway, but you feel that he should know. Tell him how you feel, and like tpk said if he feels the same then you're good to go If he doesn't feel the same then it really shouldn't affect the friendship.
If he doesn't feel the same then it really shouldn't affect the friendship.
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wannabeswat
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I'm guessing your no longer with your boyfriend???
Just tell him. It doesn't have to be all serious sit down talk about everything, does it? If it all goes right you won't loose the friendship. If if it does alter it, fight to get it back
Just tell him. It doesn't have to be all serious sit down talk about everything, does it? If it all goes right you won't loose the friendship. If if it does alter it, fight to get it back
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deathbow21341
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In the past I told one of my best friends about how I was feeling about her. It really made things awkward. It was a huge mistake on my part. Really think about it before you do anything, do you really want to risk losing your friendship with this guy?
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I'm guessing your no longer with your boyfriend???
Just tell him. It doesn't have to be all serious sit down talk about everything, does it? If it all goes right you won't loose the friendship. If if it does alter it, fight to get it back
no, i'm not with my bf anymore. does it say that I am somewhere?
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Aw. I don't know what to say. But you can't just based someone's feelings from his actions. Sometimes, even they show some sweetness, it's still up to FRIENDS only
However, if you're gonna want to step up a level, do you want to sacrifice your friendship?
thats exactly what i'm scared of the most.
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If you like a guy, and tell him. And he freaks out and you lose the relationship, then the guy has problems and wasnt worth your time anyway. GO GET EM GIRL!
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secretshadows618
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The advice I give all the time is this:
Do you want to deal with the regret and the question of "what if" the rest of your life?
If he's a true friend and if the feeling isn't mutual it won't affect the friendship. If the feeling is mutual then you guys can go on from there.
Don't allow yourself to live in regret. If your shy think of a less direct but creative way to tell him how you feel.
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Do you want to deal with the regret and the question of "what if" the rest of your life?
If he's a true friend and if the feeling isn't mutual it won't affect the friendship. If the feeling is mutual then you guys can go on from there.
Don't allow yourself to live in regret. If your shy think of a less direct but creative way to tell him how you feel.
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I just told the girl I had a crush on for two years how I felt about her a few weeks ago.
long story short; I missed out on my chance as she now has feelings for her ex, the same guy she ended up dating after I didn't take my chance back when she liked me.
long story short; I missed out on my chance as she now has feelings for her ex, the same guy she ended up dating after I didn't take my chance back when she liked me.
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If you are as close to this guy mate as you are saying, I would almost be certain that the feeling is mutural. And even if he is not, most older (17+) guys are mature enough not to make the relationship awkward between you two.
I'd say go for it and let us know how it turns out
I'd say go for it and let us know how it turns out
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