Someone to raise kids with. I dont just want a wife/gf, I want someone to have children with. And I want to be a dad.
What else...
I want someone to better help me understand ME. There are a lot of things, both good AND bad, that I just cant see in myself, because Im coming at it from the viewpoint of me. It just is the way I am, and I dont think about it. I want someone who can show me those flaws and merits so I can become a better or at least more knowledgeable person.
I want someone to help me stretch the edges of my comfort zone, keep me trying new things, keep me from forgetting things I love/loved, to keep me from being complacent.
I want someone to share my sense of humor with ALL THE TIME. All those jokes and puns and whatnot I think of on the spur of the moment, some are with people, some are alone and I cant share em.
And I know all of these things are I wants and can make it sound like I want or need a slave, but the person I wind up wanting overall will be a natural foil to me in these areas. And I a natural foil to her.
Kids. New outlooks on life and myself. Less wasted time. Becoming cleaner (I tend to be more clean if I have someone to yell at me to clean up, even if they dont clean up my mess themselves. Case in point: college dorm rooms. They were much better when i was living with a roomie than when I had a single.)
A richer, fuller life.
And kids.

Metherion