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What are you doing right now? (4)

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Yeah I just don't understand it. If a guy cheats on you, it's a good sign they don't care about you and it should be a lot of major red flags, but you stay with him and still want to marry him? Makes NO sense. I've been talking with a lot of girls lately who stay with abusive, cheating men and they actually DEFEND them and their behavior. It confuses me. Worse yet, it frustrates me to no end.
 
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Hey Saucy,
Find out where he lives, beat down his door with a baseball bat..... have a bonfire, maybe roast his golden retriever...ROW ROW ROW RO RO.. and eat it, then go upstairs and grab him by his brooks brothers PJs ....... then ask "Do we have an understanding?" The Peter Blunt system.

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^_^^_^^_^ Randy Quaid in Caddy Shack II........ classic :D
 
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Watching a chick-flick on a Monday night. I'm so bored.


Also, I did a bit of research before on violent fantasies in a course before. It doesn't really surprise me that people are into that kind of stuff. I mean, evil's practically written in our blood.

There was also one book I read which said that there's a killer in all of us. Makes sense in allusion to Cain.

Pure evil loves destruction. Pure good loves creation.

Isn't it great though!?

It's teh end times baby.
 
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I guess it's really none of my business. I just think everyone deserves better than that. I've been abused most of my life by people and don't understand why people allow themselves to go through that and keep setting themselves up for more and more heartache. If he cheated on you once, he'll do it again and again. If he hits you, he has anger problems and will do it again. Do yourself a favor and GET OUT. You deserve SO much better.
 
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I guess it's really none of my business. I just think everyone deserves better than that. I've been abused most of my life by people and don't understand why people allow themselves to go through that and keep setting themselves up for more and more heartache. If he cheated on you once, he'll do it again and again. If he hits you, he has anger problems and will do it again. Do yourself a favor and GET OUT. You deserve SO much better.

Speak for yourself. If I find an abusive woman, I'm going to nurture her evil.
 
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I guess it's really none of my business. I just think everyone deserves better than that. I've been abused most of my life by people and don't understand why people allow themselves to go through that and keep setting themselves up for more and more heartache. If he cheated on you once, he'll do it again and again. If he hits you, he has anger problems and will do it again. Do yourself a favor and GET OUT. You deserve SO much better.


Agree with you but, some women don't feel they can do better, some grow up in a house with abuse and see it as the norm and others, like Mehguy says, like it.
 
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I guess it's really none of my business. I just think everyone deserves better than that. I've been abused most of my life by people and don't understand why people allow themselves to go through that and keep setting themselves up for more and more heartache. If he cheated on you once, he'll do it again and again. If he hits you, he has anger problems and will do it again. Do yourself a favor and GET OUT. You deserve SO much better.

Call it an addiction or fear. It's hard for some people to get out of it completely. Sad but true reality. Some people just can't see...
 
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Yeah I just don't understand it. If a guy cheats on you, it's a good sign they don't care about you and it should be a lot of major red flags, but you stay with him and still want to marry him? Makes NO sense. I've been talking with a lot of girls lately who stay with abusive, cheating men and they actually DEFEND them and their behavior. It confuses me. Worse yet, it frustrates me to no end.

what i do with my love life is of no concern to anyone but me though
and i rather like my relationship - not because hes great or some prince / princess fantasy people expect from someone, but because i love em :D
 
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