Zionsfriend and RND,
I can't deny that I have problems. My spiritual life is complicated and nuanced. Read my testimony in the testimony section. This may be a complete hallucination on my part, and undoubtedly some would say that it is, but I believe that God led me to the Seventh-day Adventist church by an uncanny and supernatural set of circumstances. I started believing some Adventist beliefs even before I ever heard of the church. When I read the Great Controversy (which is chock full of the EGW stuff progressives balk at), I was convinced that this was the truth and I needed to be baptized. Thing is, I hold a set of beliefs that most would call dyed-in-the-wool traditional, mainly because my experiences made me think God led me this way. Some very intelligent and spiritual progressive friends of mine have presented compelling evidences contrary to the doctrines I mentioned earlier. I just felt I had to be obedient to the vision- the vision God gave me. I know that sounds stubborn and close-minded, but as long as I could come up with plausible defenses, I stuck to what I originally believed because I felt God led me this way, and it seems unsafe for me to stray too far.
I'm not in this church because mommy and daddy dragged me here by my ear, or because some windy evangelist caught me in a weak moment. God put me here.
But what makes me different from a traditional is that I see the points the progressives make, and I understand perfectly why they believe that way- I don't judge them as if they're liberals or backsliders, or had a bad experience with someone in the church. I see a conscientious seeking for the truth in my Progressive friends that I respect, even though I have to follow the path it seems God has chosen for me.
RND, if you want to call it riding the fence, like I'm spineless or something, that's your opinion, and though I disagree, I probably can't change your mind. Sounds like you are teasing me for not joining the Trad debate team. And Zionsfriend, if you say, "I've found.." that moderates playing both sides to be politically-correct people pleasers, how did you find that? Did they tell you? Were you ever a moderate? Do you know me well enough to know I fit into that same mold? Jeremiah says "Who can know their own hearts?" Yet you know the hearts of others. Wow, brother, praise God for your spiritual gift!
I just believe in building bridges, not walls. I intend to be living proof that you can keep your faith and love and have fun and rewarding relationships with people who believe otherwise. Noboby's gonna tell me who I can be friends with and who I can't.