What a situation

[Kevin_Wright]

Well me and my baby's mother just broke up. She lives in another state. But we are both still really jealous of each other. I found out shes going on a date this friday. It makes me angry because I still love her, but we can't be together.

But at the same time, I've been on dates too. And I'm seeing other girls. So why do I feel this way? Its wierd I guess. I dont know why I'm even posting this. Just reaching out I guess.

So what are your thoughts on this clusterf***?

 

[Mrs. Luther073082]

I don't agree with dating right away after a breakup. It seems like it is either done to avoid dealing with the emotions of the breakup or to make the other person jealous. People need time to heal and it isn't fair to whoever you date when you haven't moved on from the other person yet. Also, trying to make the other person jealous by dating someone else -- yeah, that doesn't work out so well. Nothing says "I love you" like going out with another person.

 

[Blank123]

sounds like she was trying to make you jealous. I'm not sure why you should even know about her date unless that was the case, given how you live in separate states and all.

but yeah i agree with Melissa. dating right after a break-uo isn't a good idea. Its not fair to you, and its not fair to the girls you're dating.

 

[Kevin_Wright]

I see what u mean. At this point I'm just trying to make friends.