wedding night

[bella_song]

Im pretty void of most emotions, so Im lookin forward to having sex.

 

[Nostromadu]

Definitely the sex.... sorry, but I already feel emotionally intimate and connected with my girlfriend (who is the girl of my dreams). I know the sex on my wedding night will be amazing.

 

[JacobHall86]

Jk, although i am looking forward to the sex, mostly because I know I will already be connected with my wife, sex is only a small part of intimacy.

 

[UBERROGO]

To be perfectly candid, I was into both. But on the wedding night, emotional intimacy wasnt the adjective I would have used at that moment.

In retrospect, a 20 yr old has no buisness getting married in the USA where I live.

 

[tanya88]

I picked emotional connection. I think that the first time will be VERY emotional.

 

[Kirley]

I voted physical That was my first thought and I didn't take much time to focus on the answers. See, the emotional connection and intimacy is overall more important in the long run. But the way I see it, the major thing that the wedding night implies is being able to have sex with that person you already love and are already emotionally connected to but not physically. So yea, I look forward to that. That doesnt mean that's my reason for marriage. Like I said the emotional and spiritual respect is more important in the long run but I have to admit, I'd be looking forward to physical intimacy on my wedding night more than anything else.

. . . . . .Maybe I'm the only one really being honest??

. . . .Well, I really don't think I'm shallow. I just went with my first instinct.

B4A

no ur not being shallow

i put emotional/connection - cuz although i do have that and the physical stuff now and i'm unmarried i cant wait for the nite where i know for certain that i am going to spend the rest of my life with him and that we have made that promise and commitment - and i can be so excited that i am a wife and i have a husband hehe... and all that romantic stuff - then obviously i cant wait for the physical side becuz he will be my husband and i would imagine its guna be so much better to be married and to be like that with him...and yeh i just cant wait to marry my boy i love him soo much.

 

[jeffs_girl_2004]

We had waited so long to get married cause I was in school I was just glad that we were finally going to be able to be together forever, plus be able to get some rest. It made for a very long day and then we drove in the snow to the hotel so by the time we got there we were both just ready to relax with each other and sleep.