wedding night

[sweetlambofgod]

Course it will. OK, they'll know you HAD sex, but everyone knows the sex stops when the first child comes along

haha no way, not for me!

 

[Mr.Cheese]

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[sweetlambofgod]

married at age 7?

 

[bella_song]

On the idea of not having sex on your wedding night, after you've waited twenty some years....would it really kill me to wait one more night? Yeah I think it would.

 

[connectadot18]

LOL...you guys are funny!

 

[littlemrs]

I look forward to connecting with my hubby in a way that we've never been able to share before. I don't really have huge expectations as far as physical pleasure goes, as I've heard that the first time isn't usually all that memorable or mind-blowing, but knowing that my hubby and I will be able to share ourselves in such a special, intimate way sends chills up and down my spine!

 

[seamonster]

I was most looking forward to falling asleep! I was exhausted

 

[AceHero]

Back on topic...

Yeah, and don't return until you've had your first child. Wait, that's not going to change their perception either.

Just a little hint: Don't honeymoon in France.

Well thanks for the hint I guess. I don't want to honeymoon in Europe anyway, if we can afford a trip out of the country I want it to be somewhere really unique. And it's not about changing the perception, it's just...uncomfortable IMO that other people will be thinking that about your wedding night, even though there isn't anything wrong with it. Oh my goodness what is wrong with me! LOL. I know it's a little ridiculous, but Im glad that this thought has at least crossed other peoples minds as well.

Of course they're going to be thinking of your wedding night! Everyone at the wedding will be thinking about it, and probably especially those involved in the wedding. Heck, the receptionists at the hotel aren't dumb. If they see my hypothetical wife and me signing in wearing brand new shiny rings, and the next morning they see us exhaustively walk off the elevator, they'll know what happened. Hotels specialize in beds. And sleeping. And everything that occurs when you combine the two.

Your immediate family will probably be thinking about it the most, especially that of your parents. But I've always felt that while the parents of the groom are probably thinking the same thing, you know, being proud of their son, the parents of the bride will be thinking exactly the opposite.

Late at night or early in the morning:

Groom's Father: "That's my boy! He's getting lucky tonight after all these years of waiting!"

Bride's Father: "I think our daughter is getting deflowered as I speak."

 

[RonnyRulz]

I look forward to a billion different things, but what I don't look forward to is something like this:

Husband: “I swear that this doesn’t usually happen.”
Wife: “What, the 8 seconds of sex, or the 40 minutes of crying afterwards?”

LOL, jk, family guy quote

In all honesty, for me sex is just a physical pleasure that numbs an emotional emptiness inside me. I can say I'll be excited to have sex for the first time with my wife, but I honestly think my physical words don't express my heart. If I were to speak after thinking (Hmm, sex, that's a good thing.) then I'm going to say I'll look forward to that. But I know myself, and I know my heart, and I am one to just use sexual pleasure to avoid emotional unfulfillment, so in all honesty, speaking from my heart, I'm going to look forward to the emotional and spiritual connection with my wife, not at all the physical pleasure. Of course I'll enjoy it physically, but compared to emotionally and spiritually, I could care less about the physical part.

I'm going to look forward to this:

Sex will no longer be a physical escape from emptiness, but an emotional and spiritual fulfillment.

 

[Tuffguy]

Her making me a huge meal...... after.

 

[Picture.Of.Obedience]

Basically just being with my husband with no boundaries, just being close and knowing it's ok, good, and right.

me too!

 

[CavFan]

I look forward to both, but especially the emotional connection. The expression of love and total commitment.

 

[michelejosephine]

To the ladies... I know that you want this to be a great experience and all, but you understand that it will be uncomfortable right? Some may, some may not but that's what I understand from other girls.

Ok, I'm gonna respond to this and am in NO WAY promoting my previously unsaved lifestyle, but yes, while most girls say the first time for them is painful/messy/not fun, I cannot say that all of our first times were like that.

 

[michelejosephine]

Haha, I love that thought. You know others are thinking it: "I know what they'll be doing tonight." Dang right. I'll be ready to jump on her like a grasshoper! Rawr!

Well, gently of course.

LOLOLOLOL this post is just too funny to me!!!! But so cute at the same time!

 

[michelejosephine]

married at age 7?

ROTFL!!!!!!!! I'm DYING!!!!! LOLOLOL

 

[knownbeforetime]

I'd have to say the emotional connection would be most important. If I didn't have that connection, if there was a hint of mistrust, I wouldn't let him near me. IMHO, sex requires that the woman (I guess men too, but I'm not one of them) be in a place of vulnerability and that's hard for a lot of us... So yes, it will be wonderful to finally bear all to that guy that I trust second only to God.

 

[Assisi]

The thing I looked forward to most, and enjoyed the most, was being truly alone with my husband for the first time. The second best thing was not having to say goodbye when we said goodnight. It was really sweet.

 

[lunalinda]

I picked number two. To finally be with someone I'm committed to and who's committed to me? And to have sex as a seal of that commitment? Must be awesome. It's all about the emotion, the lack of regret, the sheer fact that I can embrace a union with open arms without second-guessing it all.

And yes, of course, I kinda expect the whole thing to be either awkward, painful, uncomfortable, or heck MAYBE the most awesome feeling ever, but it would also comfort me to know that the man I'm with won't leave me for it, that maybe he'll embrace that fact and be thrilled to learn with me.

 

[JacobHall86]

Im pretty void of most emotions, so Im lookin forward to having sex.

 

[lunalinda]

Late at night or early in the morning:

Groom's Father: "That's my boy! He's getting lucky tonight after all these years of waiting!"

Bride's Father: "I think our daughter is getting deflowered as I speak."

LOL!