But, as someone already pointed out, what about people who dislike the thought of marriage or have no intention of getting married?
I guess they expect them to remain celibate. Guess that means they'll be taking cold showers for the rest of their lives.
Unless there's an alternative.
Solo sex?That's one of the (many) failures of the abstinence-only movement: it assumes that everyone wants to/will get married. There's a lot of people out there who will never get married. There's a lot of people out there (myself included) who view marriage as an archaic tradition that has little relevance, now that people generally don't enter into marriage for economic reasons.
Its not safe, itll send you to HELL!!!'Abstinence Only' also typically teaches that masturbation, the safest form of sex there is, should be avoided.
If you don't think almost all men and women do this, then someone should splash water in your face.Personally I think any woman who compares her husband to past sexual partners obviously has no respect for her husband or her marriage.
A lot of truth there. It's okay the first time you have sex, my only experience with a virgin, but after that, I'd rather not.Yup. Once you've slept with a virgin once, you never want to again.
I was rather doubtful about this so I did Google search, and sure enough, it seems that if they don't say it should be avoided, they tend not to say anything about it at all. Interestingly enough, in my search I came across this little news item from last May.'Abstinence Only' also typically teaches that masturbation, the safest form of sex there is, should be avoided.
Whittingham said she found it quite unconscionable that an organization could suggest sharing such information with school students
Which is why kids grow up with unhealthy attitudes towards sex.
Thats right, nerds occasionally take surveys too!
Has anyone considered the legal ramifications. While in some places a 15/16 year old may be legal, as they grow (assuming their relationship sticks), it will become a 16/17 or 17/18 pairing, which can lead to the older one being considered a child molester for the rest of his life. I use his, because last I checked, if an underage guy has sex with an older woman, he is lucky, if an underage girl has sex with an older guy, she has been taken advantage of. So really, while maybe not saving it for marriage, what about saving it for 'older than an arbitrary age'?
but, especially in the case of young girls, since they're told that what they "really want" is love and marriage, when they hit puberty and the hormones start churning such that what they "really want" is, in fact, sex, they understandably can mistake one feeling for another and make dangerously poor decisions as a result.
Even if most do, that means some don't.
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