We Should Teach Our Teens To Wait Until Marriage For Sex
Over 50 Percent Of 15 To 19 Year Olds In America Admit To Having Oral Sex:
http://greatmarriagetips.blogspot.com/2008/07/another-reason-to-tell-our-teens-to.html
"Specific studies of sexual trends among Christian teens have been limited, but all indications are that, on average, there is little difference between their sexual behavior and that of non-Christian youths, other than a tendency to delay their first sexual experience slightly longer."
I'm taking "first sexual experience" to mean sexual intercourse.
At the time the above was written, 2003, the following stats were also provided about teens as a whole. (I assume that both the above and what follows are pretty contemporaneous.)
"According to the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health, which measures the responses of nearly 21,000 teens, males and females in the seventh through twelfth grades report having had intercourse just about equally: 39.9 percent of boys, 37.3 percent of girls.
[Both quotes:
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So, assuming a good number of Christian teens, if not most, have been taught to abstain from sex until marriage abstinence teaching doesn't appear to be very effective. And, as we all know, just because something is taught is absolutely no guarantee that it will be heeded. But go ahead and teach teens not to have sex before marriage, just don't expect much in the way of positive results greater than normal.
As for oral sex, I don't consider it to be the generally intended referent to "having sex." So, unless specifically included under the term "having sex," I exclude it.
And this points up one of the growing trends I've been noticing over the last several years. More and more, people don't seem to be able to bring themselves to say "sexual intercourse," preferring instead to hide behind "having sex." Gotta wonder about people sometimes.