This is one thing I think needs to be shared. Not everyone is going to be a Billy Graham, Kenneth Hagin, or Apostle Paul. I think sometimes we do ourselves a disservice by suggesting high expectations to our members. The vast majority of us are not constructed for public speaking... which frankly is the most important part of spreading the gospel. So what do you do? You relax. You follow your spirit. We all have gifts differing. There are no brainers. When it is time to lay hands on the sick... be there! Don't worry about what does or does not happen. Do it. When there is a deliverance session, where a demon is being dealt with... be there. Praying and interceding if nothing else. If there is a person in need for money... even if you only have a few dollars to give. Be there.
I wrote a book some years ago about the connection between being a Deacon and entering into your ministry. There is an interesting verse the Lord opened up to me:
This is an excerpt from the book "The Prophesying Deacon"
1Tim 3
13 For they that have used the office of a deacon well purchase to themselves a good degree, and great boldness in the faith which is in Christ Jesus.
The word "degree" here means a "step up" or graduation. The word "boldness" literally means a "fluency," "freedom" or "confidence" of speech. The Greek word for "boldness" here actually has the word "rheo" which means to "pour forth speech." This "fluency" and "pouring forth of speech" is "in the faith which is in Christ Jesus..." Faith is of the spirit, so this fluency and pouring forth of speech is going to be prophesying.
Look at the same wording used by Paul:
Ephesians 6:19 And for me, that utterance may be given unto me, that I may open my mouth boldly, to make known the mystery of the gospel,
This fluency of speech would cause him to "make known the mystery of the gospel."
The revelation of mysteries is a result of prophecy, as seen in 1 Corinthians 13:2
1Corinthians 13:2a
" And though I have [the gift of] prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge..."
And the usage in Philippians:
Philippians 1:14
And many of the brethren in the Lord, waxing confident by my bonds, are much more bold to speak the word without fear.
Again, Paul speaks of those who received this "fluency of speech" to speak the "LOGOS" without fear. The word "speech" here is the same word used in 1 Corinthians 2:13. The word carries with it the idea of "utterance" and speaking the "highest and holiest" of speech.
1 Corinthians 2
13 Which things also we speak, not in the words which man's wisdom teacheth, but which the Holy Ghost teacheth; comparing spiritual things with spiritual.
The point in all this is that this "fluency" and "pouring forth of speech" can be obtained by fulfilling the duties of a deacon. This can be seen in the life of Stephen and Philip, who started our waiting on tables, and ended up preaching and doing some of the most amazing things in the new testament.
(Acts Chapters 6,8,21)
If you truly desire these manifestations, you will begin with deacon or servantry work. There is a connection here in that your compassion for people and their needs will begin to grow. As your compassion grows along with your faith, the spirit of Christ in your will speak forth words to minister to the needs of the body. But you will start small. Do not expect to move mountains or raise the dead in one day. Grow in compassion and faith each day. This is a life long activity.
Start with the no-brainers. Do the things you know to do. You will receive a "step up" and graduate to bigger things.