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my encouragement for you is just enjoy something
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God is Faithful.
 
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i've been thinking about this conversation in depression recovery: i know some of you are aware i was in therepy. i just want to point this out....that my healling from SI became before therepy. i still have mental health issues. the therepy has really helped there. but i know that the therepy would have helped me fight SI and ED and depression.

:clap: music please....
OUR GOD IS AN AWESOME GOD....

 
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Ephesians 6:10-18
10 Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might.
11 Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.
12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
14 Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;
15 and having shod you feet with the preparationof the gospel of peace;
16 above all, taking the sheild of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one.
17 and take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the spirit which is the word of God.
18 praying always with prater and supplication in the spirit, being watchful to this end with all perserverance and supplication for all the saints.
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The promises of God are all over the bible. He is never going to break His Word or take it back. You can have confidence that everything He promises you in His Word you can receive. All you have to do is ask. He promises you health and healing; the Holy Spirit, happiness, hope, eternal life, freedom, goodness, mercy, all good things are yours now through Jesus Christ. :clap:
 
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rdee said:
Living Sacrifices .....
1 Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God–this is your spiritual act of worship. 2 Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is–his good, pleasing and perfect will.
3 For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you. 4 Just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, 5 so in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. 6 We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. 7 If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; 8 if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully. 9 Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. 10 Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. 11 Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. 12 Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. 13 Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality.

14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. 15 Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. 16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. 17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. 18If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19 Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,”says the Lord. 20 On the contrary: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

:hug: hey everyone! i just wanted to say that trying to learn about God and His will is pleasing. you are pleasing God by wanting, searching and fellowshipping in His will. YOU are pleasing God by excepting His gift of Jesus. re-newing your mind is learning and becoming new in your ways. you are excepted the same by Christ no matter how much or little you know. we are all different, and must work towards being pleasing and loving to eachother.... we belong to the other members of God's family. i will i could share all of God's words with you. there is so many lovely things to learn. :hug:

:preach: have you been re-newing your mind and filling up on spititaul armor? :angel:
 
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Hi Bevlina :hug: .....
i'm so happy..... and i could tell by your cyber countenance :D .... God is so good to us. i'm posting more scriptures because i keep getting asked "how does God talk to you?" ..... it made me realize that all of this concern and care means nothing without helping my friends and family see how the word of God is our sword and the door to hearing God in our spirits. i don't feel comfortable preaching at people. but i want to share the good news. i hope i get better at this. making people upset or hurting feelings, makes me feel terrible. do you think me posting stuff on one thread is much politer? :confused: there are some who pm me asking for scripture. i pray about my actions and the reception. :hug: i'll post this so the softer side of dee is seen.
:wave: hello peepers! if you have feed back; pop me a note or post. :groupray: love dee
 
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Key Resource #1. scripture: the sword of Holy Spirit ..... :holy: !!

Ephesians 6:10-12
10 Finally, be strong in the Lord, and in the strength of His might.
11 Put on the full armor of God, that you may be able to stand firm
against the schemes of the devil. 12 For our struggle is not against
flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against
the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of
wickedness in the heavenly places.We are in an invisible war.

13 Therefore, take up the full armor of God, that you may be able to resist in the evil day, and having done everything, to stand firm.14 Stand firm therefore, having girded your loins with truth, andhaving put on the breastplate of righteousness, 15 and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace; We are to prepare ourselves for battle.We are to prepare ourselves for battle.16 in addition to all, taking up the shield of faith with which you will be able to extinguish all the flaming missiles of the evil one.17And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit,
which is the word of God. When we resist the enemy, he will flee from us.

18 With all prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance and petition for all the saints, 19 and pray on my behalf, that utterance may be given to me in the opening of my mouth, to make known with boldness the mystery of the gospel, 20 for which I am an ambassador in chains; that in proclaiming it I may speak boldly, as I ought to speak.


1. “Having girded your loins with truth”

“Truth” = Candor, sincerity, truthfulness rooted in the

objective reality of the truth of God’s Word, but here refers to
the subjective practical application of openness and honesty
in all things with God and men.
Satan’s first attack on mankind was deception, which was
followed by man’s hiding, denial, and blame-shifting.

2. “Having put on the breastplate which is righteousness”

“Righteousness” = Uprightness, right living, integrity in
one’s lifestyle and character – conforming of our will with
God’s will. Although rooted in the object righteousness that
we already possess in our standing before God through the
work of Christ, this breastplate of righteousness (that guards
and protects our heart) is the practical application of the
truth to our lives – i.e. Lordship of Christ.
Satan’s attacks are not merely deception, but accusation
(resulting in guilt and condemnation) of the believer. When
we willfully turn away from what we know is God’s will, we
open ourselves to demonic attack.

3. “Having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace”

“Preparation” = Establishment – the means of a firm
foundation; also conveys the idea of readiness to share the
Gospel which brings peace between man and God.
Satan not only uses deception and condemnation to
neutralize believers, but also specializes in casting doubt
on the very basis of God’s goodness and the means by
which we have received it – the Gospel.


Prayer has a direct impact on spiritual warfare. Mark 9:29 ... :prayer: !!!
 
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rdee said:
Hi Bevlina :hug: .....
i'm so happy..... and i could tell by your cyber countenance :D .... God is so good to us. i'm posting more scriptures because i keep getting asked "how does God talk to you?" ..... it made me realize that all of this concern and care means nothing without helping my friends and family see how the word of God is our sword and the door to hearing God in our spirits. i don't feel comfortable preaching at people. but i want to share the good news. i hope i get better at this. making people upset or hurting feelings, makes me feel terrible. do you think me posting stuff on one thread is much politer? :confused: there are some who pm me asking for scripture. i pray about my actions and the reception. :hug: i'll post this so the softer side of dee is seen.
:wave: hello peepers! if you have feed back; pop me a note or post. :groupray: love dee

i like the things you post. i dont understand them much but i like reading them anyway. i like that they are in 1 post so i can find them when i want and so that i can avoid them when im mad at God or cant deal with the frustration this stuff causes inside. i hope this made sense. really i just want to say thankyou for posting and helping us.

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:clap: :hug: did somebody say warm fuzzies??? :hug: :clap:


:preach: warm fuzzies are better than hot coca with marshmellows :yum: :holy: !!!
Stress is a natural response to some situations. Stress is manageable. Recognizing your own warning signs is realizing your limits. When you can identify your limits, then you know what therapy you need. Do you just need to slow down and relax? Do you need prayer? Do you need someone to talk to? Should you distract yourself until you can refocus? Do you need to try all of these? Make a list of unhealthy habits you need to avoid when feeling under stress. Remember that that naming your behavior patterns is the first step to taking control of your feelings. The next step is to practice coping in healthy ways. Then....................... Practice....................... Practice....................... Practice....... Focus each time on what you are doing right, the positives of your dealing and managing. Knowing about your patterns will help you to see these things clearly.




. Freedom from suffering requires ACCEPTANCE .

. Let yourself go completely with what is. Let go of fighting reality.

.ACCEPTANCE is a good way out of depression.

. Pain creates suffering only when you refuse to ACCEPT the pain. Deciding to tolerate the moment is ACCEPTANCE.

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To ACCEPT something is not the same as judging it good.


Replace Willfulness with Willingness’...

. Willfulness is SITTING ON YOUR HANDS when action is needed, refusing to
make changes that are needed.

. Willfulness is GIVING UP.

. Willfulness is the OPPOSITE OF "DOING WHAT WORKS:' being effective.

. Willfulness is trying to FIX every situation.

. Willfulness is REFUSING TO TOLERATE the moment.


except and manage......:hug: God blesses our endurance.

James 1
12 Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him. 13 Let no one say when he is tempted, "I am tempted by God"; for God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does He Himself tempt anyone. 14 But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. 15 Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, brings forth
death.
 
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Romans 12:1-2
I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. 2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God. :hug:

:angel: practice... practice... practice!!

are you aware that the time you spend learning about God, His will, and enduring hardships, and fighting the urge to hurt yourself is "transformed by the renewing of your mind" ... so you draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you. :angel: :thumbsup:

James 4:8
Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded.
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Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
Philippians 4:8
 
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leigh sweet little angel :hug: talk to God. just because you are a child, doesn't mean God too big to understand. read your bible sweetheart and ask God to show you His love and comfort. :hug: people can let you down, but God will not. and even with someone to talk to, only God has the answers to fill you with purpose and joy.

Romans 11:36 For of Him and through Him and to Him are all things, to whom be glory forever. Amen.

Ephesians 1:5 having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will,


Philippians 2:13 for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure.

2 Thessalonians 2:12 that they all may be condemned who did not believe the truth but had pleasure in unrighteousness.

HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHAT THESE MEAN?

i saw a baby today, she was round and bubbly, blond curls and big gray eyes. she had a few little teeth poking up, and was taking her chubby fingers and BLAH.. BLAH.. BLAHing her bottom lip. it was funny and cute. i felt a marvelous and perfect joy swell up in my mommy heart. what a "little angel" i said. :angel: God sees us this way. we bring Him joy. all joy is from Him in creation. and He desires joy for us all. so ofcourse He is the king of glory.
later, having a tough day, my hubby came up and massaged my shoulders and fed me some milk chocolate. :blush: i realized that my husband is made for me. he loves me, cares for me, finds pleasure in me. i realized that we all have a place and bring joy to one another... fellowship, joy, blessings. these scriptures came to my mind; and i remembered that adorable baby.
God sees us this way. we bring Him joy. all joy is from Him in creation. and He desires joy for us all. so ofcourse He is the king of glory.
so all the good God is. all the love He brought to us, and the price Christ paid for us. God created us, and calls us the first fruits of His creation... His children..... and He has made Himself everything to us... King, Father, God, Friend, Savior; :bow: all of these things give glory and joy.... why not seek His will?
 
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I am amazed at the number of people I meet who deny their emotional responses to the situations they encounter. They with social labels: like it is weak for a person to cry, a flaw for a person to feel anger or to express disappointment, a lack of self-control for a person to laugh aloud. they also pent up emotions because they do not understand the release, just the uncomfort of not being taught that this is ok. people are missing out on the fullness of what it means to be alive. An expression of emotion is a part of what makes us human. Emotions are a gift of God, who created each of us with a capacity to feel and to express emotions. emotions are vital to our ability to communicate to others and exspress the inner sinsitivity or joy of our personalities. They are also a means of responding to God........
so to God, and people, and to life in general. For most of us exspessing deep feelings are uncharted territories. We are unsure of the language of emotions. neglect of nurturing or fears to explore areas of the inner life. Understand that God made you to have feelings. He has a desire for you to experience His presence with your emotions, to express yourself emotionally, and to have an emotional relationship with other people. your exspressions of emoitions helps make you emotionally whole!

:hug: I love you.
 
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these words are from
Phillips Craig & Dean - "Friend Of God"
From the album Let the Worshippers Arise

Who am I that You are mindful of me?
That You hear me when I call
Is it true that You are thinking of me?
How You love me;
It’s amazing...


"I am a friend of God"

God Almighty;
Lord of Glory;
You have called me friend.

http://www.klove.com/

great online station... no preaching or comercials, just praise (hourly news break 5 minutes).

you want to feed your soul when you are troubled? in the old testement the kings listened to music. praise and worship is comforting.

David wrote the famous psalms of the bible: and the bible describes him as "a man after God's heart"
 
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