Wanting another after Tubal

[ThisBloodsforU]

Ten years ago after the birth of my third daughter I had a tubal ligation. (I am 36 now) I sorely regret having done this and I wish so badly to have another baby. Should I try to scrape up the money for a reversal? Should I wait and see if God will mend my tubes for me? Should I just accept the mistake I made and try to move on? I'm just looking for advice. I don't know what God wants from me concerning this. Thank you!

Cher

 

[Jemma]

I don't think this is anything anybody can advise you on. This is just my personal opinion. We cannot say what God's will for you is. It's something that you can pray about and wait for an answer.

I'm sorry I'm not giving more clarification than that. It's such a huge decision and I couldn't presume to say what God would want for you and your life.

I really feel for you, and I pray that you will find out soon what God wants for you.

 

[ThisBloodsforU]

Thank you. I just want to apologize if this was not the proper place for my post. I realize that some of you might be having trouble conceiving, etc and my "problem" just pales in comparison AND it's of my own doing. I realized this after I posted here and then I went and posted in Quiverfull.

 

[Jemma]

Thank you. I just want to apologize if this was not the proper place for my post. I realize that some of you might be having trouble conceiving, etc and my "problem" just pales in comparison AND it's of my own doing. I realized this after I posted here and then I went and posted in Quiverfull.

IMO, I don't think it was wrong of you to post here. If anything, we can all understand your desires for another child. I'm happy to offer support in these circumstances. I speak only for myself.

 

[ksdedee74]

I agree with Jemma, at times I feel so frustrated because I have children and I feel out of place being so upset about not having more. I feel that I am somehow don't belong with the ladies who have never been able to convieve. But they have been wonderful and welcoming. We all understand the desire for a child. We all understand the frustration of not being able to Concieve either because of what we have done to ourselves or otherwise.