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Unsaved guy is that right!

Discussion in 'Singles (Only*)' started by Tangi, May 12, 2005.

  1. Tangi

    Tangi Senior Contributor

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    this guy I knew back then...the things just started to get seriuos ...he is not saved and I am not ready to be in a relationship with an unsaved man because My sister is pregnant and her b.friend is not saved.

    I thought I wont get in a relationship until I am on my own (I am a univeristy student). I just do not wanna make this mistake but what I feel for this guy is real. He is well mannered, down to earth who understand How as a Christian I live my life.

    I am just confused...I cant ask my youth pastor at this point. I know what the bible says about light and darkness.
    Do you have any advice
     
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  2. Stanfi

    Stanfi Senior Veteran

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    I recommend staying away.
     
  3. chanis

    chanis "scru mpt rule cent ...&a

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    yeah totaly agree with mrstace stay away you don't want to get into something you know isn't right...remember it's easier for you to fall away then to bring them into the light of christ...
     
  4. Tenorvoice

    Tenorvoice Give me Liberty ...Or a pie in the face

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    I only have "one" word of advice for you my dear.




    RUN!!!!!!

    dont even get involved with a non-beliver. The Bible explicitly speaks against this. You will miss soo many blessings from GOd if you get invloved with them.

    PLEASE I humbly ask you to stop this relationship before it goes to far.:prayer:

    God Bless In Christ Jesus

    Tenor
     
  5. Sketcher

    Sketcher Born Imperishable

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    I recommend staying with the Bible. God put it there for a reason, and a couple of my friends found out the hard way. I wouldn't wish that on you.
     
  6. JPPT1974

    JPPT1974 October Skies

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    But also pray for his salvation that He gets right and accepts the Lord as His Savior & Lord.
     
  7. justasinner

    justasinner Regular Member

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    A little different point of view.

    Since, he understands some of your views of Christian and he is unsaved maybe your initial relationship with him is to help lead him to the light.

    Then afterwards the two of you might start a romantic relationship that is based in Christ. Which also mean that once you finish your degree if the two of you are still a couple then you may take the next step and get married.

    Of course, God may only allow you to help this guy become saved. So, you should pray on this.

    The test for him is can he become a Christian and walk with Christ the way you and God want him to. And the test for you is can you lead him to the light while not giving in on temptation. I know it is hard but there are a few lady that can do this and you may be one. So, again pray for an answer.

    Also, do not run away or forsake this guy, without reasons based on an answer from God. You never know what God has in store for you and him. What lessons or aid that the two of you may provide together or to others in the future.
     
  8. Tangi

    Tangi Senior Contributor

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    Justasinner, I have been praying that God use me to bring light in his world...I am still praying. Things just start to move since last week but I still feel I am a freind to him.

    Even though he told me the love thing. I am going to pray more and more ...I do not care wether at the end the Holy spirit may reveal to him his intentions were real. But I am asking God to use me for his salvation.

    Thank you so much....
     
  9. PastorJer

    PastorJer Senior Veteran

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    Tangi

    I would strongly suggest that you read the following - it is the only 2 places that I know of in the Bible that speak to your situation. I am sure that if you were to talk to your Youth Pastor he would suggest these passages as well. Read over them and ask God to show you what it is that HE wants for your life...

    The passage is 2 Corinthians 6:14-18 and also 1 Corinthians 7:1-40

    Blessings
    PastorJer
     
  10. jenn82

    jenn82 <img src="http://www3.christianforums.com/images/s

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    Continue to pray for him, and if it is possible to be friends with him without romantic interest then do so.

    I would strongly suggest to not get involved with him! It is never worth it in the long run. God has the best out there waiting for you and the key is that we have to wait until He gives it to us or shows us how to get it. I am not saying this guy isn't a good one, but wait and see what happens with his salvation and possibly walk with God.

    I'll be praying for you!
     
  11. JPPT1974

    JPPT1974 October Skies

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    First, don't shove Christianity down his throat.
    Second, be a silent & quiet but effective and persistant witness for him.
    Third, do so in your words and actions match together.
    Fourth, always first and foremost pray for him.
    Fifth, do your best not to turn him off(Hint #1).
    Sixth, be polite & friendly but also firm in your beliefs without being a show-off or shoving Christianity down his throat.
     
  12. Tangi

    Tangi Senior Contributor

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    thanx guys agai!
     
  13. B®ent

    B®ent Contender for the Faith

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    I agree with what others have said.

    We should not be yoked to unbelievers. That isn't just advice; it is a commandment.

    The question of this topic should be: should I disobey God's commandment?

    My answer is no, sister. :)
     
  14. B®ent

    B®ent Contender for the Faith

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    I didn't mean to seem condescending there, please don't it take way.

    :) God bless
     
  15. JPPT1974

    JPPT1974 October Skies

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    Hey I don't think you were being that way at all!! :thumbsup:
     
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