How do you feel about the Christian apologists and writers who interpret that third and forth generations comment to be in reference to the 3 generations of men Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, 3 generations who could take on and sometimes learn to emulate their fathers sinful behaviours.
For example, Isaac uses the same kind of deception regarding his wife that his father used
(e.g. “tell people you’re my sister so that it might go well with me.”) Jacob had his obvious issues too.
Point being they wouldn’t interpret that section of scripture as being a curse upon 2nd, 3rd and 4th generations
(e.g. “punishing the children” for their fathers sin.)
Punishing the children of generation 3 because generation 1 hated Him seems strange in the extreme, but it’s believable that an alcoholic father produces alcoholic sons, so the generations proceeding him are punished.
There’s God’s punishment in there, but it’s more like a knock on effect, sin culture in the home that infects and brings ruin to the children in a similar way as the previous generation.
There’s lots of scripture that says God doesn’t punish any son for his fathers crimes
(or vice versa.) There’s an entire chapter where God condemns that sort of thinking
(Ezekiel 18,) in that section God denounces the phrase
“The parents eat sour grapes, and the children’s teeth are set on edge.”
If my thoughts add fuel to the fire it’s okay to ignore them, it can just be seen as further context.
God was speaking of the generations of ALL mankind under the OT LAW and this statement was issued after the LAW was pronounced...warnings of the gravity of sin in other words.
Romans 6:23 summarizes this way: 23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Look at the following passages which illustrate the
change in covenant with His people (O.T. Law to N.T. Law):
29 “In those days people
will no longer say,
‘The parents have eaten sour grapes,
and the children’s teeth are set on edge.’
30
Instead, everyone will die for their own sin; whoever eats sour grapes—their own teeth will be set on edge.
31 “The days are coming,” declares the Lord,
“when I
will make a new covenant
with the people of Israel
and with the people of Judah.
32 It will not be like the covenant
I made with their ancestors
when I took them by the hand
to lead them out of Egypt,
because they broke my covenant,
though I was a husband to them
declares the Lord.
33 “This is the covenant I will make with the people of Israel
after that time,” declares the Lord.
“I will put my law in their minds
and write it on their hearts.
I will be their God,
and they will be my people.
34 No longer will they teach their neighbor,
or say to one another, ‘Know the Lord,’
because they will all know me,
from the least of them to the greatest,”
declares the Lord.
“
For I will forgive their wickedness
and will remember their sins no more.”
35 This is what the Lord says,
he who appoints the sun
to shine by day,
who decrees the moon and stars
to shine by night,
who stirs up the sea
so that its waves roar—
the Lord Almighty is his name:
36 “Only if these decrees vanish from my sight,”
declares the Lord,
“will Israel ever cease
being a nation before me.”
37 This is what the Lord says:
“Only if the heavens above can be measured
and the foundations of the earth below be searched out
will I reject all the descendants of Israel
because of all they have done,”
declares the Lord