Thank you for that, I never had a girlfriend before so I'm inexperienced talking to girls.2 weeks is not long enough for you to tell her of your love. Some scams start out this way. Lonliness can cause actions without thinking them through. Whats to hurt if you wait til you know her a lot longer. You need to take a lot more time when you haven't even met her in person.
Blessings
We are having communication breakdown and I was very heart broken because I misunderstood what she said to me. Should I make it up to her by confessing my love for her?
She is not christian but is such a lovely girl. I almost let her go but she keeps bringing me back. She is Japanese and we communicate by english. I do know in the bible you are not supposed to be covetous and hide your true intentions. I've only known her for 2 weeks and we already talked about our interests and passions in life.
Yes I know that in the bible it says to live a holy life and that entails both husband and wife worshipping God.Jason, if you are a Christian and she isn’t, why have you pursued a deeper relationship with her. You would be being unfair towards her, and foolish towards yourself. Surely you are aware of the advice in scripture that a Christ believer/follower shouldn’t be bound/joined to an unbeliever. Consider instead that God has saved you from an ungodly relationship, and now look to develop friendships with those of your own spiritual kind. Forums like this allow unbelievers to join in as a means of outreach, but a Christian needs to be wary and stop their heart from being yolked to that of an unbeliever. Consider Samson’s end!
You can also get practice in speaking to females at the singles forum here and they are all Christians so you won't be unequally yoked.Thank you for that, I never had a girlfriend before so I'm inexperienced talking to girls.
wow thank you, that is great advice. Bless you and your heart. I appreciate your support very much.You can also get practice in speaking to females at the singles forum here and they are all Christians so you won't be unequally yoked.
You are doing fine here. Just keep talking, listening and being friendly and when you feel you are really friends and know her well you can get personal.
Do you feel that you have spent enough time to be sure it is Gods will for you?Yes I know that in the bible it says to live a holy life and that entails both husband and wife worshipping God.
In Genesis, God created Eve so that Adam would have company because God said being alone is not good. I appreciate your thoughts and advice to me.
At this point of my life, I'm 22 I want to cleave unto a wife and leave my father and mother.
I've been thinking alot these days of why God foreknew my existence and has plans to prosper and not harm me, Jeremiah 29:11. And I believe he wouldn't plan this girl and I to meet and like each other mutually if it wasn't to help in someway for God's purpose.
He is a Christian so I am sure he knows about being unequally yoked.I appreciate your right to have an opinion, but your advice to Jason contradicts God’s directives recorded in scripture. I don’t mean to criticise you, but you could well be culpable in bringing about a brother’s alienation to God and unhappiness in the lives of two people. Think about it, and what the consequence of your suggestions may well be, not only to them, but yourself as well!
You can also get practice in speaking to females at the singles forum here and they are all Christians so you won't be unequally yoked.
Yes I have, because since becoming a Christian I have laid down my life for God. I allowed him to enter my life and direct it. And with my faith only and my good works that I try to do everyday that would only glorify God's name I have been on a rollercoaster ride daily. I have ups and downs but I truly believe God has blessed my life and is present with every step. Honestly speaking I believe in angelic numbers and messages from God's guardian angels to his Believers. This past month and a half I've been recieving 11:11, 1:11, 2:22, 3:33, 4:44, 5:55 daily from the clock. What do I mean by that? Well, I never look at the clock unless I have an appointment . But I feel a holy sensation tingling inside me and I subconciously look at the clock in my room/on my phone and I see these angelic numbers. Also to note this 100% happens when I'm in despair/anxious. I believe the holy ghost is within me and I try to be faithful and keep my body, the temple of Christ pure and clean but overall I think I can still do better to be faithful to God through my works and thoughts and prayers and worship.Do you feel that you have spent enough time to be sure it is Gods will for you?
I am sure then that you know that God wouldn't want you to make a life long decision in a few weeks. You have the rest of your life, a long time, to make such important decisions based on what you know about her. What's the harm in slowing down and being wise in your thoughts and actions? In the mean time you need to get more experience in communicating with women and this is the perfect place to do it. Make friends, lots of them. Before you jump into anything.Yes I have, because since becoming a Christian I have laid down my life for God. I allowed him to enter my life and direct it. And with my faith only and my good works that I try to do everyday that would only glorify God's name I have been on a rollercoaster ride daily. I have ups and downs but I truly believe God has blessed my life and is present with every step. Honestly speaking I believe in angelic numbers and messages from God's guardian angels to his Believers. This past month and a half I've been recieving 11:11, 1:11, 2:22, 3:33, 4:44, 5:55 daily from the clock. What do I mean by that? Well, I never look at the clock unless I have an appointment . But I feel a holy sensation tingling inside me and I subconciously look at the clock in my room/on my phone and I see these angelic numbers. Also to note this 100% happens when I'm in despair/anxious. I believe the holy ghost is within me and I try to be faithful and keep my body, the temple of Christ pure and clean but overall I think I can still do better to be faithful to God through my works and thoughts and prayers and worship.
We are having communication breakdown and I was very heart broken because I misunderstood what she said to me. Should I make it up to her by confessing my love for her?
She is not christian but is such a lovely girl. I almost let her go but she keeps bringing me back. She is Japanese and we communicate by english. I do know in the bible you are not supposed to be covetous and hide your true intentions. I've only known her for 2 weeks and we already talked about our interests and passions in life.
Hi I understand where you are coming from. I plan to see her in person in the near future to confess to her in real life. I've never given or recieved as much b affection from a relationship with a girl that I've had with her and I believe that we will be able to continue this into marraige. I've also prayed to God to allow us to be wife and husband. Because God said a man who finds a wife recieves a pleasing gift from God, and also he who has found a wife has found a treasure more valuable then gold and jewels.You don't love a girl that you've never met and known over the internet for 2 weeks. That's just the hard truth.
Remain friends and nothing more.
Hello Bella,Jason,
Your inexperience is a factor you can’t ignore. Not only is your tenure limited with the opposite sex. You’ve added the additional challenge of developing a connection virtually with someone in another country during a pandemic.
Since you’ve leapt to love I trust you’ve considered practicalities like finances and who’s moving? I’ve watched countless singles make similar mistakes and develop ties with people they could never see or barely visit due to finances.
You’re moving too fast and that rarely ends well. Your desire for companionship is compromising your principles and patience. I needn’t mention her spiritual condition. If God supports this union we’re free to do likewise and the bible is incorrect. If its true then you’re mistaken.
I think you’d benefit from hearing from other single men.
@Rigatoni @Miles @SarahsKnight @Sketcher @Pavel Mosko @ThisIsMe123 @MehGuy @JustSomeBloke @Anthony2019
Guys, can you weigh in on this please? Thank you.
Yours in His Service,
~Bella