Um Ya

[Raptor]

Well i have ben going to this youth group for about 2 years now, I like this girl she is 16 and i am 17 shes given me her phone number & msn asked me to call her one time some of my friends know she likes me at youth even her sister because my friend told her sister i liked her sister , she is interested in my life , she asked me if i get along with my mom ect or what i want to be when i get older , she asked me if i hanged out with one of my youth friends other than at youth. Maybe she asked that because she wanted to hang out with me ? when she passes me she kinda gives me eye contact for a while till she turns, its like a way where her eys are like sparkeling or i am just imagining it lol

when the youth where walking from the church to the park she let the 10 other people go on ahead and stayed and walked with me and my friend she was like walking right ahead of us when we where talking like a inch away kinda like listening.

She talkes to me like every 2 days on msn she sas hey most of the time some times i say hey to start the chat she always wants to know how my week was or how my day was ect, we where siting down on the stairs outside and she sits below me and lets her arm like lay against my leg so she feels ok i guess being close to me.

I think her sister told her i like her because i can feel the difference of her when shes around me from before , some times she gives me like them smiles where i feel like laphing because the way she lookes and smiles at me is abit funny.

Does it sound like she likes me but just waiting for me to tell her i like her or what ?

 

[paulewog]

Why is it the most popular kind of post in the SINGLES forum is about dating, hehe, I guess it makes sense though.

Anyways. I won't say if I think she likes you or not. I will ask you if that's what you really want in a relationship. Do you marry someone you like?

If not, IMO, it would be better to learn that you love them before you start the whole emotional hard-to-break-up relationship. In other words, I would rather not see a couple together, tied up to each other, if they don't even know if they love each other... but are still emotionally attached such that it breaks a heart if they get separated. It's not worth breaking a heart for the sake of a relationship based on "like."

(and now, yes, she probably does like you, but again, what does that matter at this point, unless you're interested in her to the point that you think you might love her?)

Also, don't forget that at 16, she most likely is not terribly in touch with her own heart. It would seem that most girls around that age are slightly immature about their emotions and such... as are most guys... and we need to take care of our sisters, even if that means protectring them from themselves.

 

[JPPT1974]

First of all foremost, take your friendship one step at a time.
Second, be friends and not rush into things.
Third, get to know one another before you jump into things.
Fourth, do things one step at a time. Meaning start out and off slowly.

 

[winglovesall]

I believe all of the above - even though I don't have experience - I Know what it's like.

Good communication skills always helps!