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HisArrow

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A good reason to go on is that God created you and gave you a special purpose in life. I know about rejection and it hurts a lot. I'm handicapped and people reject me a lot because of it which I think is stupid. But it is their problem. A few months ago started to feel very unwelcomed at a church , so I switch churches. Boy, what a difference. No church is perfect because it is run by humans lol lol. There is a verse that says to pray for those who despitefully use you. So God knows we will get rejeted. Asd far as the marriage goes, What I find that is the key is to put God and Jesus first, then your mate, thirdly your kids then everyone else. There is a site that you might want to check out that helps a lot.
It is www.acc-growing-deeper.de/brokenhearts.htm
Remember Jesus cares and loves you. That is what counts!!!!! God bless and have a good day.
 
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dear sister in the Lord, Jesus hears your cry. He loves you so much. He alone understands the anguish and pain you are going through. give it to Him. just relinquish all your hurt, pain, suffering, anger, betrayal at the foot of the Cross. i know that is easier said than done, but little by little He will heal you. i love you, too. please don't do something so selfish, for that is what suicide is--the ones left behind pay the price for this selfish deed.

let's go to the Father in prayer.

dear heavenly Lord, all praises to You. Lord God, we come in Jesus name desiring healing of this broken and wounded heart. Jesus, please bless my sister with peace in her heart and show her the way out of the mess she is in. we make mistakes, Lord, and our lives rush out of control and we become so overwhelmed sometimes. dear God, please wrap Your loving arms around this dear child of Yours and fill her with blessed peace. may she find solace in Your sweet embrace. may she seek you wholly and devour Your word and be blessed by the Holy Ghost with peace and understanding. may all her fears and hurt dwindle away and be replaced with joy and hope and Your immense love for her. may she kneel down and give You praise even now, Lord. i pray she meets a special friend at her new church that You lead her to, a friend who she can confide in and fellowship with. may she feel loved. thank you, Jesus. we love and praise You. amen.
 
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Heh, well even have one friend is a nice thing, but maybe you are in agony that death would be a release.

Unfortunately God made us with survival instincts, and killing yourself is super super difficult. You probably can't do it. Though even if you could its probably a huge waste. Your life could have super happyness just down the road.

Maaany years ago when I was 16 I tried to kill myself. It failed, it was super painful and it sucked. I couldn't even predict how happy I was to become back then. Now almost all my days are joyful and God has seen fit to have mercy on me but also I've learned to help myself better too.

Anyhow I'm praying for you, and I hope you don't have any more depressing thoughts like suicide.

BEN
 
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Lord give this sister a new lease on life. Allow what ever problems there are to be fixed, whether its at church, in her friendships or in her marriage. Touch her marriage so that she may share what you gave us as a gift for our spouses. Lord strengthen her so that she will stand on your word, and not on the dissapointments that are sure to come in life. I ask this in your name. :amen:
 
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1 Samuel 30:6 (New King James Version)

6 "Now David was greatly distressed, for the people spoke of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and his daughters. But David strengthened himself in the LORD his God."

Father God, I lift my sister to You. You know the sorrow that can grip our hearts LORD and Your Word tells us You are compassionate and that You love us. I ask that You intervene in these situations Father. I pray that You would have Your will accomplished in this church, whatever the issues are. I pray that You would give my sister Godly friends who can come along side to support and encourage. And for this marriage LORD, we know that You are able. Please minister to each heart and bring healing and restoration. Thank You Father for Your faithfulness to us, in Jesus' name, amen.
in Him, Leslie
 
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1 Aren't messes made to be sorted out? There's probably a lot who feel like you do at your church!
2 Jesus cares, that is something you can be absolutely sure of. Even though I don't know you, I know that I would miss you. It might sound silly coming from a total stranger, but I would really be sad.
4 God and Jesus never reject. Sooner or later you will run into humans who won't reject you either, just remember that we're all just that, humans.
3 What about counseling, at church (if the mess can be sorted) or elsewhere? Sex is an important part of marriage.

You're a unique creation of God. Never forget that.
 
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ok guys tell me a reason for me to carry on.
1 Things with church are a mess
2 I have few friends, I wonder if anybody would miss me?
4 Im sick of being hurt and rejected.
3 My marriage sex life is a mess...etc.
just got to share..

1 -long as your ok with THE CHRIST who cares about the congregation

2 - so long as 1 person would miss you your death would be a tragedy

4 - so long as people draw breath they will always disappoint you

5 - go see a sexual therapist with your husband

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
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ok guys tell me a reason for me to carry on.
1 Things with church are a mess
2 I have few friends, I wonder if anybody would miss me?
4 Im sick of being hurt and rejected.
3 My marriage sex life is a mess...etc.
just got to share..

:prayer:
Dear Lord,

Please help my new friend Jo here realize that she is MORE than a BLESSING to me she is a GIFT FROM YOU!... I dont know what I would do without her and her logic and her love. We need people like my dear friend Jo here more on the internet. If people were like Jo I bet the world would be a MUCH better place! SHE is a TRUE GIFT from you LORD! PLEASE help her!!!!! HELP her to know how SPECIAL she is in my life and others! HELP her to know how GREAT of a person she is too!!!! SHE is a super friend!!!!!

Take care of her Lord, she needs you!!!!

IN your loving name I pray,

AMEN!:prayer:
 
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lord jesus I pray for jo take away the pain she is feeling in her soul and her heart, my lord let her path be smooth let her know that she is loved by all that encounter her and know her, amen.
Amen

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