Two years today..

[bkg]

a judge signed a divorce decree. Quite a Christmas prosent.

I've learned that I have a blessed life. Every single dream that I ever had has come true; I married the girl of my dreams, I had every material item I had ever hoped for, I had a great carear, great life as a whole. Many people get bitter after a divorce, but why? I had everything I ever wanted - and that is more than most people can say, so someone find me a reason to be bitter!? I have none.

she's been remarried for almost a year, and from what I hear is happy. And if that isn't an answered prayer, I don't know what is.

So good luck to all of you who are recently divorced; remember how blessed you really are. And for those of you separated, I encourage you to remember why you married your spouse to begin with and what your vows meant to you on yoru wedding day; you truly have a blessed life, don't forget that.

Merry Christmas and Good-bye.
bkg

 

[~Nikki~]

BKG!!!!!!!!!!!!

I had wondered how you were doing...

I pray that G-d will bless you greatly...

 

[heartnsoul]

BKG, I am very sorry to hear that your wife went through with the divorce. Glad you are not bitter. You're right, there are so many blessings and things to be grateful for. When one door closes, know that there is always another one or two being opened. May God continue to bring you peace during this time and continue to fulfill all your future dreams also.

 

[AirForceTeacher]

Sorry to hear that BKG. God bless you tonite.

 

[Warrior Poet]

Whats up brother. Long time no read.

Will be three for me next week. I still remember the pain when she said "I want a divorce." She is remarried as well and has a beautiful baby girl. We had dinner last night. The past few months I have come to except that I still love my ex-wife. I miss her. I do not want her though... its such a torn feeling. She told me last night that it wasn't my fault. Everything she ever took out on me, as she said was "everything", she is realizing she has the problem. She said she is starting to have negative feelings toward her new husband... and he isn't do anything to deserve it. I want to help, I want to do something as I could not watch her walk away from what she has, not that she is talking about doing that. In the mean time, her ex-best friend, who I stayed very close with, has developed feelings for me, needless to say that has put a strain on that relationship. Icing on the cake... the girl my mind tells me I am in love with is the same girl I fear my heart is in love with... though my convictions offer the exact oppsite insight.

The real kicker, my life is great. I cant complain at all really. I think about my problems and they seem so insignificant to the wonders the last three years have brought. I cant imagine life any other way. And I wouldn't want it any other way.

Warrior Poet