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update: i just wanted to inform you girls that i changed my name from sweetbella just so you know this is me. thanks!

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I did an ovulation test last night and I'm pretty sure it was positive...I did another this morning and it was negative. I thought they were supposed to come up positive for longer than a day but who knows...and we did BD last night so fingers crossed...
 
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I did an ovulation test last night and I'm pretty sure it was positive...I did another this morning and it was negative. I thought they were supposed to come up positive for longer than a day but who knows...and we did BD last night so fingers crossed...
fingers are crossed!
 
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Praise report alert !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My husband has become much more committed to the idea of having a baby so we are officially fully TTC. He won't do the whole working out the right time to try - he just wants to relax, not use conraception and not time things because he said it made it too stressful. he wants it just to 'happen'.

So, we'll see . . .

I've given in my notice at work because it has become really stressful - I know it's the wrong time with our planning to have a baby, but I've been getting really sick through stress. I'm supposed to be working there till 31st December and then I'm out of work. I'm praying that God will guide my next step.

:hug: to everyone today. Hope everyone is doing ok.

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Duly noted.


I did an ovulation test last night and I'm pretty sure it was positive...I did another this morning and it was negative. I thought they were supposed to come up positive for longer than a day but who knows...and we did BD last night so fingers crossed...

What does BD mean :sorry:
 
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So here's a question.

In the pre preggo planner I am reading, it states that you should only BD :)P) every few days as so that DH can store up stronger, healthier sperm. But that leavs only trying maybe twice while I'm ovulating/fertile.

What do you ladies do? I'm going to ask my DR about it today- but is it ok for us to try a few days in a row durring my most fertile time? Or is it really best to wait a few days in between.
 
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So here's a question.

In the pre preggo planner I am reading, it states that you should only BD :)P) every few days as so that DH can store up stronger, healthier sperm. But that leavs only trying maybe twice while I'm ovulating/fertile.

What do you ladies do? I'm going to ask my DR about it today- but is it ok for us to try a few days in a row durring my most fertile time? Or is it really best to wait a few days in between.
That's not what I read. If you hubby's sperm count is low, you may want to spread it out to every other day. For the average guy though, the decrease in sperm from making love a lot is hardly enough to make a difference.

As for the quality of sperm, I've read it is better to make love MORE often because the sperm at the front of the pack are the oldest. If you wait around to much, you have older, slower sperm at the front instead of fresher, faster ones.

Personally, I think, unless there is a problem, everyone should just make love as often as they want to. After all, it only takes ONE sperm to make it all happen.
 
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So here's a question.

In the pre preggo planner I am reading, it states that you should only BD :)P) every few days as so that DH can store up stronger, healthier sperm. But that leavs only trying maybe twice while I'm ovulating/fertile.

What do you ladies do? I'm going to ask my DR about it today- but is it ok for us to try a few days in a row durring my most fertile time? Or is it really best to wait a few days in between.

every other day through O days. i heard the best days to conceive are 2 days before O time and on most fertile day...... tonight is a BD night for us, too!
 
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every other day through O days. i heard the best days to conceive are 2 days before O time and on most fertile day...... tonight is a BD night for us, too!


I agree. I have been told by my doctor before that every other day is the best.
 
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Do any of you ladies every have baby dreams?

Last night I had one. Ever have a dream where everything is SOOO realistic? You feel everything? Well this is what it was like.

Without boring you all with the details, basically I didn't know if the baby was female or male- everything was in yellow and white. I remember details right down to the feel of the blanket I had for the baby. I rememebr the way the baby felt, and smelled, everything.

It was so weird. I woke up soooo in love with this little baby from my dreams. It was surreal.
 
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