- Nov 9, 2012
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I recently found out that my niece is in love with my boyfriend. She had wrote down in her notebook that she was going to get him alone, kiss him, steal his heart, and then run away with him. This was defistating to read from my own niece, because I am the only person in my family who has not given up on her. I've shared my insecurities about my boyfriend leaving me, and even shared with her that other girls have tried to take him from me. All I can think of is how she has lied to me and betrayed me. Then recently found out that she kissed him on the cheek, and while that's nothing I suppose, the fact she wrote these things down trouble me.
My boyfriend has a mental disorder, so he isn't able to express his emotions as best as we can because he has MPD(Multiple Personality Disorder). So when he expresses his emotions it can come off like he cares a little too much. My niece is insecure and obsessed with the idea of love and having love too. He is also Christian, and he wants to love and care for people selflessly, and to someone so desperate for attention and love, that can come off to her as if he is romantically in love with her, I guess. She's only 11, but I just don't know how to approach the situation at all.. I don't want to be mad at her, but it's so hard to be around her now, knowing what I know.. That feeling of being lied to and betrayed gets in the way. It's breaking my heart each and every day that goes by that I don't say anything..
What should I do? I hate how I feel about this..
My boyfriend has a mental disorder, so he isn't able to express his emotions as best as we can because he has MPD(Multiple Personality Disorder). So when he expresses his emotions it can come off like he cares a little too much. My niece is insecure and obsessed with the idea of love and having love too. He is also Christian, and he wants to love and care for people selflessly, and to someone so desperate for attention and love, that can come off to her as if he is romantically in love with her, I guess. She's only 11, but I just don't know how to approach the situation at all.. I don't want to be mad at her, but it's so hard to be around her now, knowing what I know.. That feeling of being lied to and betrayed gets in the way. It's breaking my heart each and every day that goes by that I don't say anything..
What should I do? I hate how I feel about this..