Okay - maybe it wasn't said as "kindly" as it could have been said...but I do get the jist. You don't have to not post - but you do have to understand that the longer you are in this church, you will "hear things" that will make you say.....
There are many things to love about being SDA. Many things to dislike. I am 34. Not too old.... (iffin you ask me!) I have, however (in my life...) been Methodist, COGIC, and Catholic.
Now....
*ahem*
I have been within the SDA faith since I was 9. I was baptized first at 12 - then again at 16. In the years following I have HEARD JUST ABOUT ALL that is to be heard within the SDA church.
The following is a brief - (seriously!) summation of what I have heard.....
*If you eat meat you will not go to heaven.
*If you eat meat you will not see the coming of JESUS as clearly
*If you eat meat you will not be "translated"....
*If you are vegetarian/vegan - your crown will have more "points".
*If you are vegetarian/vegan - you will be in a "inner circle" w/ JESUS/GOD/HOLY SPIRIT.
*You cannot wear any form of jewelry and go to heaven.
*You can wear a watch.
*You cannot wear a watch, carry it in your pocket.
*You should not wear wigs, if you do you will not go to heaven (extensions included).
*Women should only wear dresses...(remember, I have heard all these things in the SDA church....)
*Women should not be Pastors.
*Women should not preach/speak period.
*Women should not be in any form of leadership position in the church.
*A man can never wash a woman's feet and vice-versa.
*You can only have communion if you are baptized in the church, if you are not then it is "a sin"....
*Getting "therapy" is a sin.
*Taking any form of medication is a "sin".
*EGW is a prophetess.
*EGW didn't actually "die" she was "taken" (like Enoch)....
*EGW is the "last" prophet/prophetess.
*EGW never ate meat (she actually did you know...)
*JESUS was a vegetarian.
*At Passover they didn't "actually eat" the lamb...
*SDA's are the only people that will go to heaven (like JW's in a sense...)
Now - I didn't hear all of this at one time...this is over the years.... (I actually have wrote it down and keep a "log" of "new things" my church "teaches me"....) Believe it or not there are "other" things on this list.
Just as any other religion - the key is DISCERNMENT. Study to show thyself approved..... so when somebody comes to you with "mess" that can't be substantiated by the the Bible.... (or simply common sense...) You can say..... HAYYYYY! That doesn't sound right!
HTH