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That’s not what total depravity teaches. Total depravity teaches that ALL MEN are totally deprived until God’s grace has been bestowed upon them. No one is born a believer, except for JTB perhaps.

Yes, but they are depraved until they are born again.
 
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Bless you friend. Let’s look closer to the context of what Jesus was saying.

“They were even more astonished and said to Him, "Then who can be saved?" Looking at them, Jesus said, "With people it is impossible, but not with God; for all things are possible with God."”
‭‭Mark‬ ‭10:26-27‬ ‭NASB‬‬

Does this say that a person cannot repent? No it doesn’t. Jesus said we cannot be saved without God. Amen without God’s grace no one could be saved even if they did repent. Luke 9:23 doesn’t even remotely say that we cannot repent. None of the verses you quoted say that a person cannot repent. I have shown irrefutable scriptural proof that God has the expectation of those to repent who have not repented in both Revelation 2:20-21 and Romans 2:4-6. For God to wait patiently for people to repent who are incapable of repentance is quite unbelievable in my opinion.
 
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Is it unjust that God made some people that will not choose Him out of their own free will?

There’s a big difference between being incapable of choosing and choosing of your own free will. If someone is choosing of their own free will they are not incapable of making either choice. Total depravity teaches that some are created INCAPABLE of choosing God which is not free will.
 
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This I know to be Truth. Christ is the only way to The Father and no man cometh to Christ except The Father call him. That is exactly what happened to me over 30 years ago. I had previous to that thought I was born again. I have certainly sinned since then and am in need of regular times of forgiveness. However, I assume that your mindset is to seek and believe.
 
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As is Preserverance of the saints. It's a doctrine accepted by most of the Protestant church today just because they rename it to Eternal security or OSAS doesnt mean it's not the same thing.

Do you have numbers to back that up? I doubt you are right.
 
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I don't agree, they have the choice but will not make it. It don't go against their "free will". So it is a real choice for all intents and purposes. No one can say on judgment day, I didn't have a choice. God will roll the film and... We all have a very limited choice in Gods creation. It is His show. If you were God, you could do it different.
 
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Greetings.

I'm going to answer what I can remember from your post and that was repentance, partiality and justification.

Of course God is bias to some people but not in contradiction to scripture. The instructions to not be a respector of person is in regard to status and wealth. We are called to value a person by their character not influence or material possessions they have in society. However God definitely has distinction between those who has love as his chosen people. The twins before they were even born, Jacob and esau, one was shown Gods love the other his personal hostility.

I believe in the repence doctrine but the key question is how a person comes round to doing it. I believe God works in the broken persons heart and soul to renew them giving them life and the ability to recieve other spiritual blessings. I do not think the human heart by itself or in partnership can come to humble itself before God because of pride and sin thus no repentance. The opponents of total depravity cannot give a clear demonstration of how repentance can be accomplished without the sole work of God at his discretion, for his purpose.

Being in Christ is a early stage of the process. The people who will go on to be saved were chosen for salvation long before they were born or the world created. The father chooses who he desires to glorify him, the son sanctifies them and the Holy spirit seals them.
 
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If they have the choice then you can’t say they’re incapable. The whole concept of a choice by free will negates the possibility of them being incapable of choosing. Either they are created incapable of choosing then they do not have the freedom of choice or they are created capable of choosing and they do have the freedom of choice. It sounds like your trying to play both sides of the coin here. It can’t be both free to choose and yet incapable of choosing.
 
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The instructions to not be a respector of person is in regard to status and wealth

Bless you friend. There’s no mention of status or wealth in these statements. In Romans 2 the only separation is their deeds and the way they lived their life. Not their race, nationality, or social class.


“who WILL RENDER TO EACH PERSON ACCORDING TO HIS DEEDS: to those who by perseverance in doing good seek for glory and honor and immortality, eternal life; but to those who are selfishly ambitious and do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness, wrath and indignation. There will be tribulation and distress for every soul of man who does evil, of the Jew first and also of the Greek, but glory and honor and peace to everyone who does good, to the Jew first and also to the Greek. For there is no partiality with God.”
‭‭Romans‬ ‭2:6-11‬ ‭NASB‬‬
 
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I will try to reply as soon as I can I wasn’t able to address your full post. Blessings to you.
 
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I don't see why not, I understand it perfectly.
 
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If we are Totally Depraved though and incapable of responding to God in anyway, what's the point of telling us that? Wouldn't it be kinder to say nothing at all?

We are to call men to repentance ..if they refuse then they are responsible
 
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"For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters."

[God] foreknew,
προέγνω (proegnō)
Verb - Aorist Indicative Active - 3rd Person Singular
Strong's Greek 4267: To know beforehand, foreknow. From pro and ginosko; to know beforehand, i.e. Foresee.

He also predestined [to be]
προώρισεν (proōrisen)
Verb - Aorist Indicative Active - 3rd Person Singular
Strong's Greek 4309: To foreordain, predetermine, mark out beforehand. From pro and horizo; to limit in advance, i.e. predetermine.


What did God foreknow about the elect?
 
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He foreknew everything about them including who would believe and abide in Christ to the end.
 
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Also wealth ans status. This is from James chapter 2

My brethren, do not hold the faith of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory, with partiality. 2 For if there should come into your assembly a man with gold rings, in fine apparel, and there should also come in a poor man in filthy clothes, 3 and you pay attention to the one wearing the fine clothes and say to him, “You sit here in a good place,” and say to the poor man, “You stand there,” or, “Sit here at my footstool,” 4 have you not shown partiality among yourselves, and become judges with evil thoughts?
 
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I don't see why not, I understand it perfectly.

Ok allow me to explain it another way. How can a person choose something that they not capable to choose? It’s like trying to roll a seven on a six sided dice. The option is not there hence the ability is not possible. No matter how hard you try or how many times you try you will always fail for all eternity because the person who created that dice did not include the option of rolling a seven. When you add the word incapable to repentance then choice is not even an option and free will to choose is completely nonexistent.
 
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This has nothing to do with God showing partiality this is James teaching the brethren not to show partiality.
 
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Amen my friend amen but what of the power of the gospel. Is it not God’s calling? Is the gospel not powerful enough to bring about repentance? I believe it is if the person is willing.
 
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Now if this were true then John 15:6 would be impossible. As well as Galatians 5:4. Let us not forget Jesus’ words in John 6:44.

How can you account for these teachings? The secret is in John 6:37.
 
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Romans 8:28-29. What does God call us to? What does He choose us for?

This passage specifically states that God predestined humans to be conformed to the image of His Son. It is not saying that God predestines us either to be saved or to be condemned, and that we have no choice in the matter.

In other words, the election is for the purpose of our transformation. We are to be changed to reflect the Son of God. This transformation is then promised in the following verse (Rom. 8:30), in which Paul, the author, states that those whom God calls He also justifies (makes us righteous) and glorifies (sanctifies).

Thus we are not left to transform ourselves, but rather, God promises to accomplish this transformation by His power.
 
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