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HalupkiMonster
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I am torn, and need some advice!
I was a member of an Eastern Orthodox Church for the last four years. I converted when I was 14 (now 18.) I left the Church around 17, when I realized I wasn't as conservative enough to meet this Church's expectations. I now see that this is a silly reason to leave a Church, as Orthodox Christianity is for people of all political stripes. My sexual orientation is also an issue, and I'm told by the Orthodox Church that married life or celibacy is a path to holiness. As marriage is only between men and women, and I don't want to be a monk, this is an issue that I face. I then left this Church.
I then started attending another Church. It is an Episcopal Church. This Church has things that are extremely un-Orthodox. One such thing is female priests (who I LOVE SO MUCH!!!) I now have no objection to female priesthood. Another thing is open communion. All baptized Christians can receive holy communion, which meant that I (and my family of different denominations) could receive communion. I loved this, because it didn't make me feel separate from my Christian brothers and sisters. We're all Christians, and are all invited to Christ's table.
This Episcopal Church is also so much larger and active. They are far more involved with charity. They are extremely open-minded and accepting, so they have people from all walks of life. It doesn't make me feel like the gay one.
When I left the Orthodox Church, I did it in the worst way possible. I didn't tell anyone where I was, I sort of just went "MIA" for months and months. This denomination has an "our way or the highway" attitude, so I couldn't expect them to understand. I did this the wrong way, I now see.
When I returned to Church, I explained things to Father. He was happy I'm back, and I have to go two months without Holy Communion, to make sure I'm committed to Orthodoxy. I'm so happy to be back in this Church, with the people I love, but I can't help but wonder if this other Church is where I'm meant to be.
I'm stuck between a traditional Church full of people that love me and a more liberal Church that really lives out Christ's message of charity and tolerance.
I went back to this Orthodox Church a month ago, and will also be attending the Episcopal one every once in a while. I just have so much trouble deciding what I want. I don't want to disappoint anyone, and that has been my downfall since I was little. I'm making it clear to both priests that I am unsure what Church I want to attend, and they both respect my journey (though I expect the Orthodox priest will be a bit more pushy when it comes to his Church when I tell him that I'm unsure of my convictions, but such is the Orthodox faith.)
What do you think?
I was a member of an Eastern Orthodox Church for the last four years. I converted when I was 14 (now 18.) I left the Church around 17, when I realized I wasn't as conservative enough to meet this Church's expectations. I now see that this is a silly reason to leave a Church, as Orthodox Christianity is for people of all political stripes. My sexual orientation is also an issue, and I'm told by the Orthodox Church that married life or celibacy is a path to holiness. As marriage is only between men and women, and I don't want to be a monk, this is an issue that I face. I then left this Church.
I then started attending another Church. It is an Episcopal Church. This Church has things that are extremely un-Orthodox. One such thing is female priests (who I LOVE SO MUCH!!!) I now have no objection to female priesthood. Another thing is open communion. All baptized Christians can receive holy communion, which meant that I (and my family of different denominations) could receive communion. I loved this, because it didn't make me feel separate from my Christian brothers and sisters. We're all Christians, and are all invited to Christ's table.
This Episcopal Church is also so much larger and active. They are far more involved with charity. They are extremely open-minded and accepting, so they have people from all walks of life. It doesn't make me feel like the gay one.
When I left the Orthodox Church, I did it in the worst way possible. I didn't tell anyone where I was, I sort of just went "MIA" for months and months. This denomination has an "our way or the highway" attitude, so I couldn't expect them to understand. I did this the wrong way, I now see.
When I returned to Church, I explained things to Father. He was happy I'm back, and I have to go two months without Holy Communion, to make sure I'm committed to Orthodoxy. I'm so happy to be back in this Church, with the people I love, but I can't help but wonder if this other Church is where I'm meant to be.
I'm stuck between a traditional Church full of people that love me and a more liberal Church that really lives out Christ's message of charity and tolerance.
I went back to this Orthodox Church a month ago, and will also be attending the Episcopal one every once in a while. I just have so much trouble deciding what I want. I don't want to disappoint anyone, and that has been my downfall since I was little. I'm making it clear to both priests that I am unsure what Church I want to attend, and they both respect my journey (though I expect the Orthodox priest will be a bit more pushy when it comes to his Church when I tell him that I'm unsure of my convictions, but such is the Orthodox faith.)
What do you think?
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