Too Good to be true?

[JT912]

So I had this awesome connection last night with a woman of God. It was so real and it was like we already knew each other as we talked. This woman is likes me like crazy and after talking with her I felt the same way. Anyway so many connections emotionally, spiritually, and mentally and I only did this dating online thang cuz I felt the Lord leading me that way, but she has 2 kids and is divorced. Should I pursue this and see what happends? The kids I don't mind well kinda, and the divorce thang kind of bothers me but at the same time it was like God had already prepared me for dealing with that reality while looking for a soulmate. any tips hints or suggestions?

 

[K9_Trainer]

I would hold judgment for now.

Keep talking to her and getting to know her. When the time is appropriate, talk to her about the details of the divorce. For all you know, her husband may have been abusive or cheated on her, thus lifting the vows she made to him.

Also, make sure you are ready to become a father if you do end up marrying this woman. Those two kids will be your kids, to love, cherish, discipline and support. So make sure you are prepared for that.

 

[Autumnleaf]

Run.

 

[unkern]

Adultery is the only way her divorce might be real, so id say get to know her first and find out if this is really a place you want to go.

 

[RobinRedbreast]

So I had this awesome connection last night with a woman of God. It was so real and it was like we already knew each other as we talked. This woman is likes me like crazy and after talking with her I felt the same way. Anyway so many connections emotionally, spiritually, and mentally and I only did this dating online thang cuz I felt the Lord leading me that way, but [wash my mouth][wash my mouth][wash my mouth], she has 2 kids and is divorced. Should I pursue this and see what happends? The kids I don't mind well kinda, and the divorce thang kind of bothers me but at the same time it was like God had already prepared me for dealing with that reality while looking for a soulmate. any tips hints or suggestions?

I'm a divorced and remarried woman. I can tell you now that if my husband hadn't been 100% into dating me (ie: If he was only 99% and 1% of him "wasn't sure because I was divorced"), I wouldn't have wanted either of us to bother with the relationship. I have no time in my life for people who "aren't sure" because they don't like my past. And you should have no time in your life for people who don't meet whatever standards you've set for your so-called soulmate.

So don't waste each other's time, and move on.

 

[unkern]

My pastor once told me this "Before you get married watch her with your eyes open and when you get married watch her with your eyes squinted." This mean before you get married question about her, get to know her. Then when you get married you squint your eyes because those things dont matter that much.