Hi Disciple7723
It great to hear somebody seeking the fullness of the Holy Spirit.
Go look at Acts 19. (There more similiar instances in acts)
When Paul laid hands on them the Holy Spirit came upon them and the spoke in tongues and prophesied.
Firstly you must obtain this "fullness" of the Holy Spirit. Now don't get yourself confused over all the doctrinal debates around this.. they will not help you.
Its Simple: Ask Jesus to baptise you with the Holy Spirit. John 1:33
But if you know somebody already "spirit filled" (baptised in the Holy Spirit) ask them to lay hands on you. And pray WITH you. remember you must ask.
Praising God for this and for whatever comes to mind is a good start.. (this coming to mind is prophecy)
If you start to speak in tongues.. great if not.. don't worry.
Here's my experience:
I recieved the Baptism of the HS when somebody laid hands on me and I asked for Jesus to fill me with the Holy Spirit. (exact wording doesn't matter to God)
Well he did! i recieved an supernatural peace in me that everything is going to work out.. (My life was in a mess at the stage)
No I didn't speak in tongues nor prophecy (I didn't even know about it)
Anyways sometimes later I got informed.. and it still didn't happen..
I was somewhat scared and pressured.. and confused maybe also... so nothing happen.
Later a friend told me to just try and speak what he says.. then he started praying in tongues.. He said some really weird stuff

(something totally impossible to resay)
And I started speaking.
So I opened my mouth

A stream of weird sounds flooded out of my mouth.. I almost couldn't get time to breath as this "praise" exited me..
From then I learned to obay the "utterings" of the my spirit.
Now (8 months later) I can pray in the spirit any time I like... sometimes I still really suprise my self at what I'm saying.
3 of the most common reasons people struggle to speak in tongues:
1. They can't accept that this "babbling" is from God.. ie. there "mind" is in the way of the spirit (mine was for more than a month)
2. They don't know they should move there mouths. The Spirit gives you utterance.. you do the "physical" part. ALL THE GIFTS WORKS BY UTTERANCES FROM THE SPIRIT. (althought I have experience really)
3. They are figthing this Baptism of the Holy Spirit thing.. and thus they are RESISTING the spirit. not a good thing I'll say.
Hi jc4life. Great stuff! I agree.. I really sounded like a baby at first.. Now I sound like a 2 year old trying to speak some weird language..

Tongues helped me to in intimacy with God. And with fighting against the urges of the flesh
Hi nathan. Yes well you don't really practise tongues.. But the spirit gives the utterance.. and over time one will learn to better follow these utterances.
And it is commonly so that usually when people start speaking in sounds they make more "baby" like sounds.. or pray in just a word or 2.. and then later this "language" grows..
Hi Symes.
one problem with 1 Cor 12-14 is that the word speak is many times used when "pray" would better fit.
1 cor 14:4 (edifies one self)
1 cor 14:14 (understanding void)
Paul is saying that when you stand in front of the church and speak in tongues.. then somebody must interpret else nobody understand and nobody is edifies. (accept that person)
When one prays in prayer in his inner room there is no need for interpretation.
Then there are the case of speaking in another language..
Sometimes there is somebody in the church from another culture/whatever.
(this actually happens) Then the person might actually speak in tongues without interpretation. With those people/person hearing the message in his mother tongues. Interpretation is also a gift of the spirit and will only manifest if needed. And if the person that is given the utterance actually comes forth and shares it. DO NOT QUENCH THE SPIRIT (1 thess 5)
There is also made a difference between the "personal prayer language" form of tongues which all believers can practise and the gift of speaking in other tongues as one of the 9 gifts from the Holy Spirit.
The same Paul that says he wants us to prophesy also says:
1 Cor 14:18 I thank my God I speak with tongues more than you all.
and:
1 Cor 14:15 I will pray with my spirit, and I will also pray with the understanding.
1 Cor 14:39 desire earnestly to prophesy, and do not forbid to speak with tongues.
Hi sonworshipper.
1 Cor 14:4 He who speaks in a tongues edifies himself.
1 Cor 14:5 I wish you all spoke with tongues.
Yes God wants us to prophesy, and indeed we all can:
1 Cor 14:31 For you can all prophesy one by one.
But just one thing: Most (all that I know off) people that prophesy (in different degrees) do actually pray/speak in tongues.
ok enough about this.
In the end you can argue months on end about is and all the things around it ect ect ect and throw around stones.
Or you can ask Jesus to baptise you with the Holy Spirit and open your mouth and praise him in understanding/prophecy/tongues as the spirit leads you and reap the benifits.
O one more thing: when I got spirit filled the scriptures opened up to me! they got filled with spirited breathed life!!! HALLELUJA! I pray that all the believers in this world might recieve the fullness of the Holy Spirit.
And another thing: I believe in adult/believers baptism! AMEN