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It is not a discussion only about idolatry, but about the wrath of God against humanity due to its many, varied sins.

And the "somebody who is not Jesus" is regarded as a apostle by the church, and the folks who were with Jesus also accepted him as such. He claimed to receive his message from Jesus, and Christianity has held so since that time.

Do you reject all Pauline epistles as spurious, and only accept direct words of Jesus?

Can't speak for her of course, but IMHO the entire Bible is suspect (which is why I never quote scripture, nor do I give respond to scripture quoted to me as if it had any sort of weight.)

It's weird for me to read something like "accept the direct words of Jesus" - because my first thought is "Where exactly are those?" I assume when people say that they're talking about the gospels - but heck - two of the four gospels (Mark and Luke) are written by people that never saw Jesus either. They're not disciples. Mark - all that's really known of him (aside from conjecture of being one of the 70 sent away by Jesus which has always reeked to me of trying to make something fit where it really doesn't) - was that he was an interpreter/a student of Peter. Luke is egregiously bad because not only did he *undeniably* never see Jesus - his only knowledge of Christianity came from someone that *undeniably* never saw Jesus either (Paul).

Even the most stringent of Biblical people has to at least acknowledge that is true. Half of the gospels are not even first hand accounts by people that ever laid eyes on him...so they're not exactly "quotes" but rather hearsay.

Then you get into the whole deal about the chronology of the gospels and how it might pertain to authentically attributing them to either Matthew or John. Matthew, as a synoptic gospel, is kinda suspect as well...and then the timing for John really raises question there, too.

If I had to accept a version of it - it would probably be something akin to the heavily edited Jeffersonian Bible. I simply wasn't born with the kind of faith that allows me to make the choice to accept the book as being divinely inspired. I can't get away from the fact that even if you grant a lot of leeway - at least 19 of the 27 books of the NT were written by people that had no first hand knowledge of Jesus...and the other 8 are kinda suspect as well.

That's not to say that things of value can't be gleamed from the Bible...but I don't see it as providing the kind of penultimate trump card quotations on morality that others seem to.
 
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The end of the argument:

Rom 3:19 Now we know that whatever the law says it speaks to those who are under the law, so that every mouth may be stopped, and the whole world may be held accountable to God.

And we're not under the law if we're walking in His Spirit......correct? That's my belief, anyway (and that comes from some things I've read in the Bible). We are each (individually) accountable to God.
 
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I'm not going to go dig for the quote...but Link said a while back something like, "certainly no serious theologian would agree....." and I'm wondering if by "serious theologian" that is limited to one that tows the party line of what Link believes (IOW....serious = one who agrees with my beliefs).

I think it's important to consider the Jewish culture in the days of Christ. The Sanhedrin refused to believe that Christ was their Messiah. They got irate when Stephen tried to dismantle their (false) beliefs one point at a time in Acts 7:42-60 (and they stoned him to death for it). I just found this article about those passages here and Chip Ingram's study on Acts 7 notes here. This argument over same-sex marriage seems very similar in the way that people get *so* upset over beliefs. All that are opposed to same-sex marriage don't have to marry someone of their sex. Their marriages aren't affected (even if there are a LOT of people making that claim). Their life shouldn't be affected. The outrage really seems disproportionate (like I said---much like the outrage at Stephen).

The Bible says that if we truly want wisdom--we are promised to be given that (but clinging tightly to the old isn't being open to having a change of mind/beliefs--and sometimes, like the instances of Jesus and the Sanhedrin, the truth can be right in front of a person and they can still not "see" it).
 
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Another thing on lust.....and something that I believe parallels these verses in Romans (yet from an opposite sex perspective) is the whole way that Gothard (and his followers) have been idolizing him as the "authority" on how to raise "godly children" (to the point of child molestation being swept under the rug and victims blamed). There is a lot of skewed ideas about sexuality in that group (all under the "Christian" name). Personally......I don't believe our Lord is pleased with that.

Like TW pointed out already, promiscuous sex (or preying on children......or breaking promises and lying to a spouse and living a lie...ie lust) aren't comparable to a loving and committed couple that happen to be attracted only to each other (and happen to be the same sex).
 
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When you factor in that all of us, every day, intentionally or accidentally commit sins we don't believe to be sins despite their inclusion in the Bible, yet we still have a right to our marriages, our seats in our churches, and stab at salvation through the grace of God, the fact that we cut out homosexuals because of their supposed sin... It's completely hypocritical. Sin is sin is sin is sin.

Who said other sins are not believed to be sins?
Who said everyone does not sin?

You are presenting it as hypocritical, but only because you are looking at the other sins from your perspective as well. You let the other sins slide, and you let homosexuality slide. I am suggesting letting neither slide when it comes to saying they are not sin, or avoiding repenting from them.

And personally I would say someone with sexual attraction towards someone of the same sex, who recognized it as a sin. even if they struggled, even if they had sex at times, but then repented, it is a totally different issue than saying that it is fine to do and not a sin.

Just as the Christian who excuses constant fits of rage and anger and claims it is not a sin is different than someone who recognizes they have anger issues, repents of them, seeks help with them, and may occasionally blow it.

One is repenting, the other is excusing.
 
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So their sin isn't your sin. So you find their sin makes you uncomfortable. Get over it.

Who said I think their sin makes me uncomfortable? I have advocated for, and actually put into practice, a system that does not just look at one sin. In fact, I never put anyone out a church for homosexuality. We did have folks who would come at times to church, and I did not turn them away. However, if they wanted to study deeper and be baptized, etc. then they would have had to repent of that before I could baptize them. Just as others have to repent of their sins.
 
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or certainly deny them basic human rights as a citizen of this country. It's totally preposterous.

Had you actually read my position you would know I said the court could not make any other ruling than it did in my view. I do not take issue with the government ruling. To deny them rights to marry, protect property, help each other in medical crises, etc. does not make sense to me in the framework of a country that has religious freedom.

I am speaking about the church. Now within our country you have the right to your religious convictions. I agree with what MkGal said, that is a good thing. We don't need to impose religious views upon each person.

Now what I was speaking about is how a church should approach the issue. To me that must be informed by Scripture. I am however, certainly not trying to compel that in any way, or deny anyone rights as citizens. If a church insists on doing something, I do not think the government should compel them either. So if the Anglican church wishes to marry homosexuals, that is their choice.

What I am speaking about is that I do not think it is a Scriptural position, and that churches should reconsider. So I have no power or wish to limit rights of citizens in the country. And I have no power or wish to impose my will on other churches. However, I do want to appeal to church members, and those on this board to consider their position in light of the Scriptures. Because one position or the other is correct. It either is or is not a sin. So looking at the details from Scripture should be something churches are interested in doing.
 
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Though, at the end of the day, this only matters in the context of homosexuals who are Christian. If their not Christian, this belief matters not even slightly as they're not bound to do any sort of repenting or apologizing for what they're doing... They're not Christian. Just like you don't go and apologize or justify yourself and your faith to Muslims because you don't follow that faith, non-Christian homosexuals don't need to apologize or justify themselves to Christians because they don't follow our faith. It's only pride and selfishness that says that those who're not Christian need to explain to Christians why they should be allowed do or be or think or follow anything. Non-Christians owe you nothing in the way of an explanation, and you have no business telling them how to conduct themselves to be in accordance of your faith. Worry more about what you're doing to please God through your faith and behavior, and less about what your non-Christian neighbor needs to do to please your God.

Again had you read my position you would know I said no such thing as you are accusing me of. I agree, we have no business judging those outside the church. And Paul agrees too.

1Co 5:9 I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people—
1Co 5:10 not at all meaning the sexually immoral of this world, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters, since then you would need to go out of the world.
1Co 5:11 But now I am writing to you not to associate with anyone who bears the name of brother if he is guilty of sexual immorality or greed, or is an idolater, reviler, drunkard, or swindler—not even to eat with such a one.
1Co 5:12 For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Is it not those inside the church whom you are to judge?
1Co 5:13 God judges those outside. "Purge the evil person from among you."
 
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Can't speak for her of course, but IMHO the entire Bible is suspect (which is why I never quote scripture, nor do I give respond to scripture quoted to me as if it had any sort of weight.)

It's weird for me to read something like "accept the direct words of Jesus" - because my first thought is "Where exactly are those?" I assume when people say that they're talking about the gospels - but heck - two of the four gospels (Mark and Luke) are written by people that never saw Jesus either. They're not disciples. Mark - all that's really known of him (aside from conjecture of being one of the 70 sent away by Jesus which has always reeked to me of trying to make something fit where it really doesn't) - was that he was an interpreter/a student of Peter. Luke is egregiously bad because not only did he *undeniably* never see Jesus - his only knowledge of Christianity came from someone that *undeniably* never saw Jesus either (Paul).

Even the most stringent of Biblical people has to at least acknowledge that is true. Half of the gospels are not even first hand accounts by people that ever laid eyes on him...so they're not exactly "quotes" but rather hearsay.

Then you get into the whole deal about the chronology of the gospels and how it might pertain to authentically attributing them to either Matthew or John. Matthew, as a synoptic gospel, is kinda suspect as well...and then the timing for John really raises question there, too.

If I had to accept a version of it - it would probably be something akin to the heavily edited Jeffersonian Bible. I simply wasn't born with the kind of faith that allows me to make the choice to accept the book as being divinely inspired. I can't get away from the fact that even if you grant a lot of leeway - at least 19 of the 27 books of the NT were written by people that had no first hand knowledge of Jesus...and the other 8 are kinda suspect as well.

That's not to say that things of value can't be gleamed from the Bible...but I don't see it as providing the kind of penultimate trump card quotations on morality that others seem to.

A trump card for non-Christians? Of course not. You have made your views clear before, and I have no reason to quote Scripture in your direction, as you do not accept it in the same way Christians have historically. I do not agree with your assessment, but I won't deny you your right to it.

In the same way non-Christians would have no reason to regard the Bible. Which is why, as I said, I do not have an issue with the government ruling as it did.

I take issue with churches who claim to accept the Scriptures then ignoring them.
 
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And we're not under the law if we're walking in His Spirit......correct? That's my belief, anyway (and that comes from some things I've read in the Bible). We are each (individually) accountable to God.


Paul enlarges on the point in chapter 2:

Rom 2:12 For all who have sinned without the law will also perish without the law, and all who have sinned under the law will be judged by the law.
Rom 2:13 For it is not the hearers of the law who are righteous before God, but the doers of the law who will be justified.
Rom 2:14 For when Gentiles, who do not have the law, by nature do what the law requires, they are a law to themselves, even though they do not have the law.
Rom 2:15 They show that the work of the law is written on their hearts, while their conscience also bears witness, and their conflicting thoughts accuse or even excuse them
Rom 2:16 on that day when, according to my gospel, God judges the secrets of men by Christ Jesus.


As to walking in the Spirit, yes. There is no law against the fruit of the Spirit:


Gal 5:19 Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality,
Gal 5:20 idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions,
Gal 5:21 envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
Gal 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
Gal 5:23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
Gal 5:24 And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.




 
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This argument over same-sex marriage seems very similar in the way that people get *so* upset over beliefs. All that are opposed to same-sex marriage don't have to marry someone of their sex. Their marriages aren't affected (even if there are a LOT of people making that claim). Their life shouldn't be affected. The outrage really seems disproportionate (like I said---much like the outrage at Stephen).

A. thank you for comparing me to someone who stoned Stephen, but I do not agree with your assessment. I am not "*so* upset." I am expressing my view on this issue because the Bible indicates that the church is in fact to judge those within the church. And I apply it to far more than just this issue.

B. I never claimed my marriage was affected.

C. I didn't oppose the ruling by the government.
 
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I would be a fool to listen to people who I don't know who may have all kinds of motivations, who may in fact be a 14 year old boy, or a criminal, or just anyone actually.

If a 14-year-old offers you good advice, what is wrong with taking it? If a 14-year old or a criminal points out something that you are doing wrong, shouldn't you listen? An idea has it's own merit no matter who speaks it. The Holy Spirit can also speak through the least of the members of the body of Christ.

When I listen to someone else, I have things to draw from to evaluate it by. I can consider whether it is in line with what God has revealed through the Bible, if I'm hearing the Spirit of God in what I hear, and I can look at the situation in my own life.

In the Bible, there are plenty of examples of God speaking to someone through a stranger. Prophets spoke to people they don't know.

And decided you were right. Amirite? LOL.

This is exactly why I don't want to hang out with Christians. You're all right. No matter that you all have different readings and perspectives and beliefs, you're still all correct in everything you say and everyone should listen to you. Nope.

From your posts, it seems you seem to think you are always right, too. Do you hang out with yourself?

Hebrews 3:13 says, "But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called “today,” that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin." (ESV) We are supposed to hang out with other believers. What kind of influences are there on your thinking if you hang out only with unbelievers?

So, no, I'm not going to go "ohhhh, this man told me I should do x." SO not going to happen. Because you're men, you think that women must listen to you. Ah, no.

With almost every one of your posts, there is some kind of misinterpretation of the posters meaning or intention or some sort of unfounded accusation. I am open to good advice from women and children. Do you have some kind of problem with men? Do you have something against men?
 
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A. thank you for comparing me to someone who stoned Stephen, but I do not agree with your assessment. I am not "*so* upset." I am expressing my view on this issue because the Bible indicates that the church is in fact to judge those within the church. And I apply it to far more than just this issue.

B. I never claimed my marriage was affected.

C. I didn't oppose the ruling by the government.

To clarify: when I said, "so upset" and "making claims about this affecting their opposite-sex marriages".......I wasn't even referring to anyone here (or even *thinking* of this thread). My mind was going towards the hysteria I've read in blogs and online articles (for one example: there was a couple that was proclaiming they were going to divorce if same-sex marriage passed....another pastor said he'd be willing to be burned at the stake). That's probably why none of that applies to you :sorry:
 
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From your posts, it seems you seem to think you are always right, too.

She already addressed this for you:

I deal only with my own issues from day to day, doing what I think is right by what I think the Bible says, and I don't care if nobody else likes it because I'm not here to agree with anyone else, regardless of whether they think themselves the greatest scholar of all time.
 
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So either I'm not getting the new format of this forum or what, but for some reason the reply to one post is spread out over like four pages and I simply don't have the time or interest to go through and reply to four pages of stuff bit by bit. Especially since it's four pages of "what I want the Bible to say against homosexuals" and not four pages of what the Bible actually says.

If there is a thread on the topic, and I have (or just take) the time, I don't mind discussing that. But I have pointed out what the scriptures say on the topic. Tall has as well with lots of verses and explanation.

At the end of the day, Romans 1 clearly refers to idolatry and the sin that arose from that. The people who turned to idolatry, then felt in the worship of that idolatry they were required by said false idol to act in ways that were against God because of their actions having been rooted in what was commanded through idolatry. The focus on the same-sex relations part of it is cherry picking at it's finest. It's the highlighting on the result of a sin, idolatry, and how God doesn't want us in the name of other gods and engage in promiscuous sex with somebody of the same gender (depending on your version of the Bible, promiscuous sex with children of the same gender) to try and please them.


Let's look at what Romans 1 says (NKJV)
23 and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man—and birds and four-footed animals and creeping things.

24 Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, 25 who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.

26 For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. 27 Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due.

Look at verse 24. These are lusts. Verse 26 and 27 speak of passions and lusts. So it wasn't a case of 'Oh, Ashtoreth wants us guys to have sex with each other, and I don't want to, but Ashtoreth wants us to." These people did not honor God, so God gave them over to bad kinds of lusts that led them to do bad things.

And that's the problem with the sophistry and historical revisionism homosexual apologists like Matthew Vine promote. Romans 1 isn't a passage all about homosexuality. Homosexual behavior and lusts are mentioned in the context of idolatry, but the way they are discussed shows that engaging in the behavior is sinful.

Look at verse 26. The passions are called vile. Homosexual passions are vile according to the Bible. In verse 27, the men are burning in lusts for one another. Notice each one is burning in lust for the other. This is not a case of one burning with lust and pressuring a disinterested child or slave to engage in the behavior. Two people of the same gender desiring one another comes from vile passions. God gave men over to if for not regarding him and for pursuing idols. That is how it came to be practiced among people.

The very early Christians had the Old Testament as their Bible. They also probably would have had the letter from the apostles and elders in Acts 15 if not a gospel and some epistles. In Acts 15, Jewish Christians who had a lifestyle of (trying to) obey the law were considering whether the Gentiles had to join Israel through circumcision and be required to obey the law of Moses if they were Christians. Gentiles were told to 'abstain from fornication'. The Roman believers could have read Leviticus and saw that men having sex with men was a sin for the nations as well. If they had any question, when they came across this passage, if they accepted it as they should have, they would conclude that homosexual behavior was sinful for men, not just for Jews.
 
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I am not always convinced I am right. About 8 years ago I resigned from pastoring and left my previous denomination and spent a good deal of time re-studying many of the doctrines I held at that point. I could not reconcile my previous positions in light of new things I discovered in the Scriptures either through personal study, or talking to other Christians, including on Christian Forums. So I made changes to my views.

While it is true that many do come to different conclusions about some passages, there is a lot that can be learned by comparing the details and discussing what the Scriptures say. So when I propose a discussion of the evidence in the Scriptures it is not simply to say I am right, but also an invitation to look at what I have thought before on the topic, and analyze it again in light of insights others may bring.

I have changed my mind, before, even if it meant changing my life. But I only want to do that if I can see that it matches up with what God revealed.

And during all the studying, yes sometimes it got to be too much, all the theological wrangling. So I would take a break, and then come back to it. But I cannot just think it doesn't matter.
 
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I sometimes wonder if people would have the same reaction if there weren't a million different ways people were promoting support for the court ruling. I mean, you have Facebook profile pic rainbows, companies tweeting #lovewins, making an alternative logo into rainbow colors, giving their support publicly. If the only thing related to this was people being given the right to have legal status provided by the title of being married, rather than it being promoted as a significant win for equality and for the validity of the lgbt movement, would it have the same controversial nature?

Not that it matters...it is what it is. And for the record, I am not happy about this, but mainly because of everything that comes along with the ruling. I would prefer from the religious marriage to be completely separate from the state, since everything gets murky when you have a religious sacrament (or whatever you want to call it) mixed up with legality. Society's 'marriage' (and legal marriage) has become more and more unbiblical over time...I don't consider the state's legal opinion of who is married to be the equivalent of what the sacrament means in God's eyes.
 
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Tropical Wilds wrote,
It's turning what's actually a message about one thing and twisting it to an argument against something you have a personal issue with and applying it to Christianity when it's a message actually applied to the actions of idolatry.

I Corinthians 6 shows us that men who have sex with men have no inheritance in the kingdom of God (... and such were some of you, but now ye are washed....) It's not contingent on whether it is done in the context of idolatry. The word used there, 'arsenokoites', may be taken from the Greek of Leviticus 20, 'arsenos koiten'.


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This whole argument is negated anyway when people hold up the Bible and demand the literal meaning of it, devoid of context, and use it to illustrate that somehow homosexuality must be awful and that's why we as Christians are apparently commanded to treat it as a sin so great that it violates one's personal freedom, yet at the end of the very same passage, when it says that they are deserving of death (along with a multitude of other sins, many of which have been committed by people here I'm absolutely sure), the story changes to "Weeeeell... We can skip that part. It's not to be taken literally" despite the fact that there's no indication the passage is metaphorical instead of literal.[/quote]

Why would you assume people who take this passage seriously think like you do about it. I do believe those who have done such things are worthy of death. Adulterers are worthy of death. It takes a bit of humility for one to accept that one has done wickedness and deserves death. People who have done sins that are worthy of death can also be forgiven. David was forgiven. His iniquities were covered. The Lord did not impute his sin to him. He found grace. He had also come to a point of brokenness where he realized that he was guilty before God. He did not justify himself in his sin when he got to that point. He did not consider the Torah to be worthless, just a rule of thumb, no big deal, not mean to be taken literally. On the contrary, he realized the guilt of his sin, and he repented. And God was merciful to him and forgave him.

I believe the reason society has moved toward approving of this kind of sexual immorality is because so many people have committed sexual immorality themselves and continue to do so. It's hard for lawmakers and activitists to call homosexual immorality immoral when one is having affairs or had them and hasn't come to the realization of their sin, repented, and received grace from God. A Christian who has sinned should be humble enough to admit that the sin is indeed wicked, and though he or she deserved punishment and death, God showed mercy and grace.

As far as civil law goes, I know God gave laws to put those who engaged in homosexual behavior, beastiality, and adultery to death to the nation of Israel. Is it required of all nations to do so? I don't know. But I don't consider it unjust for a nation to put those who engage in such activities to death if there are reliable witnesses to the crime.

When you factor in that all of us, every day, intentionally or accidentally commit sins we don't believe to be sins despite their inclusion in the Bible, yet we still have a right to our marriages, our seats in our churches, and stab at salvation through the grace of God, the fact that we cut out homosexuals because of their supposed sin... It's completely hypocritical. Sin is sin is sin is sin. So their sin isn't your sin. So you find their sin makes you uncomfortable. Get over it. That's not a reason to marginalize them, say that God is against them any more than he's against your sin, or certainly deny them basic human rights as a citizen of this country. It's totally preposterous.

You have your own way of thinking here. In Matthew 18, Jesus said that if your brother sins against you, rebuke him. If he repents forgive him. If he won't hear you, take two or three others for in the mouth of two or three witnesses let every word be established. If he won't hear them, take it to the church. If he won't hear the church, let him be unto you as a heathen man and a publican. Where two or three of you, He said, are gathered in my name, there He is in the midst.

Paul told the Corinthians that when the church was gathered together with the power of the Lord Jesus, to deliver the man fornicating with his father's wife over to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that his spirit might be saved in the day of the Lord. He warned that a little bit of leaven leavens the whole lump. We are also to expel the coveteous, idolators, revilers, drunkards and extortioners.

He wrote to the Galatians of restoring one overtaken in a fault in a spirit of meekness. This all lines up with what Jesus said.

If someone in the church sins, they are to repent. If not, other believers are to bring correction. If they won't hear, it is to go before the congregation. The fact that relatively few congregations practice this doesn't mean it isn't the way to do it. It is not supposed to be the case that people can live in sexual immorality, adultery, idolatry, greed, or sexual sin and be accepted as believers and be free to go to church and eat and fellowship with the saints. The church was to expel the fornicator that his spirit might be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.

And sins are not all equal. Nowhere does the Bible teach that and there is plenty of evidence in the Bible against it.

Though, at the end of the day, this only matters in the context of homosexuals who are Christian. If their not Christian, this belief matters not even slightly as they're not bound to do any sort of repenting or apologizing for what they're doing... They're not Christian.

We are to judge those who are within. God judges those in the world. I can agree to that extent. But when the wicked rule, the people groan, and it is appropriate for believers to lament the country they live in become even more accepting of sin. But they allow doctors to murder babies in the womb and have for decades, which I would argue is much worse than this. Christians have been lamenting that for a long time, though. This gets a lot of attention because it is new.

And it's that very fact, that because Christianity rules over Christians and not non-Christians or the nation as a whole, that is why it was unconstitutional to deny homosexuals the right to marry.

Four judges made a foolish, politically motivated decisions. Congress needs to set some guidelines and create some penalties for judges overstepping their bounds. The words on the page of the laws mean little these days. Judges have gone way beyond interpretting the gray areas to create new precedent. The Constitution doesn't even specify that the Supreme Court has the right to declare laws unconstitutional, but even that was a gray area. Creating new laws quite different from the wording of the Constitution and written law is another matter. You wonder if the Supreme Court has to issue a bill of attainder for members of the Congress before the government will do something.


There are rights earned to us by being citizens, marriage being one of them. It's not a right earned by being a good Christian. If it were, none of us could marry.

I believe in the government giving the same equal rights and the same rules for legal marriage for all of it's citizens. I think most American Christians who believe homosexuality is a sin feel the same way. I don't think so-called 'sexual orientation' should be a basis for the government discriminating against people getting married. If an elibible man or woman struggles with same-sex desires, he or she should be allowed to marry any eligible member of the opposite sex just like anyone else, but just as a matter of fairness, a person should let their potential husband or wife know before the proposal is accepted.


The blessing in all of this is that, sooner rather than later, this will be like those who used the Bible as a reason to rail against the civil rights movement. The height of it was less than 60 years ago and despite an entire segment of the nation being against it (the same one against this ruling, actually), you can't find many people who say "I wasn't for the civil rights movement or the granting Black Americans equal protections and rights under the law." Everybody was always a champion for the movement because to be anything else made you an ignorant bigot. Nobody was the relative of a racist who fought against the black community.

There is a big difference. The Bible does not say, "Thou shalt not be dark-skinned." A man from Africa believed the Gospel and was baptized before a European Italian heard it. I don't think what you say is true anyway. There are many people from that generation who would tell you they weren't for the Civil Rights movement. Most people aren't politicians.


In 60 years, you'll never admit that you were against gay rights and Link Jr. will be on here talking about how his family was one of the early champions of gay civil rights, just like everybody else. We've already seen it...

I don't believe or accept your evil curse of my son, who isn't called Link Jr, btw, but he studies the word of God and knows that marriage is to be between a man and a woman and that he is to abstain from sex until marriage, if he chooses to marry.

When he's president one day, we'll see what he says. :)


Companies and people came out in light of the ruling, now that they had the power to do so, to celebrate the ruling when this time last year these companies wouldn't have dreamed of coming out in support of the same-sex community.

Companies have been supporting this evil for some time, even letting go or refusing to hire Christians who held to historical, Biblical beliefs on the issue in some cases. Chick-Fil-A's president had the boldness to offer a tame statement in favor of traditional marriage and homosexuals were outraged.






It's turning what's actually a message about one thing and twisting it to an argument against something you have a personal issue with and applying it to Christianity when it's a message actually applied to the actions of idolatry.

This whole argument is negated anyway when people hold up the Bible and demand the literal meaning of it, devoid of context, and use it to illustrate that somehow homosexuality must be awful and that's why we as Christians are apparently commanded to treat it as a sin so great that it violates one's personal freedom, yet at the end of the very same passage, when it says that they are deserving of death (along with a multitude of other sins, many of which have been committed by people here I'm absolutely sure), the story changes to "Weeeeell... We can skip that part. It's not to be taken literally" despite the fact that there's no indication the passage is metaphorical instead of literal.

The lesson here is we skip the beginning, when it provides the context of idolatry to the transgressions, we skip the end when it says they, and other sinners, deserve to die for their sins as the result of idolatry because it's apparently a metaphor, but we pick out that one little section in the middle to prove irrevocably that because Paul had an issue with what idolatrous people did because of their idolatry, that must mean that God himself wants us to completely marginalize an entire segment of people because their "sin" is non-idolatrous homosexuality.

When you factor in that all of us, every day, intentionally or accidentally commit sins we don't believe to be sins despite their inclusion in the Bible, yet we still have a right to our marriages, our seats in our churches, and stab at salvation through the grace of God, the fact that we cut out homosexuals because of their supposed sin... It's completely hypocritical. Sin is sin is sin is sin. So their sin isn't your sin. So you find their sin makes you uncomfortable. Get over it. That's not a reason to marginalize them, say that God is against them any more than he's against your sin, or certainly deny them basic human rights as a citizen of this country. It's totally preposterous.

Though, at the end of the day, this only matters in the context of homosexuals who are Christian. If their not Christian, this belief matters not even slightly as they're not bound to do any sort of repenting or apologizing for what they're doing... They're not Christian. Just like you don't go and apologize or justify yourself and your faith to Muslims because you don't follow that faith, non-Christian homosexuals don't need to apologize or justify themselves to Christians because they don't follow our faith. It's only pride and selfishness that says that those who're not Christian need to explain to Christians why they should be allowed do or be or think or follow anything. Non-Christians owe you nothing in the way of an explanation, and you have no business telling them how to conduct themselves to be in accordance of your faith. Worry more about what you're doing to please God through your faith and behavior, and less about what your non-Christian neighbor needs to do to please your God.

And it's that very fact, that because Christianity rules over Christians and not non-Christians or the nation as a whole, that is why it was unconstitutional to deny homosexuals the right to marry. There are rights earned to us by being citizens, marriage being one of them. It's not a right earned by being a good Christian. If it were, none of us could marry.

The blessing in all of this is that, sooner rather than later, this will be like those who used the Bible as a reason to rail against the civil rights movement. The height of it was less than 60 years ago and despite an entire segment of the nation being against it (the same one against this ruling, actually), you can't find many people who say "I wasn't for the civil rights movement or the granting Black Americans equal protections and rights under the law." Everybody was always a champion for the movement because to be anything else made you an ignorant bigot. Nobody was the relative of a racist who fought against the black community. In 60 years, you'll never admit that you were against gay rights and Link Jr. will be on here talking about how his family was one of the early champions of gay civil rights, just like everybody else. We've already seen it... Companies and people came out in light of the ruling, now that they had the power to do so, to celebrate the ruling when this time last year these companies wouldn't have dreamed of coming out in support of the same-sex community.[/QUOTE]
 
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With almost every one of your posts, there is some kind of misinterpretation of the posters meaning or intention or some sort of unfounded accusation.
That is an unfounded accusation.
I am open to good advice from women and children. Do you have some kind of problem with men? Do you have something against men?
Yes of course. I hate men. Isn't that what you want to hear?
 
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