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bleechers said:
1. Do you tithe 10% pre or post tax?
2. Do you tithe all 10% locally or do you support several ministries in that 10%?
3. Do you consider any gift of goods (non-cash) as part of any given 10%?

I am truly curious about all this. I wonder how different people view the 10%
1. 10% pre tax

2. 10% locally (to my local church) in addition to (what we call) Faith Promise which supports missions work, in addition to "offerings" which we give out of the abundance of our hearts (which goes to families in need both within and somewhat without the church)

3. We consider all else extra outside of the 10%

The 10% we give is directly off of our "gross" income every pay.
 
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seebs said:
I am inclined to trust the direct commandments at least somewhat.
When? When it feeds your flesh? LOL.



Deuteronomy 5:22-2922 These words the LORD spake unto all your assembly in the mount out of the midst of the fire, of the cloud, and of the thick darkness, with a great voice: and he added no more. And he wrote them in two tables of stone, and delivered them unto me. 23 And it came to pass, when ye heard the voice out of the midst of the darkness, (for the mountain did burn with fire,) that ye came near unto me, even all the heads of your tribes, and your elders; 24 And ye said, Behold, the LORD our God hath showed us his glory and his greatness, and we have heard his voice out of the midst of the fire: we have seen this day that God doth talk with man, and he liveth. 25 Now therefore why should we die? for this great fire will consume us: if we hear the voice of the LORD our God any more, then we shall die. 26 For who is there of all flesh, that hath heard the voice of the living God speaking out of the midst of the fire, as we have, and lived? 27 Go thou near, and hear all that the LORD our God shall say: and speak thou unto us all that the LORD our God shall speak unto thee; and we will hear it, and do it. 28 And the LORD heard the voice of your words, when ye spake unto me; and the LORD said unto me, I have heard the voice of the words of this people, which they have spoken unto thee: they have well said all that they have spoken. 29 O that there were such an heart in them, that they would fear me, and keep all my commandments always, that it might be well with them, and with their children for ever!

"And thou shalt bestow that money for whatsoever thy soul lusteth after, for oxen, or for sheep, or for wine, or for strong drink, or for whatsoever thy soul desireth: and thou shalt eat there before the LORD thy God, and thou shalt rejoice, thou, and thine household,"

If you don't like it, take it up with Him. :)
Help yourself. Do what is best in your own eyes. God doesn't want your money, he wants your life. Go and chase whatsoever your soul lusteth after. Enjoy.
 
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bleechers said:
GEL, this is not a sarcastic post (honestly), so let me ask some questions (I really am curious :)).

1. Do you tithe 10% pre or post tax?
2. Do you tithe all 10% locally or do you support several ministries in that 10%?
3. Do you consider any gift of goods (non-cash) as part of any given 10%?

I am truly curious about all this. I wonder how different people view the 10%
We tithe before taxes....as the Lord desrves the first fruits of our labor.

We tithe 10% locally and also support missonaries monthly. So our charity money is over 10% technically.

No, I don't concider any gifts or goods 10% for our family. As I stated first, we give our "first fruits" to the Lord and then we do what we want with the rest.

Praise the Lord for He is good and deserves it!
 
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BT said:
When? When it feeds your flesh? LOL.

When God says one thing, and a bunch of people get together and say "actually, what God says isn't right, you should do this instead"...

Help yourself. Do what is best in your own eyes. God doesn't want your money, he wants your life.

Exactly. And of that, I give 100%, and it really doesn't even make sense to ask how much of my money I "give to God", because it's all His anyway.
 
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seebs said:
Exactly. And of that, I give 100%, and it really doesn't even make sense to ask how much of my money I "give to God", because it's all His anyway.
As long as you give 100% of your life that's all that really matters. I wouldn't say, How much money to you give to God? Because you don't really give Him any. I would instead say, How much money do you give to God's work, or to the ministry of your church. And even that is a somewhat irrelavent question. We need to give money to God's work, how else would missionaries survive? And if we didn't give a set amount to missions but instead just gave how ever much we felt like, there would be far fewer people on the mission field.

When a missionary comes to your church and your church pledges let's say $100 per month to that missionary, do they not need to know that there will be at least 100 a month coming in that they can use towards this? Or should they instead pledge money that they think they will have and later leave the missionary high and dry when his bills come in. How can a church even take on missionary support if they don't have a budget for it? Let's not get too hung up on things like budgets and salaries. These are neither good nor evil, they are financial tools.

I have some experience with this because I'm a deacon and sit on decisions that have to do with money etc. My church right now supports over 80 missionaries. I do not belong to a large church, I think we have 200 people or so. Our missions program is determined to give real financial support to missionaries. Some churches will give a missionary 2.00 per month, either because that is all that they have (and God bless them for it), or because they are more concerned about having numerous pictures on the "missionary support wall" in the entrance (and God repay them for their works). Our support for missionaries is something that really drives my church, but we also need to pay for the expenses at hand. Hydro, water, gas, parking-lot cleaning, building repair, administration fees (outside) are not free simply because you are a church. These things need to be paid for. This is what the tithes are used for, the maintenance of God's (tangible) work. This is the heart of tithing.

Ok, like it or not I'm going to Malachi now.

Malachi 3:10 "Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it."

So at first glimpse it is easy enough to dismiss this verse. We can say, "This is for the Jews and was for the Temple. We are not Jews and even if we were there is no temple.. so this is not in effect."

This seems to be a solid answer, but I ask you (as I learned from Christ in the Gospels) to look at the heart of the matter. The point of this was to bring the tithe into the storehouse so that there was meat in God's house. So why ought there be meat in God's house? He obviously doesn't need it. However, the priests did. The heart of this was to supply the work of God and the people who worked for God, in this case the priests, in our case the pastors. We tithe money so that there is meat in God's house (which I parallel with our local churches). This meat is used for God's work, for His purposes. It's not like the deacon's and pastor are using this money to go and buy new cars every couple of weeks (if they did God reward them in kind).

So while we can dismiss this verse by reason of antiquity we can not dismiss the heart of the command. This is why I say that 10% is a good measuring rod for tithing in today's age. God was well pleased with 10% during the dispensation of Law, God will be pleased still with the tithe in our day and age. I don't preach on tithing and I don't know who gives what in my church, nor do I ever want to know. God is no respecter of persons (Acts 10:34), and neither am I. I do counsel people to tithe if they ask, but only so the Lord's work may continue and prosper. If you don't want to tithe, I'm not going to get up on the soapbox and call down fire on your head. But just be careful when you claim that there is no tithing in the NT, because while the concept doesn't appear in the exact phrase there is allusion to it and it seems to be a practice that was installed by the Apostles as they journeyed around. So, yes there is an aspect of giving in the NT that appears to be tithing... so just becareful when you claim that it isn't there. I wouldn't want people jumping down on you. If I could remember where it is off hand I would tell you, but I'm a bit under the weather right now and having a hard time concentrating.

Back to bed for me. :sick:
 
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If tithing is from the "law", will tithing create bondage to the law?
Another question: Did Jesus know and follow any laws?

OK, forget tithing......Is your church doing anything worth supporting?

Should your pastor apply for social aid, perhaps give up medical insurance even for his children, when in fact you have a policy covering your children?
There are pastors without insurance bringing God's word to folks that have low deductables and even dental plans that are afraid the "law" will trap them is they give the poor man a living wage.

I am to close to this issue, so I will leave it there.
Mike
 
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Let me start by answering bleecher's question:

>We give 10+% out of every paycheck, this is figured against our gross income.

>Most of what we give goes locally to our church, but periodically we will give that money to the local union rescue mission or a non-local ministry the Lord has burdened us to help.

>Anything we give that is non-cash we really don't keep track of. We use John the Baptist's philosophy of "if your brother has no tunic, and you have two tunics you should give one of them to your brother". For example we have a computer that is only about a year or two old that is perfectly good condition, we are looking for a family or someone in need (like a student) in our church that could use it. We don't keep track of it's value or anything like that donation wise.

Now to my question:

In Deut 14, tells the Israelites that once a year (except of the third year tithe) they are to bring their tithe to Jerusalem (if they had to far to go, they could sell their livestock/grain/fruit) and have a huge feast, they would eat and feast on their own tithe.

How come we never hear this from the pulpit..."Take one months tithe and go out with your family to a nice restaurant and have a big meal"? This is a command of God and yet in the 8+ years I have been a Christian and heard many a sermon on tithing I have never once heard this. What I have heard is that ALL the first fruits belong to God and should come into His house (church) and if you don't your robbing God. This message is clearly contrary to Scripture, because God commands that once a year you are to take the tithe and use if for yourself.

This has set wrong with me. We as baptist think of ourselve (myself included) as doing church the Biblical way, one of the things we like to hang our hat on is our Biblical baptism by immersion. Why then is it ok for us (and I'm speaking somewhat rhetorically as you all have not been to the churches I have been to) to not teach Biblical giving? It seems we have determined one thing is important to keep Biblical, but a different thing well lets just "tweak" it a little.

Anyway, I'm not trying to start a riot, but the fact that the true Biblically holistic view of tithing is not taught sits with me wrong.
 
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which we give out of the abundance of our hearts (which goes to families in need both within and somewhat without the church

I am glad you mentioned this. Paul clearly states that our primary responsibility is to care for the church... the people, not the building. This is also why I'm not a big fan of things like Habitat for Humanity (I got into this on the Music board), as they do a lot of "work" for non-Christians and rarely, if ever, share the gospel.

Looks good on paper, but it ain't what we've been called to do!

Christians are given abundance to show love to other Christians. Unfortuately, we can raise tens of thousands of dollars for building projects while teachers of the Word struggle to live and while our brothers and sisters suffer need. (I'm generalizing, of course.)

As for the "tithes" of the Law, I once added them up and it came to something like 23% (partly because some of the tithe was really an "infrastructure" tax). So, I have no problem with a 10% target... so long as any giving is done from the heart and not because of "law-keeping".

It's good to see so many willing and wanting to give! :)
 
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I really am pleased to hear the attitudes and opinions expressed in this thread. Bleechers (as well as others) has brought up a good point --as long as it is from the heart. That is the whole point, is it not? We are to be joyful in our giving and have giving hearts.

10% before or after gross pay or whatever other formula is discussed is really a moot point. We should give because we want to and in the amount the Spirit leads us. My wife and I personally use the 10% guide because it's very disciplining for us. If we didn't use this guide, I'm afraid we would give less. Perhaps, however, we would give more? :eek:

I am a giver by nature (one of my gifts from God?). I know, for me personally, I would give more, but tithing has been a very big struggle for my wife, so the 10% is a "compromise". She's a mother and, of course, is very nesting and wishes to make sure she has all the food, clothing, etc. for our children and family.

As for where the money goes, I think it's imperative --if God has led you to a church of which you're a part of that body-- that you support your local church first and foremost. If you are able and willing to give beyond that to others, that is good also. As one stated, giving is not just money, but help, assistance, time, and other things.

Just some more scattered thoughts.

--CK
 
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The Bible talks about taking care of your pastor. This is only a couple of verses that talks about a servant is worthy of their hire. The church is responsible for rightly taking care of the pastor and church finances. Pastors shouldn't have to nickle & dime everything but should be taken care of appropiately.

Timothy 5:17 Let the elders that rule well be counted worthy of double honour, especially they who labour in the word and doctrine.
18 For the scripture saith, Thou shalt not muzzle the ox that treadeth out the corn. And, The labourer is worthy of his reward.
 
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GreenEyedLady said:
My husband and I also faithfully give 10% every year.
Since we have been faithful his salary has doubled and we are almost out of debt! And we still give 10%!
Praise the Lord. You don't HAVE to but you will be soooooooo blessed if you do.
GEL
Any chance it had to do with the possibility of your husband doing well at his job?

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The tithe was given as a matter of sustenance for the Levites. They were not allowed to own property. Therefore, they could not raise crops or livestock.

The tithe was never in a form of currency. Money and the tithe only come together in one verse in Scripture:

Deuteronomy 14:
22 "You (11) shall surely tithe all the produce from what you sow, which comes out of the field every year.
23 "You shall eat in the presence of the LORD your God, (12) at the place where He chooses to establish His name, the tithe of your grain, your new wine, your oil, and the firstborn of your herd and your flock, so that you may (13) learn to fear the LORD your God always.
24 "If the distance is so great for you that you are not able to bring the tithe, since the place where the LORD your God chooses (14) to set His name is too far away from you when the LORD your God blesses you,
25 then you shall exchange it for money, and bind the money in your hand and go to the place which the LORD your God chooses.
26 "You may spend the money for whatever your heart desires: for oxen, or sheep, or wine, or strong drink, or whatever your heart desires; and (15) there you shall eat in the presence of the LORD your God and rejoice, you and your household.
27 "Also you shall not neglect (16) the Levite who is in your town, (17) for he has no portion or inheritance among you.
28 "(18) At the end of every third year you shall bring out all the tithe of your produce in that year, and shall deposit it in your town.
29 "The Levite, (19) because he has no portion or inheritance among you, and (20) the alien, the orphan and the widow who are in your town, shall come and (21) eat and be satisfied, in order that (22) the LORD your God may bless you in all the work of your hand which you do.

As you might note, not only is the tithe and money together in this issue strictly as a matter of an exchange, but furthermore, it is so that you can through a party in honor of G-d. +

Here's the thing: if you want to give ten percent of your salary to an 'organization', then do it according to your conscience. + Y'shua (Jesus) paid the tithe, because the temple was still standing, the Levites still existed as a priesthood.

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RED that's ME said:
The Bible talks about taking care of your pastor. This is only a couple of verses that talks about a servant is worthy of their hire. The church is responsible for rightly taking care of the pastor and church finances. Pastors shouldn't have to nickle & dime everything but should be taken care of appropiately.

Timothy 5:17 Let the elders that rule well be counted worthy of double honour, especially they who labour in the word and doctrine.
18 For the scripture saith, Thou shalt not muzzle the ox that treadeth out the corn. And, The labourer is worthy of his reward.
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Let me tell you what the church gave the minister that I used to attend:

Head Pastor:

$90,000
didn't pay insurance.

Associate Pastor #1:

$60,000
didn't pay insurance

Associate Pastor #2
$50,000
didn't pay insurance

All total, there was over $300,000 in the annual budget for an administration and minsterial staff of 6. +

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Each one of us is called to be a 'minister'. +

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Any chance it had to do with the possibility of your husband doing well at his job?
This is a sad comment to a person that gives credit to the Lord for everything.

Each one of us is called to be a 'minister'. There needn't always be a matter of compensation.
Baptist understand this, it's a core belief of the baptist.

All total, there was over $300,000 in the annual budget for an administration and minsterial staff of 6. Do you find that reasonable for what can legitimately be considered part-time employment?
I have no idea if it's reasonable, I don't personally know any of them. However, as far as part time employment I think you are talking about a preacher, not a pastor. If your pastor was only teaching then it's too much, but if He was a pastor that's a different story.

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GreenEyedLady said:
Bleechers,
Are you against a pastor saying "You should give 10% to the Lord" to the congregation?
There is alot of talk about the "law" and from the heart.
Are you being an obedient christian if you do not tithe?
Is it right in God's eyes NOT to tithe?
GEL

To be honest, I lean towards muffler dragon's view. I have always seen the OT tithe as sort of an infrastructure and governmental tax. I think to declare "YOU SHOULD GIVE 10%" is taking a part of the Law and binding it on the church. As both Paul and James teach, the Law is not divisible, you are either under ALL the law or under NONE of the law. In Christ, I am under none of the OT law.

I am against "salaries" as I cannot find such a concept in the NT. I believe Christians should give (as the greek work suggests) "hilariously" to the work of the minsitry. Too often we give to buildings and not to men.

The Plymouth Brethren do this with great effectiveness. They have no salaried clergy. They have full-time workers and itinerant teachers who all live on faith. People give as they are led. Others give of their talents. I know one worker who has four kids and a Christian contarctor doubled the size of his house for him and the local church paid for the materials.

I also do not make laws for others. If you and your husband prayerfully and with great joy give 10% to the work of the minstry, then I say "Praise the Lord"!

$90,000
didn't pay insurance.

This figure staggered me. 90 grand? I hope this was a local assembly in NYC, otherwise it seems pretty high. Now if this is what the saints gave from their hearts and not from a budget, then I wouldn't be troubled by it. But to create a legal contract promising such money? I just don't see it in the NT.

How many brothers and sisters in Christ live in want because we have satisfied ourselves with a tithe or because we have locked up the Lord's money in a budget?

I say, kill the budget; give hilariously; rich support the poor in the church; support the work of the gospel; give to and for souls not to buildings (within reason); provide a glass of cold water for a worker in the ministry if that's what you have... if you are in abundance, sell the fourth car and provide for full-time workers directly and secretly...

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Budgets and salaries have a place the man of God must eat and we must be good stewards.

My church has a budget and salaries... so I don't think it's anathema ;), but I believe that a search of the NT will lean towards living on faith over a contractual obligation. I can live with both (budgets and salaries), but I truly admire the PBs for doing it the way they do.

Thanks for the kind words... by the way, that 90 grand was in US dollars not Canadian dollars! ;)
 
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bleechers said:
My church has a budget and salaries... so I don't think it's anathema ;), but I believe that a search of the NT will lean towards living on faith over a contractual obligation. I can live with both (budgets and salaries), but I truly admire the PBs for doing it the way they do.

Thanks for the kind words... by the way, that 90 grand was in US dollars not Canadian dollars! ;)
As usual we're on the same page. My church has a budget and salaries too. The bugdets are modest as are the salaries. You have to remember that Paul and the apostles were not pastors.. they were missionaries, church planters if you will. We don't really have anything to tell us how the local pastors were supported. Hey think of this... if your church is bringing in 200k per week should that all go to the Pastor? A budget helps the local church stay afloat and salaries ensure that the Pastor's taken care of.. If a man has no salary he can't get a bank loan, or a mortgage (as far as I know.. in Canada anyway). There are some huge churches that have a lot of money coming in, budgets and salaries keep things under control. I can admire the PB's too but like you said it's neither right or wrong (not anathema). I'm lucky in this, that the Lord has blessed me with skills that I can use to get a job outside of the pastorate. So when I'm a pastor and in a small church, I don't need to be a burden on them if they can't afford my salary. All things work together for good to those who love the Lord, to those who are called according to his purpose.
 
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