Thank you for posting this.
Before we got married we both read "The First Years of Forever" by Ed Wheat. It was written a billion years lol, so of course didn't mention oral sex at all. And I haven't managed to find a truly modern book on this issue from a conservative Christian viewpoint (if anyone knows of one, please let me know). Christians who are engaged and have waited until marriage for sex really do struggle with this issue.
In the end, I BELIEVE, if it is an activity that promotes intimacy between the couple, if it is alright with both parties, and it doesn't involve any other people, it's good in God's eyes.
Other than that, I think Dallas has said it all
Besides, WHO CARES what we think about it, honestly. I never get these topics, Im sorry if this sounds unkind, I just think some people find it titillating to start discussing things in groups, and at the end of the day, once you are married, I PROMISE you, what some strangers online said they are OK or not with it will not be of any import
Hello all! I am not sure if this is the right place to post my question but here goes. I am approaching marriage and am starting to think about our future physical relationship, specifically whether or not [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]/cunninglus is 'morally' acceptable. To me, they seem demeaning and, for [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] specifically, a blatent disregard for the purpose of the man's seed. I am anxious to hear your thoughts.
His blessings,
Mike
Hello all! I am not sure if this is the right place to post my question but here goes. I am approaching marriage and am starting to think about our future physical relationship, specifically whether or not [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]/cunninglus is 'morally' acceptable. To me, they seem demeaning and, for [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] specifically, a blatent disregard for the purpose of the man's seed. I am anxious to hear your thoughts.
His blessings,
Mike
I didn't like, "Sheet Music" at all. Just my two cents.
all I know is when men really want to insult someone the phrase
"suck my ____, " is used as though it were the wrost insult one could give another--which infers to me men seem to intimate the act as demeaning whether or not it may be physically pleasing. Even used in films like GI JANE.
all I know is when men really want to insult someone the phrase
"suck my ____, " is used as though it were the wrost insult one could give another--which infers to me men seem to intimate the act as demeaning whether or not it may be physically pleasing. Even used in films like GI JANE.
Unfortunatly that does not always happen, what if your wife not giving you oral was a deal breaker for you? That might be a pretty serious problem.
It would not help the situation to make such statements while they were making preparations to leave the relationship however. Making statements like yours would just add fuel to the fire. That might be your opinion but that opinion is not shared by everyone. All im saying is when a spouse has off limits areas like that you run the risk of having issues in the marriage upto and including divorce.
I agree these things should be discussed before marriage but with the taboo nature of sex in the church that creates quite the catch 22. Also just discussing it does not always help, you just never know and sometimes things dont work out for the best.