This is Why Homosexuality is Wrong. . .

[The Bellman]

Of course men and women are sexually attracted to one another, but it doesn't stop there, there is another dimension; it's called the emotional dimension, a dimension which does not exist in the homosexual realm.

This is a lie you cannot support.

So if homosexuality is all about lust and nothing else, which it is

This is a lie you cannot support.

Stop lying.

 

[PassionFruit]

Of course men and women are sexually attracted to one another, but it doesn't stop there, there is another dimension; it's called the emotional dimension, a dimension which does not exist in the homosexual realm.

BTW, there are many heterosexual couples where the relationship is all about lust and they still get married. These marriages, however, more often than not, fail miserably.

So if homosexuality is all about lust and nothing else, which it is, then "homosexual marriages" are doomed to failure just as heterosexual marriages that are based entirely on lust are doomed to failure just the same. Why marry a homosexual couple when you know they won't stay together in the first place?

Then I'm going to have ask you, since you "seem" to have "insight" into homosexuality. Are you a homosexual?

 

[naotmaa]

Of course men and women are sexually attracted to one another, but it doesn't stop there, there is another dimension; it's called the emotional dimension, a dimension which does not exist in the homosexual realm.

BTW, there are many heterosexual couples where the relationship is all about lust and they still get married. These marriages, however, more often than not, fail miserably.

So if homosexuality is all about lust and nothing else, which it is, then "homosexual marriages" are doomed to failure just as heterosexual marriages that are based entirely on lust are doomed to failure just the same. Why marry a homosexual couple when you know they won't stay together in the first place?

But homosexuality has that other dimesion too. I know that you don't like that but its true. Most human beings know what love feels like. There is no way to confuse it with lust. A gay couple can fall in love just as much as a striaght couple can. It boggles my mind that you can claim the opposite with so much certainty.

 

[Beanieboy]

Of course men and women are sexually attracted to one another, but it doesn't stop there, there is another dimension; it's called the emotional dimension, a dimension which does not exist in the homosexual realm.

BTW, there are many heterosexual couples where the relationship is all about lust and they still get married. These marriages, however, more often than not, fail miserably.

So if homosexuality is all about lust and nothing else, which it is, then "homosexual marriages" are doomed to failure just as heterosexual marriages that are based entirely on lust are doomed to failure just the same. Why marry a homosexual couple when you know they won't stay together in the first place?

That's the question that I am asking you - why would someone who is only interested in the physical WANT to get married?

Most heterosexual men squirm at the idea of marriage. Men aren't the ones swooning about getting married - women are. Men aren't the ones wanting to settle down and have kids - women are. Most men don't want to get married until they find one particular person, and even then, some don't (George Clooney, for example.)

You, however, are claiming that these gay relationships are doomed to fail because they are only physical. Gay or Straight, if it is only about the sex, the person isn't going to want something permanent. They are going to want to be a "Sam Malone", sleeping with as many women as possible, not committing to one.

Yet, there are gay couples that want to be married.

So, how is that l-u-s-t?
Does lust want to make you get legally married now?

 

[PassionFruit]

That's the question that I am asking you - why would someone who is only interested in the physical WANT to get married?

Most heterosexual men squirm at the idea of marriage. Men aren't the ones swooning about getting married - women are. Men aren't the ones wanting to settle down and have kids - women are. Most men don't want to get married until they find one particular person, and even then, some don't (George Clooney, for example.)

You, however, are claiming that these gay relationships are doomed to fail because they are only physical. Gay or Straight, if it is only about the sex, the person isn't going to want something permanent. They are going to want to be a "Sam Malone", sleeping with as many women as possible, not committing to one.


Yet, there are gay couples that want to be married.

So, how is that l-u-s-t?
Does lust want to make you get legally married now?

Well, I wouldn't say all women.

 

[SeraphymCrashing]

Bingo! Just the words I was looking for!

Eh um, sexual attraction is what homosexuality is all about. It's not love, in other words, it's L-U-S-T. Homosexuality is all about the physical attraction; it has nothing to do with the emotional. Did you not get that from reading the article?

As a hetereosexual myself I find this to be ignorant and naieve of virtually every intimate relationship. They almost invariably start with a physical attraction. But even without the physical, homosexuals are still romantically attracted to the same sex in the same way heterosexuals are attracted to the opposite sex.

 

[SeraphymCrashing]

Heterosexuality and pornography often goes hand in hand.

Homosexuality and pornography always goes hand in hand.

In our sex saturated society, that is.

This article expresses very clearly what I have been trying to say for a long time, plain and simple.

This post is the same as the excrement that comes out of the back end of a bull.

 

[Jane_the_Bane]

Well, I wouldn't say all women.

And I wouldn't say all men, either.
Bah, sexist clichés.

 

[flicka]

Since this isn't the case, by a long shot, I would state that those people who do claim to "no longer be gay" are most likely pretending to be something they are not in order to try to conform to their religious beliefs or the beliefs of their families.

Religion turns alot of people into liars. That is a fact.

 

[Ave Maria]

Homosexuality is definitely wrong but not necessarily for the reasons pointed out in the OP.

 

[Ohioprof]

Homosexuality is definitely wrong but not necessarily for the reasons pointed out in the OP.

Then why is it wrong? I don't think that who I am is wrong.

 

[Ohioprof]

Heterosexuality and pornography often goes hand in hand.

Homosexuality and pornography always goes hand in hand.

In our sex saturated society, that is.

This article expresses very clearly what I have been trying to say for a long time, plain and simple.

Hmm. As a 52-year-old woman who never looks at pornography, I wonder what this makes me. I am a lesbian, and I have been a lesbian my entire life. But I have never had encounters with pornography. Perhaps that is still to come in my later years?

Sir, I recommend that you listen to the voices of a variety of gay people and refrain from making generalizations about us. I recommend that you listen and learn before you make sweeping statements like this one that are based on no real knowledge.

 

[The Bellman]

Homosexuality is definitely wrong but not necessarily for the reasons pointed out in the OP.

No, homosexuality is not "definitely wrong". You might believe it is wrong based on what you believe your god thinks; that's your problem. It certainly doesn't qualify as making it 'definitely wrong'.

 

[Bombila]

It astounds me that people who very apparently don't actually know any gay people (that they are aware of being gay) can make these bigoted pronouncements that all homosexuals are this thing or that thing, as if homosexuals were a different species or something.

To the OP: many have told you that gay people fall in love, want to marry (and do, in Canada, for example), and proceed to live ordinary lives as loving, committed to each other, couples, sometimes raising children. The people who say these things actually know gay people, have gay friends, and thus are in a position to know what they are like. So why do you, with apparently no first hand knowledge, believe you can just slander and condemn people by quoting bigoted, sensationalist articles?

It's as if I, not knowing any Christians, read an article that said members of a Christian cult beat and abuse their children, therefore, say I, all Christians beat and abuse their children.

 

[MarcusHill]

That old "there's no gay love, it's all lust" canard again. Even if these idiots don't know any gay couples, there are a number of gay people in the public spotlight who have been happily living with their partners for decades. Given the usual fascination of the tabloids with such things, I'm sure we'd have found out if any of them had been unfaithful. How many faithful monogamous decades-long relationships do you know of that are based on lust?

 

[selfinflikted]

Of course men and women are sexually attracted to one another, but it doesn't stop there, there is another dimension; it's called the emotional dimension, a dimension which does not exist in the homosexual realm.

So, are you saying that the emotional dimension that I know exists in my relationship really doesn't exist? Wow. I'm glad you know so much about me.

BTW, there are many heterosexual couples where the relationship is all about lust and they still get married. These marriages, however, more often than not, fail miserably.

Yet, we allow these marriages without question.

So if homosexuality is all about lust and nothing else, which it is...

False premise. This is 100% incorrect.

then "homosexual marriages" are doomed to failure just as heterosexual marriages that are based entirely on lust are doomed to failure just the same. Why marry a homosexual couple when you know they won't stay together in the first place?

You are the only one asserting that they won't "stay together in the first place". I happen to be in a long term relationship, and the majority of my friends are as well. You're just plain mistaken here.

Homosexuality is definitely wrong but not necessarily for the reasons pointed out in the OP.

Please explain why you believe homosexuality is "definitely wrong".

 

[LittleNipper]

Maybe you need to prove why homosexuality is right. Not being a Spartan, I really have no idea what homosexuality is all about. Clearly, it isn't about siring children.

 

[selfinflikted]

Maybe you need to prove why homosexuality is right. Not being a Spartan, I really have no idea what homosexuality is all about. Clearly, it isn't about siring children.

Homosexuality is about being attracted (physically, emotionally) to a member of the same sex... it's not that hard to understand.

 

[IzzyPop]

Maybe you need to prove why homosexuality is right. Not being a Spartan, I really have no idea what homosexuality is all about. Clearly, it isn't about siring children.

And that is the whole purpose of heterosexuality? I have some DINK friends that are going to be upset when they find this out...

 

[LittleNipper]

And that is the whole purpose of heterosexuality? I have some DINK friends that are going to be upset when they find this out...

It is the only logical purpose for sex of any kind ---- propagation of the species. Anything else is a disfunction ---- no matter how much "fun" to those participating.