As a transplanted New Yorker who lives in a small southern "city," I am often told that if I don't like the way our city or state is run
I should leave. The last person who told me that said that our state only wants outsiders who are willing to "assimilate" and "adopt our ways."
I recognize that I am a square peg in this town, and if I didn't have a sizeable community of friends who are also 'square pegs,' people who care about this community and recognize the need for change, I probably would have to leave.
I am also asked why I moved there if I didn't want to open carry guns and go to a non-denominational mega church--as if the only reason why people move there is a desire to take on the conservative mantle. I say that my husband lost an executive position in his mid 50's and, after several months of job search, found a job opportunity there--a place I had never visited and never even heard of.
And no, I am not black, or Hispanic, but I have stood in solidarity with dreamers and blacks, and participate in many progressive organizations from climate change to food pantries to police/community relations groups.
I take offense with Aldean's song because it was filmed in front of a court building where there had been lynchings and other racially charged events, and because I have experienced the open hostility of close-minded southerners in my own city.
Yes, I have found warmth and welcome, but TBT, it took several years for me to develop a supportive network of friends where I could be myself--longer than it had taken anywhere else I'd lived.
America is diverse. America is getting younger--and as it is, it is getting more progressive. You can try to gerrymander and suppress progressive votes, but you will lose.
We need to compromise and become more tolerant.
BTW, I "get along" with my conservative neighbors most of the time because I know my boundaries and what pushes their buttons. I walk on eggshells here and there and solid ground most of the time.