Think I'll sit down here for a bit... (9)

[ctay]

Having my ups and downs lately. Lots been going on here, long story.

 

[seajoy]

Having my ups and downs lately. Lots been going on here, long story.

I understand long stories....it will be another 30 days before things are straightened out in hubby's job. *sigh*

Do tell, ctay...........................

 

[ctay]

Last week DHR came took my sisters kids. They stayed with a grandma 2 days then friday DHR needed to move them, the grandma was looking for a babysitter and almost had one but they wouldn't wait, my sister called me and asked if I could take them, the next thing I know DHR is calling me, I told them I had to call my hubby to talk to him about it. Said she didn't have time. My brother's got them right now. He called yesterday but I was outside. I called him back, I kind of think he wants me to take the kids a 2 and 3 yr old both boys. I don't think I can handle it but they have 4 kids of their own and the youngest one is just a baby. If I don't do it or he doesn't do it they'll go into foster care. There's a lot more to the story, I think me and my brother both got my sister and parents upset yesterday. I don't know what to do or whats going to happen

 

[seajoy]

Last week DHR came took my sisters kids. They stayed with a grandma 2 days then friday DHR needed to move them, the grandma was looking for a babysitter and almost had one but they wouldn't wait, my sister called me and asked if I could take them, the next thing I know DHR is calling me, I told them I had to call my hubby to talk to him about it. Said she didn't have time. My brother's got them right now. He called yesterday but I was outside. I called him back, I kind of think he wants me to take the kids a 2 and 3 yr old both boys. I don't think I can handle it but they have 4 kids of their own and the youngest one is just a baby. If I don't do it or he doesn't do it they'll go into foster care. There's a lot more to the story, I think me and my brother both got my sister and parents upset yesterday. I don't know what to do or whats going to happen

Praying for your family, ctay. Sounds as though things are very scary right now. Don't feel guilty about asking for time to think about taking in two little ones.

 

[WildStrawberry]

Prayers for you Ctay! I couldn't imagine being in that situation!!!

 

[mrshoperose]

And ours with you. I do hope you return in time... I have learned SO much from you, and you have been one of the stalwart rocks of this forum. Whenever a doctrinal question comes up, you are one of the main folks I wait to hear from. I will miss that a great deal.

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Please know that you will be sorely missed, both for your fellowship with us and your faithful service to the Word in these forums.

ditto!

 

[mrshoperose]

Obesessive-Compulsive Disorder. I have it. Used to have it very bad. There are meds and therapy for it, but the fundamentalists don't believe in any of that - so they keep on suffering. They can't imagine how God could use these things to cure someone. It's very sad.

Oh. I didn't know. Sorry. And yes, that is very sad!

 

[QuiltAngel]

Oh ctay, that has to be a very hard decision for you. Prayers as you consider what is best for the children.

 

[MarkRohfrietsch]

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[seajoy]

Now what did we do?

 

[mrshoperose]

Hi everyone!

Sounds like everyone is enjoying the weather and having a good time! Yay!

The last couple of days have been REALLY hard for me. As you all know. But...I've found my silver linings and I'm *finally* in a good place with all of this.

Aggie is still missing. I'm still heart broken and hurting over it. But there are things that are coming to light now that I'm past the anger and extreme depression.

Aggie is microchiped. Any shelter that gets her (if they do) will scan her and she'll be brought back to us.

We have signs and fliers all over the place. People have begun to call, most of them are just calling to say "hey, I live in the neighborhood and I wanted to let you know that I'm keeping my eyes peeled for her! We'll bring her home!"

Silver lining number one...

My faith is growing again. I had a point where I was looking up overdose information on the various drugs I'm taking and that Mike is taking. But I'm not stupid and I'd never go that route. It was scary seeing how close I was though.

I'm not anymore. No desire, no plan. I'm GOD's child. He holds me in His hands. He gives me the faith I need to stay on track. I just have to listen. And listening is what I'm doing.

Silver lining number 2

I'm walking. Everyday since she's been gone, Mike and I have taken a walk to spread our scent so she can find us again. Even if Aggie is gone for good (please God no!!!), I'll have the health benefits from my walking. I already feel better physically and I'm noticing the mental "feel goods" as well.

So. I may not like what's going on, but I DO have to TRUST in The LORD my God. HE loves me. HE loves Aggie. He'll be with us both until we can be together again. Even if that's not until I get to the Rainbow Bridge.

Kae

Yay, Kae!

I am so happy to see you looking on the bright side again! I am continuing to pray for you and your kitty. I sincerely hope that you do find her, or she comes back on her own! In the meantime....

 

[PreachersWife2004]

(((HUGS for you Kae)))

and everyone else having a tough time right now.

 

[mrshoperose]

Last week DHR came took my sisters kids. They stayed with a grandma 2 days then friday DHR needed to move them, the grandma was looking for a babysitter and almost had one but they wouldn't wait, my sister called me and asked if I could take them, the next thing I know DHR is calling me, I told them I had to call my hubby to talk to him about it. Said she didn't have time. My brother's got them right now. He called yesterday but I was outside. I called him back, I kind of think he wants me to take the kids a 2 and 3 yr old both boys. I don't think I can handle it but they have 4 kids of their own and the youngest one is just a baby. If I don't do it or he doesn't do it they'll go into foster care. There's a lot more to the story, I think me and my brother both got my sister and parents upset yesterday. I don't know what to do or whats going to happen

for you and your family!!!

 

[MarkRohfrietsch]

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[MarkRohfrietsch]

Now what did we do?

Nuthin my dear friend, you are innocent as usual!

 

[MarkRohfrietsch]

Last week DHR came took my sisters kids. They stayed with a grandma 2 days then friday DHR needed to move them, the grandma was looking for a babysitter and almost had one but they wouldn't wait, my sister called me and asked if I could take them, the next thing I know DHR is calling me, I told them I had to call my hubby to talk to him about it. Said she didn't have time. My brother's got them right now. He called yesterday but I was outside. I called him back, I kind of think he wants me to take the kids a 2 and 3 yr old both boys. I don't think I can handle it but they have 4 kids of their own and the youngest one is just a baby. If I don't do it or he doesn't do it they'll go into foster care. There's a lot more to the story, I think me and my brother both got my sister and parents upset yesterday. I don't know what to do or whats going to happen

I am so sorry for the troubles you family are facing right now. I will pray for all concerned.

Mark

 

[synger]

Last week DHR came took my sisters kids. They stayed with a grandma 2 days then friday DHR needed to move them, the grandma was looking for a babysitter and almost had one but they wouldn't wait, my sister called me and asked if I could take them, the next thing I know DHR is calling me, I told them I had to call my hubby to talk to him about it. Said she didn't have time. My brother's got them right now. He called yesterday but I was outside. I called him back, I kind of think he wants me to take the kids a 2 and 3 yr old both boys. I don't think I can handle it but they have 4 kids of their own and the youngest one is just a baby. If I don't do it or he doesn't do it they'll go into foster care. There's a lot more to the story, I think me and my brother both got my sister and parents upset yesterday. I don't know what to do or whats going to happen

My prayers are with you and your family.

 

[seajoy]

Nuthin my dear friend, you are innocent as usual!

yeh, right.

 

[LutheranChick]

Hi everyone!

Sounds like everyone is enjoying the weather and having a good time! Yay!

The last couple of days have been REALLY hard for me. As you all know. But...I've found my silver linings and I'm *finally* in a good place with all of this.

Aggie is still missing. I'm still heart broken and hurting over it. But there are things that are coming to light now that I'm past the anger and extreme depression.

Aggie is microchiped. Any shelter that gets her (if they do) will scan her and she'll be brought back to us.

We have signs and fliers all over the place. People have begun to call, most of them are just calling to say "hey, I live in the neighborhood and I wanted to let you know that I'm keeping my eyes peeled for her! We'll bring her home!"

Silver lining number one...

My faith is growing again. I had a point where I was looking up overdose information on the various drugs I'm taking and that Mike is taking. But I'm not stupid and I'd never go that route. It was scary seeing how close I was though.

I'm not anymore. No desire, no plan. I'm GOD's child. He holds me in His hands. He gives me the faith I need to stay on track. I just have to listen. And listening is what I'm doing.

Silver lining number 2

I'm walking. Everyday since she's been gone, Mike and I have taken a walk to spread our scent so she can find us again. Even if Aggie is gone for good (please God no!!!), I'll have the health benefits from my walking. I already feel better physically and I'm noticing the mental "feel goods" as well.

So. I may not like what's going on, but I DO have to TRUST in The LORD my God. HE loves me. HE loves Aggie. He'll be with us both until we can be together again. Even if that's not until I get to the Rainbow Bridge.

Kae

God be with you, Kae. I can identify with the 'silver linings' which come out of tough times. How did God get so smart...

 

[LutheranChick]

Having my ups and downs lately. Lots been going on here, long story.

, ctay. What a difficult situation to be in. I hope everything turns out ok.