- Sep 25, 2005
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O.k so my fiance and I have been engaged for a little over a month and we're getting married within 2-3 months (hopefully), we talk alot and are very open but there are some issues i'm a little shy of bringing up, i know they will come up in premarrital counsling but i think we should talk about them just the 2 of us first. the main issue is kids! i sort of want them, i mean some times i want them and some times i don't, though i have a feeling within a few years of marriage i'll want them maybe only one child and maybe even adopting if i don't want a biological child. we already talked about money, bank accounts, sex and the protection we'll be using once we get married. he says he doesn't want kids at the beginging of the marriage and so don't i and he said that in the end we'll have at least 2. but once when i brough the convo up of how we'd raise them he said "maybe we should talk about it when the time comes..." i don't know if i agree with talking about raising kids when the time comes cause we may be simiular in our thinking or totally different when it comes to raising them.
what do you guys think? should i just leave the issue alone? if not whats the best way to aproch the subject to him?
what do you guys think? should i just leave the issue alone? if not whats the best way to aproch the subject to him?