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Things that TEST your patience

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Starcradle

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The belief that the virtue of making a truthful statement grants one the license to deliver it with crudeness, brutality and lack of compassion.

The sheer ignorance of failing to take into account that each individual has a personal history with different emotional triggers. What may appear to be a "melodramatic" response or mode of behavior to an outsider customarily makes perfect sense within the particular history of the person reacting in such a fashion. This does not mean the perceived "exaggerated" response is healthy, only that ridding oneself of certain wounds and automatic reactions is a process.

The foolish pride that hinders an individual from asking forgiveness.

When a person says, "Just get over it" or "You are foolish to feel such things" to an individual who is in turmoil.

Individuals who strip the love out of "tough love" and in truth are only promoting cruelty with no real interest in the other person's well being.
 
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