I had said that I had made my last comment on divorce and re-marriage on this thread, however you had me railroading poor old Paul to the index of the Bible. So I turned to the writings of Paul to see if he had actually preached another gospel than that of Jesus Himself or if I had missed something.
I noted that Paul followed the commands of Christ, he too advocated that marriage was for a life time. After the death of one or the other of the partners, he advised that it was okay for the living spouse to remarry. In none of Paul’s comments did he contradict Christ’s firm stand on marriage and divorce. I check a couple of our English translations and they all seemed to come across with the same translation of Paul’s comments. .
"And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife." KJV 1 Corinthians 7:10-11
"To those who are already married my command, or rather, the Lord’s command, is that the wife should not leave her husband. But if she is separated from him she should either remain unattached or else be reconciled to her husband. A husband is not, in similar circumstances, to divorce his wife." 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 Philips
"But to the married people I give charge—not I but the Lord—that the wife is not to separate from her husband.
But if she does [separate from and divorce him], let her remain single or else be reconciled to her husband. And [I charge] the husband [also] that he should not put away or divorce his wife." 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 Amplified Bible (AMP)
Here is another spot where Paul spoke to the subject at hand:
King James Version (KJV)
"So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man." Romans 7:3 KJV
" Accordingly, she will be held an adulteress if she unites herself to another man while her husband lives. But if her husband dies, the marriage law no longer is binding on her [she is free from that law]; and if she unites herself to another man, she is not an adulteress." Romans 7:3 Amplified Bible
"Accordingly she will be named no’eh-fet (adulteress) if, while her husband lives, she becomes another man’s. But if her ba’al (husband) dies, she is free from the Torah, so that she is no no’ehfet (adulteress) if she becomes another man’s." Romans 7:3 Orthodox Jewish Bible
Does that sound as if Paul said nothing about divorce and remarriage? While perhaps he was not as strong as Christ on the subject, one has to admit that he backed Christ on marriage and divorce as he did on all of the teachings of Christ.