Thanks for replying brother.
I will ask you nicely to please stop calling me brother. Thank you.
Why are theocracies immoral? What makes then immoral?
Please show the comparison as to why democracies are not immoral?
Please provide a statement or account that gives your reason is to how theocracies are immoral?
So if everyone in this theoretical country wanted theocracy, why would you consider theocracy as immoral?
This post is too long to talk about things that are not related to the OP. If you want to talk about theocracies and why they are immoral I am willing just start another thread.
No my dear brother, you missed the point I made and again framed the question to suit your misunderstanding.
I said "Imo, I believe my vote is useless and i cannot align my self with a political party. I believe I have no say under democracy, I can not choose who political parties choose as candidates no more then I can choose which monarch will rule."
I dont want more say than others. My point is I cannot see the difference between a monarch I have no say in and a political candidate that a party puts forward, that I have no say in.
Imo, I believe my vote is useless as I don't necessarily agree with the candidates that are put forward.
Not on topic. Again we can discuss in an other thread.
Well let's discuss it then brother.
For example Why, Why would you choose humanism based on Marxism as opposed to humanism based in deism?
What type of humanist are you?
I am a humanist based on reason. Not deism or Marxism. All humanists are doing is trying to figure out how best we should live.
How did you prove "Promises of immortal salvation or fear of eternal damnation both
Can not be demonstrated?
You didn't give me an explanation for why they are illusory and harmful?
I said they HAVE NOT been demonstrated to be true not CAN NOT be.
You didn't give me an explanation.
Why is immortal salvation harmful to humans? Why is eternal judgement harmful if if may be the truth?
Where does it say in the Bible you will burn forever for lying?
Again off topic.
Well the humanist Manifesto that you sent me has;
"Ethics
THIRD: We affirm that moral values derive their source from human experience."
So which authority should I agree with, the manifestos or yours?
That is up for you to decide.
Please explain to me why humankind has the potential, intelligence, goodwill, and cooperative skill to implement this commitment in the decades ahead but not globally and especially with religious beliefs being ubiquitous?
Well as we see here I am getting pushback on these commitments from theists. To fully implement something like these commitments we would need to convince people that they are good to adhere to. Since most people in the world are theists of some sort this is an uphill battle.
What are some examples of some rights being more important than others?
How do you grade one right being greater than another right?
Give me such situations to show the contrast?
Again off topic. Start another thread.
You previously said "Again, when a person in society is infringing on on another's rights then action should be taken to correct the problem."
I don't accept the authority of the un but will produce an article about so-called human rights.
Article 18
Everyone has the right to freedom of thought, conscience and religion; this right includes freedom to change his religion or belief, and freedom, either alone or in community with others and in public or private, to manifest his religion or belief in teaching, practice, worship and observance.
I have a right under the UN charter - which most western countries adhere to - that I can manifest my religion in public.
I want to preach the gospel to you - my religion tells me to go out into the world and spread the good news that Jesus died so you can be reconciled to God.
What can you think of, that would stop me or not allow me to preach the Gospel to you.
Could you tell me how this right is allowable or not allowable?
I have no problem with you preaching the gospel on public property. Although you may have to follow some reasonable rules depending on where you want to preach. I work on a university campus and we have preachers here regularly. To do this you must get a permit, not so they can allow or disallow your rights, but to make sure that the university police know so they can make sure their rights are protected and there is not another use of the space at that time.
No brother.
You said "We all love ourselves differently and I may not want to be treated the way you would treat yourself or love the way you love yourself."
That is a precedent, if you like I will give you the opportunity to recant it and re word your reply.
Are you suggesting something else or is that statement still valid?
Remember that this section of our dialogue is in context of "love thy neighbour as thyself".
You argued that we love ourselves differently so love thy neighbour as thy self is problematic?
I will clarify. I do think we love ourselves differently but my main point was that we do want to be treated differently than others at different times.
So does that mean also that when I say love thy neighbour as thy self that you also doubt it intentionally means to hurt someone else?
Yes.
If dignity and respect obviously mean no intentional harm, why does it not also apply to the word love?
But as you say, dignity and respect should not mean intentionally hurting someone. I'm going to include love because the word love is just as specific as dignity and respect.
It is specific but means different things.
So if i change "you" to "they".
Do unto others what "they" want done to them?
How does it do "nothing" for empathy?
Please give a justification as replying with nothing is not an argument. It's just a word.
I am not sure what you mean. If you don't care to know how another person wants to be treated, how is empathy even relevant in that situation?
But you said to do unto others as they want done to them. I want to be treated this way, why is it unreasonable now?
Why can you decide which way to treat me when you said you would treat me the way I want to be treated?
Because I can choose to not treat you that way. But at least with my golden rule I would know how you wanted to be treated. If you wanted to be treated in a way that if I treated you that way would violate my morality I would not do it.
Then it's virtue signalling?
Ho hum.
These aren't written in stone and can not be enforced.
I never said they could.
But none of these ways I want you to treat me is harmful to others or you.
I want you to treat me in such a way that I always have an advantage over you?
What advantage is that?
I want you to call me magnificent when ever you address me?
Ok
If I do wrong, i want to be treated as perfect and infallible to your laws?
Nope. This is where your wrongdoing has consequences because you may have violated someone else's rights.
I want to eat before you at all times? I want your neighbours to treat me like I'm the owner of your house?
Then you need to ask this of my neighbors, not me.
I want you to treat with me disrespect and if I fail I want you to whip me?
I won't do this because it violates my morals
Why is it unreasonable to treat me these ways I want to be treated?
See above. Each situation is different and may have a different answer. Situational ethics and all.
You now know.but yet you won't treat me the way I want to be treated.
This is a huge problem, you know what I want but won't give it to me, why?
I will unless it violates my morals.
To scare someone is nothing to do with morality. Try again and use an example that is within the context of morally treating someone.
Yes it does. What do you think morality encompasses? It is about determining right and wrong actions. It is wrong to intentionally scare a person that says they do not want to be intentionally scared.
The context is with reference to the principles of right and wrong behaviour. To scare someone has nothing to do with right and wrong behaviour. Please don't go off the rails.
That is a behavior.
What has sex got to do with love in regards to right and wrong behaviour?
Really? Beating you during sex is a behavior.
But why? You said that the golden rule does not work. You changed it to do unto others as they want done to them?
Why will you not do this for me if it doesn't hurt you or others?
Already addressed.
No it isn't. Its how she wants to be recognized for work she does. For some reason she has no confidence in front of a crowd. That's her problem and welcome to the real world, where if your job requires you to be in an environment where this stuff happens.
What she asked is more to do with confidence then right or wrong behaviour.
Do people get punished for praising ppl I public usually?
Why bring punishment into it? And how do you know it is a lack of confidence. She was not mad or upset she just requested that she did not want to be praised in that way. I see no reason why I would not respect her wishes. This is an example of my rule being superior to your golden rule. Seems like you would not respect her wishes and you would treat her like you want to treat her. That is what the golden rule comes down to.
See this is where things get better for me and harder for you.
I called you brother as a sign of respect. Calling you brother does not harm you or anyone else. I want to be treated the way that I want to be treated.
You have insulted me and hurt my feelings. Why will you not do unto others as they want done, I want to call you brother as a sign of respect?
You have just contradicted your main argument.
No. This is where your golden rule fails. If you call me brother as a sign of respect and I make it known that I don't want to be called that with my rule you would stop. With your rule you won't and that does not maximize well being of all. Seems you want to treat people as you want to treat them no matter what they actually want. With this example and the example of my staff member.
Well you are not treating me with dignity and respect. Like your staff member I now have an aggrievance you. I want you to treat me like I'm your brother and I want to call you brother. Where do we go from here?
I would hope that you have enough respect not to call someone a name they do not want to be called. I will call you brother all day. Is that how I need to address you? Or is it magnificant? Just tell me and I will address you as that.
Why can you choose? You said to treat others as they want to be treated. That's how I want to be treated.
What is your detailed argument that you should not treat me the way I want to be treated?
Already addressed above.
You said "We all love ourselves differently and I may not want to be treated the way you would treat yourself or love the way you love yourself."
Just to be clear, what is your objection. I will not accept an answer without argument and justification?
Already addressed above.
Why are they good commitments to live by. Ease provide justification and an argument?
These have shown to bring people together in a way without religion. Also notice in my OP I was not stating these were the most correct ones. But I think they are a good starting point for discussion for people that want to make our communities a better place to live. If you don't want to be part of that then ok then do your own thing.
So there are no consequences for my actions. These 10 commitments - or is it 12 - are pure virtue signalling.
We have been through this. There are consequences for your moral actions. There is not consequence for not following these commitments. No one is enforcing anyone to comply with these.
So you don't want to discuss the existance of God. I declare He exists and you will meet Him one day.
What do you think?
I never said that. I said that it is up to you to provide good evidence god exists. Please do in another thread.
So as long as I maximizes the well being of all, that makes me a good person.
People are neither good or bad. People do good and bad things. The actions people do are good and bad not the people.
What happens if, I maximize the well being of others but stop a transgender man (man to woman) from using the female toilets?
Justify how this maximizes well being of all.
Because they cannot be enforced, are not set in stone, can be altered and added to at whim and all it is, is an attempt to show other people that you are a good person by making a list of commitments that se fashionable.
What do you think?
What does enforcement have to do with it? Can a secular person discuss morality and ideas to make the world better without it being called virtue signaling? How do we go about doing that?
No. We are talking about right and wrong behaviour.
Your staff member has confidence issues in a real world scenario, if being praised in public embarrassed her then I don't know how she got this far in life.
Why the insults? Is that how the golden rules is applied? You have no idea why she wants to be treated as she does.
I reject your scenario but i would still like you to give me an instance of when you can hurt someone using "my" golden rule.
My staff member was a scenario. reject it if you like but that is a real life example.
Dude, you need to put more effort into this.
Please don't call me dude?
You still haven't answered this question. Can you or can you not?
How do you think you love yourself differently from me?
I clarified what I meant by this above.
So is it a no? You do not dislike yourself that much that you dont mind be racially abused.
I don't want to be abused.
No, you dont want to be persecuted.
I do not want to be persecuted.
Yes, you do mind me called brother by me. Why?
I do not want you to call me brother. I don't have to give you my reasons. Will you respect me enough to stop calling me brother? Or are you going to treat me as you want to treat me and keep calling me brother?