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If you doubt / reject God Himself you will be. And if you reject and doubt Him by not being obedient to what He or His Son tells us to do in the Bible you will be cut off.
Think this isn't tactful sister. He can't hear your Christian love through text. Although from what I have seen you seem loving, caring and kind, this seems a little abrupt.
 
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Doubts can come from the enemy too.
Exactly. From what I can see there is good doubt and bad doubt and often hard to differentiate which is which.
 
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Exactly. From what I can see there is good doubt and bad doubt and often hard to differentiate which is which.
You Father loved you enough to send His son. I am sure He loves you enough to erase those doubts. The ball is in your court too tho.

I am reminded at Jesus' kindness to Thomas after His ressurection :)
 
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Don't want to hijack but "certainty" can be just as problematic as doubt in my opinion. "Certainty" in Christians can lead to a lack of empathy for people who they are evangelising to. And I would seriously question what their "certainty" is based on.
 
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Sorry I get panicky! You're right.

But truth is sometimes hard right?
Shock factor helps shake pride?
I had to get hit over the head a few times to fall in line!
It does indeed. I prefer not to when I can't relate to them in person... I'm still getting over doing something similar to my dear real life friend. She is still getting over it too. The Christian in her means she holds no ill will but it has wavered her faith a little.

Thankfully BCP seems to be made of sterner stuff, being on here will have toughened him up to far worse. x
 
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It does indeed. I prefer not to when I can't relate to them in person... I'm still getting over doing something similar to my dear real life friend. She is still getting over it too. The Christian in her means she holds no ill will but it has wavered her faith a little. This was wednesday or Thursday but she has told me not to worry about it. Still holding on to a little remorse though

Thankfully BCP seems to be made of sterner stuff, being on here will have toughened him up to far worse. x
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I am sure He loves you enough to erase those doubts.
Sam I'm sorry but that sounds simplistic. Some of my doubts are healthy in my view. I feel my doubts can lead to a more authentic faith in the end.
 
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Sam I'm sorry but that sounds simplistic. Some of my doubts are healthy in my view. I feel my doubts can lead to a more authentic faith in the end.
Yeah you're probably right about it sounding too simplistic
 
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Don't want to hijack but "certainty" can be just as problematic as doubt in my opinion. "Certainty" in Christians can lead to a lack of empathy for Christians who they are evangelising to. And I would seriously question what their "certainty" is based on.
That's why I love my most quoted verse Proverbs 3:5-6 Got a phone cover delivered yesterday with that on too.
 
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Sam I'm sorry but that sounds simplistic. Some of my doubts are healthy in my view. I feel my doubts can lead to a more authentic faith in the end.

'In your view' is where the problem lies :(
We have no right to a view that's why we need to adopt God's only that is truth because He is perfect.
Worldly wisdom, logic, pride, is all folly.
 
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'In your view' is where the problem lies
You might be right.
See. I have enough self-doubt to admit I might be wrong. But the way you are posting is you are absolutely sure it is God talking through you. I could never be that certain.
 
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You might be right.
See. I have enough self-doubt to admit I might be wrong. But the way you are posting is you are absolutely sure it is God talking through you. I could never be that certain.

Made me laugh!! Thanks for that. Yeah I get told I'm dogmatic I don't know how to be tactful but I don't mean to be like in your face. and I want to share that joy with others because it's a relief to me that I want others to have.
I am certain that God is perfect but I don't think about if it's Him talking through me or me talking I know that makes no sense lol!
It must be me talking because the Holy Spirit wouldn't sin with the tongue and I do a lot. I come across as self righteous in my enthusiasm but I'm really not in person I am shy and insecure. So I boast of God like Paul because He is the only thing worth boasting about!
 
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I have all three from time to time. :/

The Lord is chipping those away from me though. I thank Him so much that as I put His words into practise the old logic disappears.
 
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I have none of those, oh except pride . And it is folly I agree.

But see ... as I come across as certain God is talking through me your posts come across to me as full of worldly wisdom and smugness :(
 
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But see ... as I come across as certain God is talking through me your posts come across to me as full of worldly wisdom and smugness :(
That's because we can't hear only read.
 
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Don't want to hijack but "certainty" can be just as problematic as doubt in my opinion. "Certainty" in Christians can lead to a lack of empathy for Christians who they are evangelising to. And I would seriously question what their "certainty" is based on.
There is indeed a place for humility, especially.

I am reminded of a short story we read in English Lit which seemed to underscore a belief that PERFECT belief without a shadow of questioning is the Source of salvation. It's very subtle. But that is not the historic understanding of Christianity.

We must not reject God. But perfect belief, like perfect theology, is not the source of salvation. Trusting God in spite of our doubts is much more profitable to our souls.
 
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